Need Some Help

[dimdom 0]

Hi, I'm new to this escort thing. I have never been to escort before so, looking for some tips. 

What do I do once I get there? should I give her the money in hand or place it on the table?

How do I know if she is really independent  or lying about it?

and how do I not get robbed ? what if she takes the money tells me to get out??

Please let me know. Thanks.

[MissArtois 102]

On 10/13/2022 at 6:31 PM, dimdom said:

What do I do once I get there? should I give her the money in hand or place it on the table?

As you're new to this (which is probably a good thing to mention to her when you contact), you could ask her preference? I don't think one is much better or worse than the other... $ has to be counted, so ~my~ slight preference to be handed directly.

 

Some escorts prefer to receive donation in an envelope, and then for you to excuse yourself to washroom to wash hands so the donation can be counted without it being awkward. There may be a policy on her website...when in doubt, that's the way to go. 

 

On 10/13/2022 at 6:31 PM, dimdom said:

How do I know if she is really independent  or lying about it?

 

There's not "one simple trick" to this, it's a process/doing your homework. Good signs are being verified on multiple sites, having rates that are not suspiciously low, if she screens (does not just meet anyone, or rush you to come see her), having reviews (Lyla is a good board ...other boards are worth checking out but take with a grain of salt. Some people abuse boards to "get back" at SP's if they have beef and such fraudulent reviews are left up), having active social media...

 

Here is a reddit thread post that is more US focused but gives generally good info.

 

On 10/13/2022 at 6:31 PM, dimdom said:

and how do I not get robbed ? what if she takes the money tells me to get out??

 

This is largely avoidable by doing your homework in the ways described above. Not that it could *never* happen, in the way that anything is in theory possible, but if you research the provider properly and find a reliable, professional independent, then it's basically a non-zero chance of that happening. Word gets out quickly when providers do someone dirty like that, and independents put a lot of time and work into establishing their presence so they're quite unlikely to throw that away for one appt's donation right?

 

You have to be more wary of that with ads that change name and # all the time, ads with low rates, providers who don't screen (if they're planning to rob you they won't care about screening), ads with stolen pics... If you are willing to do some research you can 100% avoid this. 🙂

 

Edit: Greenteal's post is good too, also just saw today Tryst added a Client Guide. 

[Guest]

Suggest reading this thread where I already identified useful links:

Where to start without being stupid or insensitive - Lyla

And as you seem to be in the Toronto area, would suggest:

Toronto Massage - Schedules & announcements - Lyla

Toronto Recommendations - Lyla

And maybe search other message boards with more recommendations in the GTA.

 

 

 

 

[Gruzzy 5]

I've been reading some threads similar to this one, and every time I read another one, I learn something new about etiquette and processes. I'd recommend doing the same!