Walking Away Gracefully....

[roamingguy 300292]

I'm sorry this happened Emily. It's not fun at all when clients freak themselves out with too much TV and paranoia. I'm just glad you came out unscathed.

 

I will say, if a client genuinely is too nervous and uncomfortable with the situation they should be honest and leave a tip for the lady's time!

 

A prospective client freaked out because he is influenced by television and paranoia, why then look at escort review/recommendation sites or lady's websites, not to mention why even contact her and go through her screening protocols to book an appointment.

If he was truly scared of a sting why did he even proceed to the hotel room, why not instead call and say he can't go through with the booking

This wasn't a nervous client, this was a paranoid, (or acting paranoid) client who didn't care how his behaviour affected others.

He shouldn't have ever considered partaking in this lifestyle. And should compensate Emily for her expenses, all wasted, in scheduling a date with this "man"

 

RG

[PistolPete 61421]

The early comments about a deposit, from my enjoyments, here locally and as well down state side, I have never have been asked for a deposit. If I was asked, there is no issue from me. I think personally is "how well" you are screened, and how well you are referenced checked by the provider you are seeing. I'm not trying to pat myself on the back, but it is all in your delivery of communication, and how well you are checked out thoroughly by the lady you like to spend time with.

I really truthfully find myself very lucky as a gent, seeing companions that I thoroughly connect with.

 

As far as the thread, goes, personally it was not his first time booking, and it was his easy way out. Plain and simple folks if you can't afford it, and have thoughts going through your mind at the get go, be honest and deliver the funds necessary for cancelling and get out of the seeking companions you truly cannot afford.

 

 

This is my take on the subject.

[Amelia Fox 9064]

Sadly something similar happened to me six months ago. I gave him my adress(where I actually live everyday) after multiple communications and photos being shared only for him to show up and say oh my your taller then your photos.. Do those cameras work in your lobby and hallways, I don't want to be on camera...

I was shocked. I asked him to leave politely and he decided then to yell profanity at me in my hallway. Was most horrific experience I've ever had.

[Eva Laperle 7898]

I agree with what's been said here. This kind of behavior is definitely a turn off, really. I think generally speaking, don't act weird before, during or after the date. Keep in mind that us companion, put ourselves in very vulnerable situations & will always think of our safety first. So don't raise suspicion in any way.

 

So this kind of behavior (referring to Emily's post) will most likely make a lady really uncomfortable and unable to provide you with the experience you're looking for. I'm sorry you experienced this Emily and I agree with you asking him to leave.

Weird behaviors always raise concerns & suspicion for me. I might think that either you're hiding something or I should not trust you. Then I become concerned for my safety. Maybe it's all in our heads you may think, but why act creepy or weird if you are just a nice guy? No need to make the lady uncomfortable...

I understand nervousness and shyness in the beginning of a date from experience & I usually make people comfortable in my company quite easily. If you need help to relax & get in the mood, simply let the lady break the ice, enjoy some small talk, a drink, maybe a nice massage or soapy kinky shower to get things started. Anything, really. Just let her take care of you and "go with the sensual flow "...

Otherwise, be kind enough to simply walk away without causing hassle or concerns for the lady. And do leave compensation for her time in most cases. That's simply mho.

 

All the best :smile: