Why are mature escorts so popular?

[Guest S****r]

I came across an article of this title recently which was very interesting. I would agree with everything in it. I will give you the link at the end of this post, but I will make some comments of my own on the topic first.

 

When I first started escorting at 40+, I assumed that there would not be a particularly high demand for ladies my age. I presumed the busiest ones in the industry would be the girls in their 20s with the firm, hard bodies and the perfect curves. After all, the truth is that I find them very sexy myself! But over a very short period of time, I realized something.

 

Young men of the 20s and 30s are naturally drawn to them. Men in their 40s are, too, but there comes an age when men start feeling creeped out by meeting girls that age--usually when they have daughters who are that age themselves. I have had many men tell me that they stopped because they felt they themselves were creepy for dating someone their daughter's age. Certainly not all men feel that way, and many do still see the younger girls. But there is a bigger segment who no longer do.

 

As men get even older and perhaps their performance or stamina has lessened, they find they want a woman with patience and understanding who realizes that the pleasure to be had in the touching, caressing, the kissing, the skin-to-skin contact, the oral, and the intimacy is still as pleasurable as always even if the cock no longer gets as hard or an orgasm may not happen. With an older woman they feel freer to indulge in these aspects of sexuality without any pressure to perform. Both partners can still leave a date feeling wonderful about the encounter without any nagging feelings of having disappointed the partner.

 

 

The one thing I didn't foresee has to do with the younger guys and their unabashed fascination with older women! Within a year of being in the industry I came to realize that most, if not all, young men have a fantasy about being with an older woman. Some of them love for the older, experienced woman to take total control of the encounter, nervously and excitedly letting her strip him and have her way with him. Most girls in their 20s that they would date, would never do this. I have wowed many a younger man who has visited me, leaving him breathless and spent and a look of pure awe on his face. Other young men who have secretly lusted over their teacher or their neighbour or even their mother's sexy friend, arrive wanting to immediately ravish me, finally fulfilling that fantasy they have carried with them for perhaps years. I give them what it was they had always dreamed of.A lot of the escorts my age refuse to see men under 30 or 35, but I fully enjoy them.

 

So, in the end, I discovered that escorts my age are appealing to men of ALL ages, not only the older demographic, but both the younger and the middle as well. This has been a most pleasant surprise!

 

The article in the following link has lots of other interesting commentary on the topic. I leave you to enjoy that now. Enjoy! https://www.escort-ireland.com/blog/what-makes-mature-escorts-so-popular/

[Mikeyboy 27111]

I think you hit the nail on the head. Now that my oldest child is 21, it feels wrong even looking in that age group. Plus, many of us are looking for experiences that are beyond just the physical. I have found that with maturity often comes an ability and a desire to communicate and make a connection. A generalization I know, and as such there are always exceptions but it is often the case in my experience. Often the younger ones are there to do a job and have little interest in anything beyond.

[Tempted Monk 5057]

Summer remarks are very true.

Long time ago I tried to see 20+ yo girls and found out that most of them had no clue what the intimacy and sexuality really are. I decided that it was worth to set age cut to 30+. I followed that rule since then and never regretted.

But interesting how my vision of maturity was changed. I came to that conclusion about maybe 20 years ago and saw usually women of my age or older at that time. But I kept the same age cut over years and now I meet 30+ young girls! Change of view as life goes on :-)

[blacklabdog 3049]

it is bit of a generalization and it has certain truth to it but I have been fortunate to have intimate encounters from women here in their 20's, 30's and early 40's

 

But over 35 doesn't guarantee encounter will be that way eith so it works both ways. You still have to do your homework. "Mature" in this case has 2 meanings

 

I threw out my " no under 30 yr old rule" and concentrate on what's really important to me

[Derp du Soleil 1320]

I mentioned this in another thread, but years ago I had the good fortune to experience a women who was about twice my age. It was pretty clear cut that she was taking me home, and after some time together in a bubble tub, proceeded to use & abuse me in every manner until the sun came up. As a guy in his very-early twenties, this was hugely refreshing over the usual b/s mixed signals I was getting at the time from women my age.

 

Today, now that I've "caught up" to that age of maturity, I can relive that memory of a young guy walking into a room with a gorgeous women ready to do terrible, magnificent things to me. Who wouldn't want to experience that fantasy?

[Reddog01 30280]

I recognize the benefits/arguments for seeing a "mature" escort. However, personally, I find I am focused on SPs in their late 20s/early 30s. More now, as I am just starting to feel the "creep thing" associated with a wide difference in age (as alluded in above posts) when seeing or interacting with 19 to 24 year olds.

 

I am cognizant of age difference but to be honest I really enjoy the exuberance of youth found in younger escorts/MAs/dancers. I take pleasure in their un-jaded views of the world, bubbly disposition, energy and general sense of optimism associated with being young and looking to the future. This exuberance rubs off on me, I find it stimulating and it can, many times, define the session. Also, perhaps presumptuous of me, I also enjoy taking my time and giving younger providers a good pleasing experience based on my years and personal approach. I find conversation, respect and taking the time with "foreplay" pays dividends and guarantees a return date that often is better than the first.

 

Having said all this, I see booking more "mature" SPs in the future. Its all good.

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

My age was 30. at 30, I really started to feel like a woman. Seductive, feline, and although I din't know what I wanted, I knew exactly where I was heading. Feeling confident.

 

at 35, I started to feel age take its rights... I need more trainning, face creams, hair dye.

 

But it may be easyer to accept aging with confidence, and this transpire in our attitude.

 

Hell knows if a confident woman can have sex appeal...