Recommendation on SPs providing only "safe" services

[Hornet 71]

Hi there,

 

I've been enjoying sensual massages so far, but I am also considering exploring the pleasures of SP services.

 

But, since I am very conscious of STDs I would like to focus my attention on SPs that offer ONLY "safe" GFE to ALL of their customer, as safe it can be. :) So, no BBBJ, DATY, DFK, unprotected sex and other types of direct contact during the play.

 

I would appreciate your recommendation.

 

Thank you,

Hornet

[PistolPete 61421]

Perhaps if you just search the recommendation section of ladies that are safe, it will show in the recommendation section or seek out the schedules and announcements for the ladies that advertise for safe only...and then check their rec's. Far better then everyone giving their perspective on it.

 

Just my two cents,

 

 

Hi there,

 

I've been enjoying sensual massages so far, but I am also considering exploring the pleasures of SP services.

 

But, since I am very conscious of STDs I would like to focus my attention on SPs that offer ONLY "safe" GFE to ALL of their customer, as safe it can be. :) So, no BBBJ, DATY, DFK, unprotected sex and other types of direct contact during the play.

 

I would appreciate your recommendation.

 

Thank you,

Hornet

[Hornet 71]

Thanks for recommendation PP. Much appreciated.

 

I just find this to be more effective approach then going through hundreds of recommendations, if the gents are willing to share their knowledge of course.

I know that I wouldn't mind sharing my experience if someone asks for a help.

 

Also, SPs might be interested in identifying themselves.

 

Cheers,

hornet

[PistolPete 61421]

I'm not sure if ladies would be allowed to do that here in this thread, kinda like advertising outside their corrective area? Someone I'm sure will correct me if I'm wrong.

Check daily schedules for our city there is a couple of ladies that I know that only offer strict safe sex, and those options you described above.

[Hornet 71]

Thanks for clarification PP.

 

Cheers,

Hornet

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

Rule update, February 2011:

 

1) The ladies are now permitted to respond in any general discussion area to threads if they can accommodate a specific request. For instance if a guy is looking for a lady who visits couples the ladies can respond telling the guys that they offer that service. Blatant advertising outside the announcement area is still not permitted to please DO NOT abuse this new rule.

 

2) The ladies are now permitted to also PM the guys if they publicly ask for a specific service. A PM in reply to a public thread asking for specific info will no longer be considered UNSOLICITED advertising as long as a thread was made asking for info. Blatant advertising by PM is still not permitted so please DO NOT abuse this new rule either. BULK advertising on the PM SYSTEM will get you in BIG trouble still.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=45381

[PistolPete 61421]

Thanks WIT! with so many rules to follow here I was not quite sure.

[Miss Scarlett 25073]

I believe nathalie_lefebvre offers only safe GFE.

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=47001

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

I believe nathalie_lefebvre offers only safe GFE.

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=47001

 

I think she does offer DFK and DATY....

[BootyLoving 2441]

I know ladies that I would consider "safe" GFE, but my qualification for "safe" don't exclude daty or lfk. Plowing through the recommendation and building your own library is the most reliable way for you to determine your comfort level with who you would consider safe. Me, I consider Jazy, xxAngelina, BelleBordeaux as "safe" GFE. At least that's the service I received when I had their attention. Still very fun and satisfying service, and easily repeatable.

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

I may not be right but I think is not easy to find an SP that does not offer any of the activities you want to avoid however,is your decision which activities you want to happen during your time with her as long as among her activities listed of course, meaning she won't mind you crossing off what you don't feel comfortable with.

 

Remember most ladies (and I'm just saying most as can't guarantee all but I would say a very high percentage) of SP's do get tested very frequently as we cherish our health and are aware of the risks we are exposed to. Not saying people outside of this industry are less exposed but many are less aware of the importance of getting tested.

 

I suggest you find a lady or/and contact one from the suggestions made here that according to your standards is closest to what you consider safe and explain what your expectations are. I am sure she will have no problem respecting them. Good luck! :)

 

ps. In respond to the post above mine, I believe Belle Bordeaux has retired.

[Nathalie L 112512]

I believe nathalie_lefebvre offers only safe GFE.

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=47001

 

I do offer safe GFE. No BBBJs or unprotected sex of any kind. Sky offers a safe GFE experience similar to mine as well (at least as far as safer practices go): http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=39777

 

I think she does offer DFK and DATY....

 

DATY is an extremely low-risk activity for the receiver (me), but higher risk for the client. If a client was uncomfortable with the idea of DATY on the basis of safer sex, then I'd be completely comfortable with that. I do have dental dams available, or, I can always pleasure myself in another way... ;)

 

In terms of DFK, it is also a very low risk activity for both parties involved. Given its low risks, I definitely think it's worth it for the sake of getting turned on and properly lubricated! Spit has a very low transmission rate and if you don't brush your teeth right before the encounter it's an even lower risk.

 

Chew gum folks ;) it's safer!

[Alexandra-Sky 12606]

And me!

 

xoxo

[VedaSloan 119179]

Either Busty Vanessa or Tiffany Amber are also a safe GFE, but I can't remember which, so you'll have to double check. I think it's Vanessa, but it's too early for me...my brain is mush.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Try searching for "Safe GFE" under the Ottawa Female - Announcements, etc. forum.

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/search.php?searchid=1434014

[PistolPete 61421]

Wiser decision to make, rather then other people stating so and so offers these services only to find out they offer this and that.

 

Try searching for "Safe GFE" under the Ottawa Female - Announcements' date=' etc. forum.

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/search.php?searchid=1434014[/quote']

[moonshadow 369]

I know ladies that I would consider "safe" GFE, but my qualification for "safe" don't exclude daty or lfk. Plowing through the recommendation and building your own library is the most reliable way for you to determine your comfort level with who you would consider safe. Me, I consider Jazy, xxAngelina, BelleBordeaux as "safe" GFE. At least that's the service I received when I had their attention. Still very fun and satisfying service, and easily repeatable.

 

I have not met Jazzy, but I would totally agree with Belle Bordeaux.

If you are looking for a "Safe" experience, you can't go wrong with her.

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[Victoria Banks 21899]

I have not met Jazzy, but I would totally agree with Belle Bordeaux.

If you are looking for a "Safe" experience, you can't go wrong with her.

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I believe Belle is retired now.

[roamingguy 300291]

Hi there,

 

I've been enjoying sensual massages so far, but I am also considering exploring the pleasures of SP services.

 

But, since I am very conscious of STDs I would like to focus my attention on SPs that offer ONLY "safe" GFE to ALL of their customer, as safe it can be. :) So, no BBBJ, DATY, DFK, unprotected sex and other types of direct contact during the play.

 

I would appreciate your recommendation.

 

Thank you,

Hornet

 

Not trying to sound funny here, but really, the only true 100 percent guaranteed safe sex is masturbation. Even in committed monogamous relationships, well affairs do happen

What I would suggest is instead of focusing on ladies who offer safe gfe experience, when you see a lady who interests you, have a 100 percent safe encounter ie no kissing, no daty (unless with a dental dam) cbj, cfs (I'd be surprised if a lady didn't provide this and if she provides unprotected fs, RUN)

Also, the ladies on CERB are a good place to look, read the profiles/websites/reco's of ladies that interest you and go from there

Good luck

RG

[Hornet 71]

Not trying to sound funny here, but really, the only true 100 percent guaranteed safe sex is masturbation. Even in committed monogamous relationships, well affairs do happen

What I would suggest is instead of focusing on ladies who offer safe gfe experience, when you see a lady who interests you, have a 100 percent safe encounter ie no kissing, no daty (unless with a dental dam) cbj, cfs (I'd be surprised if a lady didn't provide this and if she provides unprotected fs, RUN)

Also, the ladies on CERB are a good place to look, read the profiles/websites/reco's of ladies that interest you and go from there

Good luck

RG

 

Thanks for your comment RG.

 

It's true that there is no such thing as a 100% safe sex in this kind of business and I wasn't dreaming about it. :)

But, there is a way of minimizing that risk significantly.

 

For me that would be if the SP was never engaged in an unprotected sex with any client, not just me.

If she did have unprotected sex with some of the clients before, that increases the risk for me even if I insist on using protection during our encounter.

In other words, the risk is even lower if both parties have been practicing safe sex all the time, not only one of them. :)

 

Cheers,

Hornet

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[Malika Fantasy 144625]

Hi there,

 

I've been enjoying sensual massages so far, but I am also considering exploring the pleasures of SP services.

 

But, since I am very conscious of STDs I would like to focus my attention on SPs that offer ONLY "safe" GFE to ALL of their customer, as safe it can be. :) So, no BBBJ, DATY, DFK, unprotected sex and other types of direct contact during the play.

 

I would appreciate your recommendation.

 

Thank you,

Hornet

 

I do believe carmen4you may correspond to what you look...

 

but Hornet, please keep in mind that yes I am pretty sure that all the ladies here on Cerb are genious and get tested fairly often, this is sex industry. We do have sex with more then one person...even if someone provide the most safe service she can, there will ALWAYS be chance to STI, lower then someone that offer bbbj maybe, but it will always happen. the only safe solution is self masturbation. You need to understand this if you decide to see an SP (no matter how safe she is in her services) that this is our job and nothing can guarantee it, not even the safest services

[roamingguy 300291]

Thanks for your comment RG.

 

It's true that there is no such thing as a 100% safe sex in this kind of business and I wasn't dreaming about it. :)

But, there is a way of minimizing that risk significantly.

 

For me that would be if the SP was never engaged in an unprotected sex with any client, not just me.

If she did have unprotected sex with some of the clients before, that increases the risk for me even if I insist on using protection during our encounter.

In other words, the risk is even lower if both parties have been practicing safe sex all the time, not only one of them. :)

 

Cheers,

Hornet

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I'm not disagreeing that the risk is reduced if both the lady and gentleman are both practicing safe sex, but really, if you practice 100 percent safe sex during your encounters according to your criteria, you should be able to minimize your risk to your comfort level

But on a lighter note

RG:icon_biggrin:

[Hornet 71]

I'm not disagreeing that the risk is reduced if both the lady and gentleman are both practicing safe sex, but really, if you practice 100 percent safe sex during your encounters according to your criteria, you should be able to minimize your risk to your comfort level

But on a lighter note

RG:icon_biggrin:

 

Lol! :)

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[Chanel Reign 28097]

Not trying to sound funny here, but really, the only true 100 percent guaranteed safe sex is masturbation. Even in committed monogamous relationships, well affairs do happen

What I would suggest is instead of focusing on ladies who offer safe gfe experience, when you see a lady who interests you, have a 100 percent safe encounter ie no kissing, no daty (unless with a dental dam) cbj, cfs (I'd be surprised if a lady didn't provide this and if she provides unprotected fs, RUN)

Also, the ladies on CERB are a good place to look, read the profiles/websites/reco's of ladies that interest you and go from there

Good luck

RG

 

Perhaps some perspective here. Think of it from the SP's point of view. If one chooses to participate in the sex industry, one must protect the assets. Intelligently that means taking care of the safety and health of those assets (your own body in this case).

 

Educating yourself on the realities of what's safe and whats not should be an SP's first priority and here at CERB I believe that is the majority.

 

Abstractly everyone has a different idea of "whats safe". But I think that we can all agree the uncovered FS is not. And yes if you are offered unprotected full service, pull your pants back up and politely leave fast; go home and take a shower with Detol! lol

 

I have talked to a sex ed specialist and a dentist regarding bbbj. Both told me pretty much the same thing, just in different jargon. My dentist also recommended a mouth rinse as well. Hence I offer it at my/your discretion.

 

Being honest though...a covered bj feels like I'm trying to put chap-stick on in a very weird way!

 

Everything else is covered of course but I do NOT use latex as I have a sensitivity to it. I find the higher end condoms are the best for me.

 

Scientifically, safety would be each person wrapped in a hazmat suit. This is obviously unachievable; but it might be fun to try once! :shock:

 

There is an educated, rational and safe area. Its called YOUR safety zone. Everyone should respect that.

[Hornet 71]

Perhaps some perspective here. Think of it from the SP's point of view. If one chooses to participate in the sex industry, one must protect the assets. Intelligently that means taking care of the safety and health of those assets (your own body in this case).

 

Educating yourself on the realities of what's safe and whats not should be an SP's first priority and here at CERB I believe that is the majority.

 

Abstractly everyone has a different idea of "whats safe". But I think that we can all agree the uncovered FS is not. And yes if you are offered unprotected full service, pull your pants back up and politely leave fast; go home and take a shower with Detol! lol

 

I have talked to a sex ed specialist and a dentist regarding bbbj. Both told me pretty much the same thing, just in different jargon. My dentist also recommended a mouth rinse as well. Hence I offer it at my/your discretion.

 

Being honest though...a covered bj feels like I'm trying to put chap-stick on in a very weird way!

 

Everything else is covered of course but I do NOT use latex as I have a sensitivity to it. I find the higher end condoms are the best for me.

 

Scientifically, safety would be each person wrapped in a hazmat suit. This is obviously unachievable; but it might be fun to try once! :shock:

 

There is an educated, rational and safe area. Its called YOUR safety zone. Everyone should respect that.

 

Hi Chanel,

 

Thanks for your inputs. I agree with you 100%.

I hope all SPs have the same approach and thinking as you, but I am sure there are some, less-careful ones out there.

 

I came across this interesting chart that might be helpful to understand the risks involved (for those who are not sure). I found it quite informative. It's prepared by a professional health nurse from Vancouver who provides answers to sex-related questions to members of perb.ca, which is similar to cerb.ca but for Pacific-Prairie region.

 

http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/

 

Cheers,

Hornet