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    This can be a tricky topic for a hobbyist in dealing with an SP as some seem to like it and others are turned off by it. So, I am wondering what the edict is for this? I know when you get involved in the heat of passion that things can be said, or shouted out, but should this be discussed with the SP prior to the session as the last thing I want to do is offend her and ruin the mood.

  3. Posted

    Does anyone know if extra large condoms exist? I know of the magnum ones, but I am wondering if there are ones larger as I am tired of having to constantly worry about the condom coming off when I am with a SP (and no I am not trying to brag on how big I am as this is a legitimate concern for me!).

     

    Any help would be appreciated.

     

    Thanks

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    Well I had carpet glued throughout my whole basement also directly onto the cement floor and I removed it and put down some nice laminate with the proper underlay. Unfortunately, the only way I knew how to get the carpet up was to start in a corner and pull it up and then pull towards the centre. It can be quite a lot of work to do, but if your carpet has been there for a while, the glue may not be as strong and it may come up quite easily. If you have a friend that can give you a hand you'll be amazed at how easy it can come up when you both start tugging on it!

     

    Good luck!

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    Well, I just finished my spring cleaning of my car to get all of the salt and little rocks and sand that collect inside of my car every winter. I find it ironic that we can put a man on the moon, build computers, and a lot of other stuff, but we can't invent something to take the place of carpet in cars! It is almost impossible to get sand and little pebbles out of carpet and even if you steam them, now I have a wet carpet on my car floor which is great for you guessed it....rust!

     

    So, maybe instead of trying to build a pipeline to the states we should invent something that replaces carpet in cars......I bet it would be worth millions and cut down on the swearing every time someone tries to clean them!

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    Peachy, I you want to be a safe gfe go ahead. I've been in the industry for a few years, have NEVER done a bbbj, and do more than fine. Yes i've had some backlash against it, even been pressured during appointments. I've received verbal abuse and the like, for not providing it. So i'm not going to lie to you and tell you its all peaches an cream being a safe gfe, some people feel entitled to certain services from sp's, we should just do what they want because they are the customer and they want it, so you should give it to them.

     

    However,all hope is not lost. On restructuring my business, i found something interesting.As I prefer to meet with clients who want to spend time with ME, not so much as the services i provide, i found that clients who want to connect on a a deeper level aren't too concerned with menu so much as experience and what kind of connection you can provide.

     

    In my case i like to provide a whole enriching meal instead of just one main appetizer, and i enjoy the company of gents who appreciate this about me. There are many gents out there who subscribe to the same school of thought.

     

    Your health is the most important thing, and I'm tired of hearing the same song by sp's saying they want to provide all safe services but can't for loss of business. Yes you will lose business, but you will gain a different client base who appreciate a lady who cares enough about both parties health enough to protect herself.

     

    Your clients that genuinely care for you and your well being will stick by you. They others, well.......

     

    I think this whole issue is a matter of one's health. A lot of folks believe that BBBJ's are fairly safe and that is not necessarily true, the same with DATY. If a SP sees several clients each month and provides BBBJ for each of them it will be only a matter of time before she will catch something and may not even know she has and will pass something on. This is indeed a controversial topic and probably always will be, but the bottom line is we don't live in a STD free world and really no one knows who has been with whom, or where they have travelled on this planet, etc. I strongly feel that SP's shouldn't feel pressured to provide the service as they are lovely ladies who should be treated with love, respect and kindness and most of all safety!

     

    My two cents.

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    I don't know if a Sp client review section is offered on this site, but I was thinking it might be a good thing to have.

     

    It would be similar to having client's give reviews of Sp's except it would be reversed with the Sp's writing about the clients instead!

     

    I know there is supposed to be a section on this site where Sp's can go to see if a client is a bad experience, but if there was a section where Sp's could go and see good reviews of clients too it would give them an idea of what to expect. All the Sp would need would be the clients CERB handle.

     

    If a Sp wrote a favourable review about their time with a client she could also PM him so that he knows too.

     

    Just a thought

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  18. Posted

    My god, as good as it feels not to have a condom on it is not worthe the risk for yourself or the provider of service...way too many risks! Stay clean and be healthy and play safe!

     

     

    I think it is quite unfortunate that SP's get asked this question and I also feel that they shouldn't have to perform BBBJ's either as the risks associated with it can be harmful as well. It would be great if we lived on a planet that didn't have any such thing as STD's but we don't so we have to be careful. I love women. Absolutely adore them, but I certainly don't want to harm them and put them in a dangerous situation. Life is too short. Keep safe!

  20. Posted

    I don't have a high tolerance for alcohol and after 2 or 3 drinks, then I'm done. If I have a drink with a client at my location, it will be shiraz or chardonnay but this is rare.

     

    There is one drink mix I like called Blue Balls mixed with Hypnotig liquer...

     

    Blue Balls

     

    1 part Hypnotiq

     

    1 part Vodka

     

    1 part apple sour pucker

     

    1 part Kool Aid blue raspberry

     

     

    Mix in a shaker with ice.

     

    I prefer an albino martini! It is full of protein and other nutrients and gives me a white mustache afterwards!

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  21. Posted

    It's not like your being asked to write a P.hD thesis here. I'm sure many of you read recommendations from guys who contribute to help in chosing a lady to see. So when you have a good encounter with a lady contribute by writing a recommendation to help another guy decide on who to see.

    Or post a joke, or a song, or your opinion on a topic on one of the forums

    Remember this isn't a website which you just read. This is a forum which needs

    the positive participation of all it's members

    RG

     

    Well, I have been a little timid myself about posting, but I am trying to get the hang of it!

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  22. Posted

    I got grief for my furry clam. Even the mods removed my pics for some pub hair. Now its trimmed, bikini line is gone and I do enjoy letting it grow when I am not working, but these days, we kinda hafta at least trim.

     

    BTW, I have really curly hair, but my pub's are straight as a whistle.Go figure!

     

    Well, I grew up in the seventies (now I am dating myself!) and loved a woman who was trimmed! Now when I see a SP and she has some lovely trimmed hair, it really sets me off. I find it such a turn on!

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