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You can just make them "restricted friends" so they can't see anything you post,and you can go to your newsfeed and not see what they put. you can also not allow invites from them.

this avoids all the drama and just moves you on!

Hi,

Okay so another silly me question, but hubby has agreed to go out when we are out in montreal soon to a strip club. montreal has many to choose from...can you please, if you have information, provide on the best ones for couples, general etiquette and anything else i should know about the experience. we want to go somewhere upscale and classyish.

Thanks to those who answer.

now i am feeling older i have no idea this stuff exists!

Prevent I put my kids in a bubble and bath them in hand sanitizer. :)

For remedies I first whine. All the time to anyone who will listen. (usually husband). Then I take Nyquil and sleep. Get up, bath, whine some more, repeat as necessary.

I do keep this in the freezer and it certainly helps. http://thaifood.about.com/od/thaisnacks/r/carrotsoup.htm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pMM4iwC-ag

Same song, but much better!

I don't know how to insert a picture, but Sofia Vergeras

 

Consider the case were a single want-to-be mother visits a sperm bank if you will, do we judge her or the anonymous sperm donor? I don't know exactly where she would find this service but I know it exists as does everything good and evil in the world.

In fact many people do judge this woman and the sperm donor. I keep going back to considering the children that already exist without parents to love them. And sperm banks have so many potential ethical considerations such as children not knowing parental lineage, one donor being overused in smaller communities risking potential inbreeding etc. etc. It has happened.

So I guess my point was just to rebuke that not everyone is "Yay sperm banks", but I come back to the fact that if this is all about you and your desire to leave a legacy/be immortal. If that is your reason for doing this, then in the end, you will never feel fulfilled. We all die, and trust me many people leave children behind, but that doesn't guarantee the children will like them, or anything like that. the legacy we leave is our actions while we are in this world.

Again good luck to you, just consider all implications for this child, and do you want to support potential drama for the future. And "she'll just go elsewhere" is not a reason enough to do it. Someone may want you to buy them meth, but don't do it just because they will go elsewhere if not.

Cheers.

As the mother of three children adopted from foster care, I do not understand this romanticized version of passing on the genes. It's who we love and what we do in our lifetime to better the world that leaves our legacy.

Do what you must, but that child will have questions, and you may feel like you want more part in their lives. And who knows, you may already have a few kids out there you don't know about! ;0)

Good luck with your decision, but having and raising a child is never about the needs of the parent, rather all considerations should be about the child.

First, if it does then i was way to slow to make my fantasy/dreams come true! :)

Secondly no I do not believe it. I met a Mayan Elder last year who said it just means the start of something new (aka ran out of wall space) :)

thanks everyone, this was enlightening, and it seems this industry has more respect than most "mainstream" industries. more power to you amazing women!

As you know i have been thinking about my own future experience with an SP, when the time is right.

In the meantime, while being on this site, a question has entered my mind....

Is/are their issues with SPs wanting exclusivity and jealously amogst sps? i was thinking of this in terms of say hairdressers who get quite catty, to Dr's who don't really care....so for SPs at what part of that exclusivity/jealousy scale does the profession in general fall?

and as always, i hope you don't mind the question, i truly value all of you wonderful women and what i am learning.

cheers.

You are providing a service and getting paid for your time. So too does a therapist, a Dr., and many other jobs.

I work for the government, now that's a questionable job!

having to eat generic peanut butter due to budget cuts.

This thread is not meant at all tongue in cheek, nor am I looking for the name of male SPs :)

I was just philosophizing about why there is a plethora of women SPs and some men, but yes more women.

is it demand, that men like sex more, that women can too easily get sex? Is it systemic gender bias, survival necessities, or other reasons?

Philosophy 101.....let's go!

When women are upset, we want revenge and as pissed as she is at her husband she blames me - even though it was him who contacted me and not the other way around. In her eyes I am the home wrecker and as mad as she is at him she is taking the excess out at me.

This has gone on for ages whether or not an SP was involved in one's infidelity. People inherently blame the one who cheats than some "outside force" that made them. It's ridiculous to say the least. If my husband cheated i'd be upset, but i'd blame HIM. (especially since I am not meeting with an sp until he is comfortable). i saw my mom go crazy blaming the "other woman', ridiculous, no third party is responsible to honour their commitments, to each their own but blaming someone else, especially as nice as Emily just rubs me the wrong way!

mostly women (husband has to be there, he can serve drinks) all in a circle, and 2-3 take turns going into the middle and pleasuring me while the other ones cheer them on. I'm selfish in my fantasies.

I have been afraid of this actually. When I am actually going to be able to meet with an SP, i worry that they aren't actually into women, plus then i have the tubby issue i worry about.

I would have to believe that they are going to enjoy being with me to enjoy it myself, and if they start with not really being into women but more marketing, then i worry.

but not obsess worry lol.

"she's not dynamite in bed". "maybe we should practice". potential trolling. have her come here, or to get out of debt you become an sp, unless she really wants to do it, don't push her.

Hey kiddo, I am not a service provider and am a virgin only in i have not seen a service provider yet, hopefully this year.

So that said I can provide you with this advice:

1. This would be a wonderful way to lose your virginity, at least better than ten minutes of pumping and rolling off and leaving which was my first experience.

2. Understand if you go through with it though these wonderful women will likely be more tender, giving and in tune with your needs than a woman say you later fall in love with and date. I say this so you don't set this as the bar that you expect all women to follow, these women get paid for their companionship because they are the best at what they do, trust me, not all women have the guts they do. I would advise if you go to an SP for your first time, that you take time to learn how to be generous with a woman while you are there. This is a tool that will get you far in life!

3. You are like me in that we have not taken the plunge into meeting with an SP. Be careful when you are talking to them that you are upfront about your ability to meet. I have contacted a few to get rates while doing my research, but I am stuck right now that husband has said no, at least no for now. so i stick around because it will happen one day,and because i admire the women and their empowerment, but they know the score with me. Advice: find the one you want and go for it, if you have nothing holding you back except for nervousness....okay short story: i was a virgin at aged 19 and wanted to get laid. i called those phone lines to meet other people in your area. (party lines, before internet). I made a few appointments with men to break my virginity (not service providers, just horny men). I got so nervous i didn't show for a few....whatever that's okay i was young and while disrespectful meh, but the ladies here are different, this is their livelihood so if you say you are going to be there, then be there. end of that rant is the dude I did meet on the phone chat line who did take my virginity, well it was awful and as he was leaving I said to him "well you certainly helped me decide if I prefer men or women". :)

Good luck, sorry for long answer!

Pretty much what it says, if anyone is bored and wants to share/play.

My top five fantasy people are:

1. Scarlett Johansen

2. Johnny Depp

3. Sofia Veg something or other from Modern Family

4. Queen Latifah

5. Scarlett Johansen

What's CL?

For me it's only when i am with my husband who is also big that we have positional problems. i know there is lots i could do with a woman, but i have to believe they find me sexy, if i can tell they are not into me, then it's a turn off. lol still haven't done it, husband hasn't okayed it yet, plus finances tight during back to school time!

Thanks, I think it is mostly me getting a dance and him watching but we'll ask the gals. thanks!

Hi,

I finally got husband to agree to start looking at a new lifestyle, at least to go to the SC again.

We are going to try Nuden, but are wondering what lap dance costs are so we can prepare properly..does anyone know?

cheers.