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    Unfortunately, the ugly side of the business can ruin a woman, which I was surprised to realize until the SP I had been seeing regularly for a couple years left the scene. You name it, she went through it. I am far from a point of information, but to me, I would say talking to reputable SP's and joining Lyla so as to access the SP warning section would be starters. I am sure there are forums online , blogs, that she could check out as well.

    Bottom line, she is putting herself at risk in all kinds of ways if she chooses to join in.

     

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    I must say, affordability is a deal breaker. And yet, I have had a chance to see things differently in my experiences: these women are making available a precious cargo to us- that is at least worth mentioning. It is not the same as going to Walmart for a pair of slacks; it is much more personal.

    So, I support SP's charging what they feel that is worth to them.

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    Personally, 

    The point of discretion comes to mind.  I know one particular sp hounds her clients ( my pal being one of them). I find this completely unprofessional.  For my sp and I, she respects my privacy.  It is up to me to contact her for appointments. 

    Despite having seen her for over a yr, the boundaries  are clear: I do not needlessly contact her and she never contacts me. That fact doesn't lessen our connection, or mean we haven't  developed  a report; but it does mean we each know the parameters of the arrangement. 

     

  11. Posted

    Great questions. 

    Stigma, I think, would lessen if it were decriminalized ( look at pot for example - as to how something can go from taboo to socially celebrated). 

    I agree that some sp are just like therapy, mine is definitely one of them. Laughs, good music, great sex without complications. The great thing about some  sp is they provide the GFE without the drama associated with an actual relationship.

    Personally,  I am not bashful about my playing; I even suggest  it to my single pals!

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  14. Posted

    Great topic!

    As a middle-aged man, I remember  being a youngin and thinking  porn was like a how-to- video.  As I have aged , and gained experience,  I know better!

    Some dudes like to be rough with sp, agreed upon or not, as though hurting a women is the turn on.

    I think a sp really needs to put the restrictions on the table from the get go and hopefully,  weed out gents that are all but gentlemen. 

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  18. Posted

    Great that you were honest & that she was honest with you. SP are human. Have off days. 

    Fact she didn't  seem to care  when you said you'd not be back sucks man, maybe horny men are a dime a dozen to her.

    I don't jump around. Too many let downs. Found me a gem. Keep looking, treasures are out there!

     

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