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JuliasUndies

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  1. Or..It could be she has enough respect for you that she doesn't want to ruin it. Don't go on too many more friend dates before you let her know she drives you crazy and you love her/like her and if by then she doesn't feel the same way let her know you can't see her anymore. This will force her to make a decision and who knows maybe she might realize she likes you after all and doesn't want to live without you.

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  2. The discounted feeling is not a good feeling and I avoid it because it makes me feel bad about myself compromising my self worth.

    The other day I had this happen, we exchanged about 15 pm's in all. He then explained he had little money but he really liked me and hoped I'd see him. I apologized and explained that I wasn't able to help him and that I do hope he finds what he was looking for elsewhere. He messaged me back a few times and I never responded.

    Politely let them know you can't help them and leave it at that.

    You are worth more than X amount.. Don't let yourself be compromised for -X amount.

     

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    WIT, you beat me to it.

     

    My worst experience was with someone I had seen only once before. He claimed that he saw an ad where I was offering a half hour for $100. I told him that he must be mistaken. He continued to force the issue (and still occasionally texts me) and I finally had to tell him to no longer contact me.

     

    I had this happen where he claimed I said a much much lower amount and now he was standing in my home as I was politely explaining that there was a mistake and that he should just leave instead...He then demanded cab fare to reimburse him for the "mistake", started going through my stuff.. It was awful. Now I am Crystal clear!


  3. Reminds me of the miniature killer from criminal minds, wonder if they have miniature bombings? As cool as this is..Children are starving in Germany and someone builds a 4million dollar miniature set? Is it edible?

     

    Did you catch the lady with her top off hanging out the window in the red light district and the couple having sex in the van? hahaha


  4. You know, if there's one thing we can definitely conclude from this thread, it's that maybe there's a tendency to perceive "the human race" as too monolithic. Look at how many people here are putting up their hands and saying "no, way, I don't fit the mould". And that's just the ones who posted already; for each person who contributed to the thread, imagine how many others could relate but have so far stayed silent.

     

    I do know a number of people who fit the prevalent "mainstream humanity" stereotype: materialistic, narcissistic, driven by consumerism and lacking introspection and insight. They live their lives like people on t.v. commercials. I'm not one of them. Though who would recognize and admit it if they were?

     

    But I know a lot of people who have confronted and largely overcome challenges of self-esteem, prolonged social pain and alienation, and from that struggle found their individuality. They're people who have carved out separate social niches for themselves, and these are the folks I find most interesting.

     

    There are lots of us here. What a shame we're harder to recognize when we pass by each other out in the world.

    Many of us are on the same track and feeling this way in the forum, but I don't don't it's a coincidence. This industry is a place, a corner of a very real reality..A place to escape and can edit out the B.S in life. Two humans can get together and share something worth sharing, something amazing. We can be free and happy and leave the challenges behind us, if even for a moment. We can be honest,trusting and benefit one another in a positive way and on no one's expense. A good time to be human together in a place where we can feel alive and feel like we should. Perhaps many of us are here on the same account.

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  5. Once upon a time someone's boyfriend found out what I do and wasn't very happy with that idea and being around his girlfriend..He posted an ad on craigslist with my phone number and name...Before a nice man pointed out that my name was on Craigslist and I was aboe to take it down, I got about 200 phone calls!!! "Same context, who is this, how did you get this number, I get calls all the time wtf?"


  6. I thought they were already invented and the other day I went searching for them at my local drug store. I like the idea. I bet they are cold when sprayed on, sounds exciting. Contraceptives are far too expensive. I use VCF's (Vagina Contraceptives) and they are way too expensive, I tried the spray version that comes with a tube to attach to the tube and ending up with a mess on my ceiling. In my opinion contraceptives should be much cheaper and I bet these spray on condoms will be too expensive and ruin the mood. Good luck Euro's!


  7. I used to feel part of the race, part of it all when I was young and carefree..

    In a small world of fun with friends and being taken care of. Now that I'm grown I see it much differently. So differently I stay in my small world in a child like state once again being the only thing I can do to stay human.

    The human race is just that, a race in two ways. First it's a race in a sea

    of many races and second it is a race to the finish. The word "race" dates back to the thirteenth century to refer to any ethnic group or nation and the current concept of "race" dates back to the seventeeth century. I don't know how the human race lived before I Was born 29 years ago, but, race has been brought to my attention as something much different than nations, ethnic background, colours, religions ect..

    Growing up we were taught that we were superior and top of the food chain, this human race of ours.

    I would not categorize myself as a part of the human race. Seems like more and more people are in a race for themselves, trying to get whatever they can however they can before the end of the race. Getting ahead in this race requires motives that I do not possess. Motives and tacticle skills that are beyond my ability to utilize them. I look around at all the people and I see people turning off that special trait called "caring" in order to gain what they want out of life. Respect for elders has deminished, caring for others is a joke, honesty is a quaint antique that has long since retired. People blaming others instead of taking responsibility.

    Sure, not everyone is part of this race of humans that may work like this..I know that..That's what keeps me sane enough to keep going .Hope.I've pulled over and out of the race, and I don't know how long I'll be at this rest stop for. It's quiet here, peaceful. It's an honest haven...

    It's just too unsettling for me to go on in a race or world if you will that operates in way that I cannot get so low to demean myself and others and pretend "I don't care" or people don't matter, "It's just business" just doesn't cut it.

    Far too many humans part of this race are more of a sub-human culture and the farthest thing from humanity.

    There is a dying breed out there of good honest individuals that have a heart and care for others. You can tell this breed from others because they struggle with humanity floating between insanity refusing to give in to the "normal" acceptable reality and yet still have to be surrounded by it. These people care for others, are honest and loving..They don't gossip or plot to take down one another, slander and hurt each other for fun or to get ahead in the race.

    Sleeping at night doesn't come easy for me..I can't change the world and I can't accept it, so I created my own world and in my own world I will stay-away from this plagued race.

    I do have hope

    I do have hope

     

     

     

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  8. I went to the doctor today to inquire about the B12 shot, he wrote me a prescription on the spot (no low B12 required)..Then I filled it at the pharmacy, they gave me a little vile of 1000mcg's of Vitamin B liquid to bring myself back to the doctor. My doctor said I can go every week. Best part is that it's covered by all drug plans and ohip.

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