Oil Guy1

I always thought 40 ish - for no particular reason.

have a beer.

Watched Netflix with my kids, and we went for 2 long dog walks as it was beautiful outside - low key but excellent day !

Some excellent advice above from people in the know.

I'm new to this too; i've only seen 2 providers (one of the ladies 3 times and the other only once but excellent experiences.

If the time comes when you want to date, having already found a provider will be a major benefit. I find i'm way more relaxed when putting up with women who want to drag out things until you eventually (if ever) have sex.

But i've been single a lot longer than you, so enjoy the beautiful providers before jumping back in the dating pond !

PS Randy, can you send me those tips too ? Thanks

Watching a documentary on Netflix while having a drink; looking forward to the long weekend - and after reading the above posts, thinking of beautiful women in bathtubs :)

Very sad , more so as she was so young - robbed of half a lifetime :(

My teenagers love the show but it didn't hook me. Of course, I started watching it in the middle with them so maybe that's not giving the show a fair shake.

They did however get me watching 'True Detective' which I was surprised to find was an excellent series ! Can't wait for season 2 !

Good information - thanks ! I always got my kids to use honey on their pancakes instead of syrop.

Welcome Audrey - hopefully you will expand your travels to Halifax at some point :)

I want to stay at 25 and up - my oldest child is late teens so I don't want a girl to be TOO close to that age. If that makes any sense ?

Glad to hear it worked out for you - that's great !

Now hopefully she'll know to tell you if there is an issue going on in her life.

Cautionary note though, as a man that has been in and out of the dating scene (from one night stands to long term relationships in amongst a bunch of varying length ) , i would consider that 1 strike against her. And i have a 2 strike rule as opposed to 3 strikes unless i'm with a girl for a long time and know she's worth the effort.

Regardless of what was in her mind, you sound like a good guy and she should have let you know what was going on (without the effort you had to go through).

But regardless - have fun :)

Anytime a woman ever said to me "I just want to be friends" I answer "sure - but only if we can be friends that have sex " :)

I'm new to the world of SP's as of this summer. I saw a beautiful girl that is very intelligent and i'll be seeing her again shortly.

I was telling a friend of mine that's divorced too and sick of the dating scene (we call POF Plenty of Flakes :) about my experience.

He's thinking of trying a SP and asked me how to approach it. I told him from the one girl i've met, and from the women's profiles i've seen on this site, to treat it the same as if he got a response from a beautiful girl that's smart on the dating site. She decides if she's going to see you or not.

Read her profile, be nice, remember your manners, and she'll let you know how it will roll :)

This is an excellent thread - i'm new to this and glad i found it; thanks !

Some good advice above to your situation. I've been online dating on & off for a few years (not sure if that's how you met the girl). It can be a strange experience; I've dated women and thought things were going nicely - then they just stop responding to texts.

I always assume they've met someone they like better; which is why i never stop my online communications with other women until things get serious (sex :) with one of them.

Good luck - hope you hear from her ; you at least deserve an explanatory text.

Do you have a mirror in your pocket ? Because I can see myself in your pants ! :)

Single - already had my kids with my ex-wife and they're great kids !

And i'm with Roamingguy - if I'd known about this sooner, I would have saved myself the hassle of dating, expectations I couldn't (or wouldn't fill) , coffee and dinner dates etc and skipped right to hobbyist !

Those huge Toblerone bars at Cosco ; and cigarettes with beer :)

I'm a shower - but that can be a pain sometimes ; a lot of blood loss so sometimes i gotta be careful about holding off too long - no pun intended !

Good topic