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nelle

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  1. I understand what you mean, and while a client can get an anonymous cell phone/identity etc really what the "no blocked number" (in my perspective), is the willingness to comply to the requested protocol of the lady. If a client is unwilling to follow the most basic rule, I feel that indicates that they are less likely to follow other rules that are outlined in the session.

     

    If somebody is reluctant to follow the most basic protocol, how are we to trust they will follow any others? It works both ways as well, if a lady you are contacting pays no attention to the discretionary rules/protocol you ask for etc, how are you to trust her further?

     

    A little consideration goes a long way, both ways.

     

    Just my two cents....

    :bigclap: well said zoe zoe

  2. This isn't much of a rant . I just wanted to put it out there . I wanted to for awhile but didn't.

    Mabye it's just me , but do some of you find the restricted caller thing annoying? Don't get me wrong , I do understand that you guys like your privacy just as much as us sp's do. I respect that.

     

    I don't mind answering certain questions such as services, rates and appearance . When a guy wants to know my Incall location I ask him to call me or txt me with a number showing only for safety reasons. Most guys are very respectfull of that request and do so. I just don't like when a guy is rude and hangs up on you , or asks vulgar questions , like you can tell when someone is making a serious inquiry or just playing around.

     

    I don't mind if guys call me restricted but at least be respectfull and understandable.

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  3. Unfortunately I'll be gone for awhile before Christmas so if I don't get the chance then I just wanted to say to everybody here SP and Pooner alike and even you MOD ( lol)

     

    I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and Best wishes to everyone for the new year to come.

     

    ( Don't get too drunk everyone During the holidays , but if you do,

    " Have one For me" :chug:( lol )

     

    Best wishes and cheers.

    Tina DD Doll

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  4. I never had the pleasure of you trying to contact myself, so in all fairness I don't know if your a serial canceller or not.

    However , I never heard of a re-booking fee before but now that I have I don't think it's such a bad idea as long as there is some sort of un-written rules.

    I think when the shoe is on the other foot ( which from the looks of some posts on both *erb boards) . When you hear of an SP canceling right at the last minute or not answering her phone or buzzer when you arrive most likely you would not try to contact that girl again.

    Now Guys that cancel last minute or will make appts and just simply not show up is one of the downer points of being in this profession and it's just goes with the game. Gentlemen should take into mind most Sp's get all dolled up , looking and smelling good for you guys, getting any toys /costumes etc. together for your requests and lighting candles etc. etc. etc.. So it kind of makes us upset when guys cancel at the last minute.

     

    I mean life happens, Shit happens. Guys may get last minute jitters . There are lots of understandable factors. Just a simple courtesy call /apology would make all the difference.

     

    All in all , I think the cancelation fee is a good idea. It will root out the guys that are just plain playing around from the more sincere guys.


  5. I get alot of emails as well as phone calls from guys looking to book an appointment and thier main concern is thier appearance. For me apperaance doesn't matter.

    I do have expectations like I would appreciate good hygiene, nice attitude. Just treat me like you would want to be treated. Somtimes there are the shy guys , but i'm a shy girl too( yes there is such thing as a shy service provider lol) but that is understandable.

    I would prefer a middle age /older gentleman that knows how to treat a lady then some young fabio looking guy that will treat me less than a human being .


  6. It's been a while since I last posted, I have kind of a weird question

     

    My mom damaged her upper back and shoulder. She has been going to physio but it doesn't seem to work. I told her to go to a masseuse.

    From reading here on cerb , I know that you guys like to go to massage studio's. I am trying to find one that would be good and what better feedback than an actual first hand feedback. .

    So if any of you have any recommendations ( ponners or sp's)on massage please reply.

     

    PS . I mean an actual massage facility ( not rub n' tug) and she is not looking for happy endings . I don't even think she knows what that means. LOL

     

    Thanks xoxoxo


  7. Originally posted bt Livenudecats

    My comments are not and should not be taken as criticism of this board or lobbying for change. I was simply trying to illustrate that in many cases a negative review when warrented can be quite useful. As a business owner I realize that all complaints fall into one of 3 categories. The frivolous ones from clients God couldn't make happy, the minor ones often the result of miscommunication and the real ones that result when my employees or I don't do our job.

     

     

    Originally posted by Samantha Evans

    There are a few legendary campaigns that were launched against specific companions where the sole intent was to wreck the reputation of ladies who had long been credited with giving first-class care and attention. Men not only wrote highly critical reviews, but also encouraged others to engage in attacking the companion in order to wreck her reputation, sometimes just because they could do it. Sadly, some of these hate-campaigns succeeded: the companions concerned saw their business go up in smoke for no good reason and without having recourse to protect or defend themselves against their attackers. Two women I know started over, inventing new names, new websites, the whole bit--requiring literally hundreds of unpaid hours to get back to work. Others have not been so resilient.

     

    Very young, stunningly beautiful women who are newcomers to the sex trade get a lot of attention. If they have level heads and have done their homework adequately, they can make a killing in their first year, especially if their reviews are good. False reviews that are highly flattering are likely to be written by board members who want to advertise that they had a romp with the latest, hottest lovely. Reviews that exaggerate negative points are also likely to be written, though

     

     

    I hear you both. let me just say " I know exactly what you mean."


  8. (I had the utter temerity to bring 3 human beings of your gender into the world), call me an old hag (how dare I be middle aged and think I'm still attractive) or rate me (what? I'm a side of beef?).

     

     

     

    . My props to any woman who brought babies into this world. I have not yet but I seen it happen with my own eyes and I think any woman who did that and has the hardest yet most fullfilling job in the world ( being a mother) shlould deserve the utmost appreciation


  9. I agree with both rubintugger and samantha evans. .

     

    I do think it is kind of somthing you should be carefull of with the whole paper trail thing when it comes to credit cards /debit. Especially if the wife or significant other checks the mail. I think that rubintugger is trying to say that it could be sketchy for both parties. The girl could get ripped off if the guy decides to cancel the transcation and the guy could have problems with the paper trail.

     

    I think that alot of women in this biz take debit and credit to cater to EVERYONE. That is why and it is all about the trust and the reputation. I think if the girl has a rep for being honest than there shouldn't be an issue.

     

    Alot of us pay our taxes and basically if it wasn't for the city and province . This could be a legit thing. The only thing that doesn't make us "legal" is that we don't have a license.

    If you have ever tried to apply for a license to escort , you would understand . The city expects you to get a zoning license ( 1200 $) and they have to approve of the location. Then you have to pay for the actual license ( 5000) and every year after it's 1500. Then you have to post a notice outside the approved loctaion to notify the public that you are hosting an escort service out of that location . Finally you have to go publically in front of a commitee of city officals to plead you case of why you want to do this. This is only for a private escort license not a agency. I don't know to many sp's who have to time or want to go through all that.

     

    Last but not least. I agree that this whole SW bashimg isn't unfair. I knew alot of girls who worked the streets and up untill 5 years ago you could go to the mount and the exchange and find girls who were dressed to nines anfd stiil charged 150 200.

     

    Alot of those girls are underage , exploited and addicted to drugs. It's very sad but they are still people who have lives and some of those girls go missing and dead. Look at the latest few that most likley dies from working on the streets. The last one was 19 .


  10. I have to agree with Soliel on the fact that the other boards do have a lot more bashing then here . That is one of the reasons I like cerb alot. . I can understand sometimes the frusteration with you guys and not being able to say everything that you want to say , But like alot of others say " If you don't see many good things said , then it is probally for a reason."

     

    I can actually vouche for what Soliel says . I personally had to deal with being bashed on perb. I was bashed from two guy. One who hadn't seen me in like two years and one I wasn't even sure I saw at all.

    It was an issue with my weight and my pics. I was posting 165 which mabye because I was partying alot it could fluctuate mabye 165 /170 and my pictures, Which had to be taken down and I had to take new pics and verify .

    It was a big drama all because some guy was more picking on me than anything. Alot of guys like my pictures amd were upset and thought it unfair that they had to be taken down . Anyways it became more of a grotesque spectacle than anything. Both mods on Cerb and Perb, as well

    as ec were more than kind and understanding . Not too mention the many guys who backed me up.

     

    All in all I am all about being fair and I have had many great reviews and not so great ones but at least the guys who wrote the not so great ones were fair , honest and had some class.

     

    The reason I 'm writing all this is I agree with both Soliel and you guys . From an sp point of view alot of girls don't really like to advertise on perb because of all the bashing going on and don't want to be victims of it . Some even went as far as to make rude comments about a really reptuable girl and she is like one of Canada's best from what I hear. And for the guys point of view yeah it would be great if you could write more detailed reviews but I think that is why the mod on here is trying to avoid the drama.

    The mod on perb is cracking down on the bashers and Perb is great if you travel out west because it's HUGE out there. I for one like both boards but I dont get as nervous to advertise on cerb as I do on winnipeg Perb.


  11. I have to admit, in my party days I was bad for that . I would have every intention to make myself available but would be too sick to do so.

     

    What kind of girl are you looking for?

     

    I think that if your looking for a younger girl , alot has to do with the party and not taking things seriously. I made the same mistakes up untill just recently , but that is only because I'm not 19 or 20. I'm 26, A little older , wiser and been there done that.

    You will notice as I have that the majority of the really great ones are in their late 20's - 40's . I'm not saying all the younger girls are bad , there are some good ones.

     

    I'm just stating from my experience.

    Now I actually will post that I am not available . Things do come up in life. I think that alot of girls don't realize that everything is so based on the internet that they fail and see the importance of answering emails. I also think some girls don't realize that txting is sometimes more prefered since it is a little more discreet. I never realized any of this up untill my last trip to Regina when I ran into a "certain Great one" and she taught that.

     

    I don't always offer incalls . I only provide cetain days but I have them posted. I agree that it must be frusterating to guys who just want a good girl to have a great time. We have a surplus of sp's . It shouldn't be so bad that guys have to wait for the traveling girls because the girls in winnipeg dont want to take things serious.

    I think we have it pretty good here . We charge alot more for alot less and you guys are generous enough to make us happy.

     

    I'm not trying to be hypocritical or bash winnipeg. I am speaking as a girl who used to Fuck the dog all the time. My main priority was to have fun and make life a party not actually taking this buissness seriously. God knows I wouldn't be able to get away with that at a regular job.

     

    I think that if you are looking for a more reliable girl . The traveling girls are allways a go and try to look for someone mabye mid 20's they come in all shapes and sizes. or if it's younger you are looking for inquire ( that is what cerb is here for.)

     

    good luck


  12. OMG LMFAO :icon_exclaim:, you guys get those too!!. there is like a nigerian and another one about those 500'000 split:roll:. Yeah I just ignore them, And yes Soliel that is the guy . I kind of figured it out. Well at least it got me thinking about the whole email money thing.

    Personally I would just like to stick with what I'm used to " the whole cash in the envelope thing" . This doesn't discourage me though. I'm sure there is lot of legit , honest guys who like to pay with debit or credit. It's to bad people like our friend phillip whatever his last name ruins it for alot.


  13. It' s a funny thing that fourtunateone brought the whole scam thing up. The reason I was inquiring about this was because there is a guy who wanted to book an appt with me , He says he is from the U.K. We emailed back and forth and he wanted my information to wire the deposit fee. I told him to confirm by giving me a phonecall ( a txt is usually okay) but since I am giving him some personal info about me , I think the call should be made. He said that he would , but he never called or emailed me back , so I think that is suspicious.

     

    I would like to offer the whole interact , credit card thing for those who would like pay with it. Me personally, I like the cash thing. It is simple and there is no paper trail.

     

    If I do p[rovide this , I think after reading everyone's replies , I would do the email/internet thing. It seeems the best and most popular way to go.

    Thank you all for your help , I appreciate it .

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