Grass_Hopper

This kind of activity is absolutely forbidden on here... Mot mentionning how dangerous.

Make sure to include name and handle of the provider, general area and phone number. There's also a certain cowboy wich could be interested in the details.

Je me sens privilégiée de faire partie de ton entourage, Cato.

Bon anniversaire!

Much kisses and best wishes!

Hi!,

I will be hosting Tuesday / Wednesday from an all new location, in the Laurentians, accessible from the highway 40 / 344.

This opening is only a soft, therefore I will be offering a special rate.

PM to get détails!

The ''verified independant'' tag makes it very hard for a couple to advertising independently (?), but if you are looking for a ''He'' provider, ask us with the details. Some of the providers will be able to provide you with info... ;)

What really would help is not photos, or technology, or whatever techniques LE would use.

The solution to human trafficking lies really in the underground community.

Education on what are the signs of human trafficking, clients to be able to turn a sp down if he thinks she is too young, and also, to be able to detect those who encourage it.

Guys, some of you have to put their pants back on, and be able to say: ''No, you look too young.'' instead of wondering all session long if she is 18.

You are part of the solution.

No news on here is usually bad news, especially after 3 weeks...

Found another ad stating ''party friendly'' which usually means drugs. To access the ad, type her phone number on Google. First result that comes up.

Good luck on this one!..

Is it really a good thing?

Although I salute the alternative, this would allow LE to compare our pictures aswell.

Do I really need my photos to be compared by LE to see what hotel I'm working from? Absolutely not...

Seriously, if you can't tineye the photos you should get off backpage.

Harsh, but still a very good warning, so here's the link to Tineye:

http://tineye.com/

Just copy and paste the url of the image in the big white box, at the top of the page.

It will give you any used copy of a photo all over the net, on what website and date they have been used.

You should really get to that if you are going to look elsewhere than Lyla...

Sorry for highjacking the thread...

Ouf, been there...

Being ''awaken'' enough to see reality as it is is a quality I truly appreciate, and I can see eventhough you are perfectly aware of your situation, you're looking forward, and on a positive note.

I don't know about you (we are about the same age), but I believe a woman is truly in her prime in her thirdies. Not only beatiful, sexy, and raced, but also strong, almost powerful, determined, but most of all, really getting to know what are needs really are. I may not yet know what I want in life, but I sure do know what I don't...

Anyways, what I try to say is you may have the impression of starting over, but you don't. It hurts, but it will heal. And bring you a whole lots of new opportunities...

*Hugs*

I hope you are aware that party usually means drugs.

Add to that 16 hits on Tineye, some dating from 2013 as a transexual escort in New Jersey, and two years later as a female escort in Long Beach ( http://tineye.com/search/fb5f9ddafee1fc842f541821ca6f3e74dfa2a0fe/ ) and you have the perfect recipe for a disaster...

I think TERB is not SP friendly at all, unless you are a paying member. Bashing is allowed, aswell as false reviews and drama.

Also, MOD here is strict. Sometimes, it can be very frustrating, but he's out there, watching over us. On TERB, if you are not an advertising SP, good luck to have support.

The level of politeness and respect is not even comparable. For the three times I've been on there since 2009, it always have been a bad experience.

And last, the requests that make me the most uncormfortable (and believe me, there are not much), are all coming from there.

Most banned members from here are ending on there. Says a lot.

LYLA (CERB) or its affiliates are really the only ressources I feel cormfortable with...

I haven't really see, if ever, that kind of post. Not from taboo or lack of interest, but because nobody really engage in that subject.

Lots of providers are indentifying themselves as bi-sexuals, or straight lesbians, so the offer is there...

Would be nice to read something from another point of view. ;)

... it is my standard practice to show the lady my passport if I haven't met her before ...

I would never show my passport to anybody. Ever. I wouldn't even mention it to a stranger. This would make me a target of interest. As for IDs, Maybe I would keep one out if requested, but my wallet stays in the safe. Always.

Also people have sent me rent money via TD and it also shows their name in the subject line.

It wouldn't even surprise me. TD is my bank, and even if they are a little more expensive than the majority, their safety and security measures are, I believe, almost flawless. So having the sender's legal name on the ''e-receipt (?)'' would be one of them... Makes sense.

Although your idea of a shared list is very good, I would be frisky about such a list, due to privacy matter.

Of course, if a sp is inquiring about a client regarding nc/ns, I will be 100% honest. But to call everyone I know to complain is just a no-go.

For the first no-show, I would give the benefice of the doubt. But at the second, no wonder what justification a client can come with, I blacklist.

I did not have a single ns in over two years, and I gatter mostly to my regulars, rarely accepting new clients.

This can bring an sp's buisness down and has to be dealt with seriously...

I don't want to bash on any religion. With time, I have come to understand certain precepts of the Catholic religion (I've been raised by a Wiccan mother and a traditional Native father), and realized that those beliefs have nothing to do with religion, but it is a wonderful way to really scare people.

To understand, we have to go back in time...

Back in the early ages of religion, there was so many illness that were undetectable, not speaking about a cure... Lots of victims, in part due to sex-work. Back in the 1700s-1800s and at the beggining of 1900s. Society didn't have those structured medical cares we have today, and engaging in activity with a prostitute would mean getting infected almost everytime.

Prostitutes were worste than fleas, and no way to control them.

And the almighty Church came in. At the time, most decisions, if not all, had to be approve by the holy organiztion, and to get rid of the problem, they established a moral barrier (you'll go to Hell, prostitutes are witches, ...) to discourage hard working men from frequenting places such as brothels.

Even if I don't approuve the means, the reason is... Well, reasonnable.

We are now in 2016, and things have change. Can we ask the Federal government to keep up with society?

Nowadays, as an escort, the main complaint I receive is the lack of intimacy my clients are suffering from, often due to a crazy life beat. Lots of PTSD too. Finally, pretty much all that can be related to stress.

So, to the decision makers:

Instead of holding me back without any reason, oppressing my dear clientele with lies, deception and entrapment, due to old beliefs dragged by a society who refuses to keep up with its time - and needs, why can't we be considered as functional members of society?

As a mother would, I care;

As a friend would, I listen;

As I wife would, I love;

And as a professional, I remain as safe as I can, and at the same time, protect my clients (healthwise and others...)

As for what happens behind closed doors, can you keep your freaking laws out of my panties???

Grass_Hopper: Nikki Astronaut

My real name: Kitty Jizz

But what if my real name is actually a very nice name???

Do I have to disclose my real name, or am I good only with my e-mail adress linked to my bank account?

Thank you so much for the advice!

So to make things clear:

- Watch the comments when receiving payment;

- Watch for fraud;

- Accept only from reputable hobbiests.

Reasonnable enough!

You make me feel way more cormfortable requesting them, as they may become part of my regular screening.

As for BitCoins, I wish there was a point for me to accept them, but I have nowhere to spend it (no ads running), but it is a wonderful idea!

How do you feel about these?

I live quite far for an outcall in the Ottawa-Gatineau-Hull area (about 1h30, including a boat trip), so I thought a good way to get there, and have a guarantee that there's a compensation waiting at the end for me (too much fake calls).

Well, I just refused a client because he refused to abide by my rules, regarding this matter, because he had privacy issues with the whole thing.

Being also new to the process, but having so much requests, I was wondering what's your thoughts on these? Would you trust a reputable SP with that method of payment, if she was collecting the password only once with you?

PM if you don't feel at ease by replying publicly...

Could be... ;)

..........

It all started with ''For those I loved'' (''Au nom de tous les miens''), and then, ''Human House'' (''La maison humaine'')...

Martin Gray is born April 27, 1922, in Varsovie, and died April 25th 2016, in Belgium. He survived the Holocaust, and shared his story with the world in a way where we can still have hope for a world gone to s**t.

He has suffered treamondous events in his life, including the loss of his family during the war, and then, again, in a house fire. Twice, all gone.

I had the chance of spending couple of hours with the man, in front of a coffee in Montreal. And I have learned sooo much.

Martin is the one that made me realize that there wasn't two sides on a coin, but to open my mind enough to see the third side.

He also thought me that no matter how bad, painful and cruel life can be, sun is always rising somewhere...

Thank you Martin for these marvelous lessons that allows me to continue, head up, to lead a life filled with challenges, and always hold tight to my convictions, always in a way to respect who I am.

Thank you my friend for the difference you have made in my life. You will always have a special place in my memories...

You don't have to feel ashamed of falling for your first SP.

Be careful, tho. Is your service provider aware of what you feel for her? If so, what does she thinks about it?

Maybe a little chat with her, sharing how you feel for her, and see how she feels about it would be your next step...

We are sure courtiseanes, but also great councellors...

P.S.: To echo what Peachy said, respecting her bounderies is mandatory. You wouldn't want to scare her off, or put her in an akward situation...

And man, do I have to give the thumbs up to MA. It takes some serious strenght just not to fall off!

So Nuru and body slides providers: Two thumbs up!

Have a nice day!