DavidRobinson

Hi again guys just wanted to review my new favorite provider in the Nanaimo area Olivia! SHe was sweet and accomodating. I went with the outcall option since i was visiting nanaimo and she arrived on time and looked even better than the pictures! I've been having ok luck recently with verified escorts and deposits so since she was verified and had an ad thats been up for a while I went ahead and took a chance and i'm glad i did. I started with the 2 hour package but ended up turning into an overnight because we had such a good time! Five stars for Olivia! Will definaately see her again

Usually I ask for simple things like a picture holding a piece of paper with the date and my name on it or something along those lines. A few SP have sent me a copy of their hotel room confirmation that was helpful since then I know theya re actually where they say they are. But I guess just go with your gut, if she has no personality and sounds robotic and doesnt have any reviews or social media dont send a deposit plain and simple. Otherwise if shes not asking for a deposit and she shows up and it's not the right girl, simply don't pay her. I will never understand all these people who say they got "ripped off" when they paid the girl who showed up that wasn't the right girl..why did you pay her then? 

Hi Everyone,

    i just wanted to contribute to the community and write a stellar recommendation for my new favorite provider in the area Jill. I was a bit nervous about the security deposit but she sent me a picture of herself holding a piece of paper with my phone number and also her hotel room confirmation from the booking site so i went ahead and gave it a whirl. I'm very glad i did she was a very enjoyable fun and sexy person to be around. I got a party package since it was a long weekend for me and we ended up partying all night long and it was great! She has very few restrictions and without going into detail she more than met my requests. I brought a bottle of wine she likes cabernet she said, and she was hosting in a nice clean hotel room downtown. I really enjoyed my time with her and definitely will be seeing her again! She is way more attractive in person than in pictures! Five star!

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I am going to be visiting new brunswick next weekend will you be around then??

Black Advil lol

On 2/20/2022 at 5:34 AM, JessyCeleste said:

Hi,

I hear your frustration, I really do and I'm not about to preach or tell you off in anyway. Only empathy & some advice on how to verify & also how to be able to tell if she is consistently available.

I've had clients I really care about fall victim. I dont know what city you are in but there are other ways to verify SWs, it gets more difficult with younger ones because they won't have the years of good reviews & recommendations. But that is certainly one way. In terms of whether they tour or are actually local, their site & their recos can also help u. You can contact those who have seen or still see them & ask if they really are in town as much as they say they are. Another hint is often if rates work on a declining scale. This will give you an idea that she prefers longer appointments over many 1hr ones, which regardless of how long each appointment your preference is, it will give you an insight into the fact that she prefers seeing less people more often as opposed to quantity or having no preference one way or the other. The trouble is a lot of the SPs who are established, available regularly and have regular agents, dont need to and therefore dont advertise as much. Myself I'm only on lyla & Twitter & although I've been available in Ottawa every week pretty much since I started, if you look into my post history, my 'schedules & announcements' wont reflect that. I'm often already somewhat prebooked & know enough of my regs will contact me regardless if I'm advertising (because they know I do this). I would hate for someone new to constantly be trying to contact me when I'm busy and get declined and give up or think I "never reply" so I just dont advertise unless I think I'll have booking time to spare. I'm also only in lyla & twitter. I'm giving myself as an example but there are many like me. 

I'm truly sorry for all you have endured. It's really rough esp for someone just starting out, on both sides of the industry. I know you are experienced. Many SWers will accept reference alone. Another key with deposits is if she has her own incall vs renting a space. The reason deposits have become such a widespread thing is because during covid, after months of no income, SWs would get booked, specifically rent their space out (many apts are either just Air BnBs or another SPs incall) they are on the hook either way, they pay the sum & then the gent cancels sitting fear of covid. This was a pandemic on it's own. It didnt happen to me as I have my own incall plus until i was vaccinated i only offered Covid-Smart apts. But it happened to many and so deposits became standard. Scammers saw this and took advantage. Many arent even in canada. (I had a hacker I know trace one cuz I was so mad they got a reg of mine) He blamed himself as he booked off leolist with someone without reviews. So anyway, the fact that SPs who are legit and consistent end up not advertising much, is adding to your troubles. If you're in Ottawa & tell me your preferences, I can vouch for many & know a diverse group. Outside ottawa I cant help. Oh! Many cities have had regular/established ladies create their own network. OIC in Ottawa, IndyCompanions in Mtl, I know TO & even Saskatoon have their own. While not all members are in for the long hall you can tell who is. 

I really hope this helps you and I wish you the best of luck. C36 has fed this getting worse. The states are worse too. The more laws u add, the further underground it drives it and along come the sociopaths & exploiters! Our laws were fine as they were prior to C36. Alas, all we can do is call our local MPs and organize. Anyhow, I hop my advice helps & I really hope you find what you are looking for. It saddens me because I know theres an SP out there who would love a new reg. Even those of us with regs, they do sometimes leave us before we leave the industry so keep your eyes peeled for ads that may not appear all the time yet say things like "As usual I'll be available from (insert days of the week). " and "my incall is..." if she has an apt itll always have the same characteristics. Also look for recos where the same gent posts again or says "I've been seeing her for the last ___  years" 

When you go to their sites you can often tell if they tour. Myself I dont tour but I do always set a day or two aside when I'm visiting a city. So I mention TO but it's also clear that I dont go often and dont stay long. If you see far away cities listed as an constant, she tours. Also beyond OIC and such their are twitter accounts that will offer a list of who is active & whether they are local or tour. 

Finally, network with some of the other hobbyists in your area. Send them a msg and ask who is legit & if interested in a particular SW but cant tell if shes consistently available, contact one of the reco posters & ask them. They'll definitely know if she is around a lot & easy to book with.

 

Take care of yourself !

JessyCeleste

 

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Hi I just wanted to say thanks for this very thorough and helpful comment I appreciated it a lot I will definately look out for these things