Fresh start

I call them WTF was I thinking moments and honestly I get them fairly frequently but I get a good laugh.

I tried to change the Chanel with my phone.

I grab a glass to pour myself a drink and put the juice in the cupboard.

I turned on the blender and forgot the lid. That sucks

Can't understand why my key card don't work, only to realize its my visa.

Locked my keys in the truck, only to go home to get a spare without my house keys which are in the locked truck.

All I can think of for the moment but I'm sure the list goes on.

Good question, I do remember my first time but I didn't have cerb nor much to think about at the time.although my first time I did use a agency and she did an outcall which may of helped ease the nervous. My mind was else where at the time and didn't spend any time hesitating or worrying.

I wonder if some are just over thinking it, or perhaps they think they are ready but aren't and are not capable of choosing cause subconsciously they aren't ready. Then again I've seen men who can't even shop alone without getting some sort of validation on their choice.

Even today before any encounter I try to communicate before hand with the lady of my chose explaining what I'm looking for and to see if she thinks we are a good fit.

When I was young I wanted to be a superhero. Now I still do, then again I never really grew up much. Hehe

I could never decide what I wanted to do. Even in my senior year in high school I didn't know what path to take. Being good with numbers I ended up taking accounting. Never really worked out, couldn't find anything with a descent salary at the time I was making more money as a manager at a store. I eventually quit and ended up in construction, now I dream of someday starting my own construction company.

If god created all creatures then why wouldn't they go to heaven? They are kinder than most human and when do you see a dog commit a sin? We human do more often than not.

I've seen her a few times now and each visit has been nothing short of perfect. She is a sweet lady with a cute French accent. Her eyes are adorable. After every visit I'm left smiling and feeling so good inside. She knows how to satisfy me and I know how to satisfy her, make each encounter unforgettable.

N is for napping

Nothing better than taking a short nap cuddled up with a lady after an unforgettable time shared.

I keep this whole part of my life private, but have once been contacted by a fellow cerb member asking about recommendation. Considering the fact that ymmv I simply highlight their personality or beauty. Keeping my encounter private I don't like to discuss what's happened in an encounter. As for direct contact after every encounter I delete all number, text and even gps/map search. If I write any info on paper that to is destroyed. My privacy is IMO is just as important so I do my best to ensure I leave no trace include parking meter stubs or on one occasion parking ticket lol!

I look up the info through their ad, why can't others do the same?

Wow could you have picked a harder question? I honestly don't think its even possible for me to answer this question. I stumbled upon the emotional healing power this industry has provided me and I know I need it. So far this has been the only thing I found that allows me to release the pain in my head caused be depression and anxiety, and replace it with a warm tingly sensation in the back of my head that feels so good and soothing. So for now this is something I need and if a time comes where I no longer need to feel this well perhaps I may continue and enjoy the sex aspect of it more. But who knows only time will tell. For that reason I cannot decide.

I've been working crazy amount of hours lately. Not that I mind the work but it's starting to effect my health. In a day I'm lucky if I even eat a meal and I'm at the point that I need a energy drink daily. The wake up call happened today when I dozed off at the wheel while driving to work. Luckily it was only a scary swerve that effected no one accept myself, but being on a highway at that speed could of been fatal.

Now I'm not sure why it is but I can't say NO. I feel bad or guilty even contemplating and always end up saying yes. Don't get the wrong idea my boss is great and is in no way forceful. But I also know what it's like being in a bind and needing to get a job done.

How about you?

I know situations are different, but ladies it must be awkward to have to refuse a client for X reason? (assuming he is respectful)

What your thought?

Yup you should feel so guilty that you should book a duo instead and invite her:) lol! I'm pretty sure they get it that sort of thing, no room for jealousy in this hobby.

I'm up way to early in the morning to have sex, although morning sex is good I must go with evening sex. When I have evening sex, I can still feel the warm energy at night when I'm lying in bed. Helps me sleep, sometimes I get good dreams but most important I go to sleep feeling good.

For me wow, is very similar to cristy taste without the penis lol! Someone with a big heart, Radom acts of kindness. Someone none judgmental. Cares for others and animals.

People are blessed with physical beauty its not by choice. Your not born with wow factor you earn it in my eyes. That through your action, your choices and thoughts, add some chemistry and WOW.

Saw a whole other side of somebody, truly a kind hearted person.

I can't speak for others, I can tell you I'm the nice guy who cares a lot for others. The guy that worked hard and long hours and saved his money to own a house and car. The loving husband to a wife he will always love. The man who had a dream of having a family. To give my kids what I never had to love and support them. To be called dad, and to be the complete opposite of my mother. I was an "ordinary guy" like most, until tragedy struck. My dreams began to fade losing the chance at become a father, then sickness struck my wife and another chance at becoming a father was forced to abort due to degrading and debilitating health of my wife. As my wife intimacy and love for me faded my dreams shattered. Along with my will and faith to live. In my darkest hour I planned my final hours and being with a woman one last time was part of it.

It saved my life, the feeling of being loved stopped my dark thought, calmed me down and made me capable of thinking clearly enough to realize my need, to help me change. So your not providing some gross guy with sex, your saving a broken man life, helping him get back on his feet emotionally and mentally.

I really don't care much about what society thinks about me I learned that lesson long ago. According to society and even statistics I should of followed a different path. Coming from an abusive childhood I should of been a hard drug user with a criminal record a mile long. No I chose to be different I stayed away from the path, I never use drugs and I have a clean record. I love to prove people who say I'm something that I'm not, wrong. Society can kiss my ass just like my mom who said I was stupid. Well I did graduate and go on to college. Perhaps were not ordinary people after all were extraordinary people.

We don't have to waste time and energy to try and pickup some random girl. We don't have to lie to them and say we will call them. We are honest about it, yes it may be a transaction but its one that can end whenever I want without hurting anyone. We don't have to pretend we're something we're not just to "get laid". If that not being a gentleman I don't know what is.

I think bottom line we are people all unique in our own way. We just do what we do to satisfy a need, desire or fantasy. We all have our reasons and that what make us human.

So Nat you can tell them that we are human being and nothing less. Just like them.

Thanks for standing up for us!

I'm overworked, exhausted and sore, but I don't give a crap I'm in a good mood! it's been awhile but it feels great. When I often feel depressed or nothing at all I cherish these moments.

I find your question open to interpretation so this is what I think. Please note there are exception to every rule this may not apply to some and not meant to offend anyone.

If top bookers mean more expensive, advance booking and screening. Well this tell me that they take their job more seriously and have more experience in the industry.

Prices should be and always be set by the lady, which usually reflects her expense and then her profit as she feels what its worth. Things to consider in price reflection is exactly what Emma said some prefer quality service rather than quantity. Some may have incall location that provide special amenities like a shower, parking, discreet, soaps even beverages. Even reputation can play a factor.

Advanced booking

Well some ladies like to take time and prepare for each encounter and ensure any special request can be met. Some it may be for scheduling reasons and again reputation can play a factor as well. You must remember a good lady take the time to ensure she is clean and ready. (Make sure you do the same) not all providers stay at hotels all day waiting or at incall location. Touring girls is another factor.

Screening

This is done for safety reason and some time it help her to see if you're a good fit.

Any sp can provide you with sex heck even a blow up doll can, it's each individual experience that they provide that should be considered. Chose the one you like wether its looks or experience or perhaps a certain fantasy they can provide. Remember you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, you may be disappointed or even miss out on certain things others may provide.

If I may suggest go in with a open mind and try new things you never know what you like until you've tried. I once met a lady who gave me a prostate massage, wasn't expecting it and well omg it was one of the most memorable encounters I've had. Truly enjoyable!

Have fun and good luck!

My little dog followed me downstairs for the first time. It's like seeing your baby first step.

Cyclist who drive on the road with no lights or visible reflectors, when its dark I can't see you from a distance.

Thanks everyone! It was a nice surprise stumbling upon this thread. It put a smile on my face.

Someone unexpected gave me some very kind and motivating words that touch the heart. Was much appreciated.

Very important! Saddly, here it's hard to know. Not every SP are willing to be honnest if you're doing it right or wrong. And you never know if she's just saying what she thinks you want to hear. =(

Sp or not If she faking it and I'm not aware, well sorry her loss. I feed off her enjoyment real or not as long as I believe she enjoying herself.

Here's an example I've never orgasm during a blow job, sure it good foreplay but I literally can't. I've tried but it's like something missing. I've been to several ma's it's the same thing I rarely get there. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy going for other fun reasons.

To me its important not for the woman sake but for mine as well.

Perhaps we should device a way to authenticate that were a cerb member like a secret hand shake. But instead of a hand shake we can make a secret sequence of orgasms. This is what I had in mind. You make her orgasm, then again and once more after. She then returns the favour, while you recuperate make her cum again and then you both have one more orgasm together at the same time.

Its should be fool proof and by the end of this she'll have forgotten your name and dubbed you f***ing amazing.

Lmao

We should let gentlemans decide... is not about who does more is about who does it better. There is lots of indy talent to be discover cheers!

I don't mind being the guinea pig in a nuru competition:) yummm

I slightly disagree with that. I highly doubt that in your line of business, you end up naked, alone in a room sharing your intimacy, therefore the way questions are worded by a prospective client definitely have a different impact. It's called reading between the lines. When I get the "do I have to provide the outcall?" What I see is not a newbie; what I see is a cheap ass who is trying to negotiate.

 

When I get a silly question (not to be confused with a genuine newbie question), my first thought is: ok what's next? What other basics doesn't he get? Is he now going to ask me for bareback once I am with him alone?

 

There are newbies who take time to inform themselves with the pure basics of the business etiquette, and there is the stupid and lazy dude who is probably of a better match with BP. For those, yes they are better of take their business somewhere else because I am not a match for them. Do I want a lazy dude who doesn't take the time to read and to follow the rules? Absolutely not, therefore I guess it's a win-win.

This response really got me thinking!

I'm sorry but the expression "there are no dumb question" or "customers are always right" this isn't always true there are always some, I also think that question and response must be worded correctly to not sound insulting or dumb. If your a newbie state it, I'm sure most people will understand and point you the right direction.

As for the provider who choses not to respond its their chose and this might even be easier than wasting time just to get turned down anyways.

I think each person has their limits and some will just not correspond with each other.

Wow!

 

I now know what I'm dressing up as for Halloween:

 

Just make sure your squirrel has nuts or you may be walking funny the next day! Lol