Lady Mary 125 Report post Posted July 19, 2015 Any advice on how to begin training to be a dom in New Brunswick! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moon Seerose 760 Report post Posted July 20, 2015 There is a fair sized kink community in Freddy already and there's the play space if it's still open. A good start would be to find out when the next local munch is taking place and attending. You will get to meet great people and could find mentor to teach you. Good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Mary 125 Report post Posted July 20, 2015 thank you, this area is new to me but one I am interested in knowing more about. I will look into it! :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted July 20, 2015 I would look into You tube, it has some good DOM training. I have done this, and found it helpful to find the inspiration needed and spark some creativity. You will want to start saving some tools to have a good play box ready. The hardest part is to determine if your sub knows fully what they want and don't want. Many THINK they want this or that, then when time comes they do not. Safe words, wavers and consultations are very important. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Mary 125 Report post Posted July 20, 2015 great advice ,thank you! those are things I hadn't considered Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moon Seerose 760 Report post Posted July 21, 2015 Easiest safe word system to use is one that is used at most public functions and even among mist privately. The traffic light system is super easy to remember. Green = all good, keep going Yellow = slow down need a breather Red = everything stops and we talk about what triggered the red after aftercare is done. Aftercare is essential when doing scenes no matter how hard or how soft. Could be just cuddling after or needing certain things. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me. I've been both sub and Dom. I am also a part of my local kink community and mentor others. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *******naF***dy Report post Posted July 21, 2015 Hey Mary, gimme a call and I'll give ya loads of help with this. I was a Dom for years and Im in middle of creating my Red Room. Busty Lana Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
