East Coast Kimmy 1062 Report post Posted January 25 I've been seeing "warning" posts about providers - even some where providers are being fully doxxed - and it appears nothing is being done about it. It's sad to see the safety of so many jeopardized by someone deciding to react & post out of emotion. In the cases where someone is scammed IT IS NEVER OKAY TO SHARE SOMEONES REAL NAME OR PRIVATE DETAILS ONLINE - if you find yourself that hurt about it, perhaps contact authorities? But to commit a crime by sharing someone's details is not cool, never has been & never will be. A brief description of detail & the persons alias alone has always been more than sufficient. I've suffered the effects of this type of bullying from other SPs sharing their child like gossip amongst themselves, clients and even platforms on the internet. The negative impacts are irreparable & will stick with the person being bullied for a life time. I still deal with it in the present date & have made attempts over the years to stop these people from continuing the harassment and having the old slander removed to no avail. Doxxing someone will not get your money back (clients) or make you more money (providers) it only shows everyone how untrustworthy YOU ARE - not the person you post about. To those clients who like to book dates with providers and use that time to talk about other providers - whether it be positive or negative - wouldn't it be worth the price paid to spend the time ENJOYING the companion you've paid to share wonderful time with opposed to gossiping about someone else & having your session terminated without refund?! Food for thought. Do better people. 9 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
East Coast Kimmy 1062 Report post Posted January 25 8 hours ago, East Coast Kimmy said: A brief description of detail & the persons alias alone has always been more than sufficient. ----------------------------- Food for thought. Do better people. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karltrucker 15 Report post Posted January 26 (edited) Well said Eastcoast Kimmy, I have heard from some of the ladies I seen, sad that others can't leave well enough alone,as the saying goes, you can't please all the people all the time Edited January 26 by Karltrucker Mistake in post 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thor13 1035 Report post Posted January 27 I'm sorry @East Coast Kimmytthat you have to deal with this kind of sh#t. Just wanted to let you know that you are beautiful inside out and wanted to send some positive thoughts. Love and peace. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Violet 5 Report post Posted January 30 No only have I been threatened, doxxed, exposed, blackmailed and extorted during my time a a SP... I have had people, (both clients and non-clients), attempt to infiltrate my private life by going to extreme lengths to find out my true identity... They then try to cause all kinds of trouble for me in my private life... doxxing me to people in my life such as my unknowing family, full-time employer, landlord etc. irreparably and catastrophically jeopardizing my home, my career, relationships, etc. All this because I decline their custom, or will not lower my rate, or refuse to provide a particular service. One man in particular, tried to extort money from me through blackmail... He threatened to inform my family of the fact that I do this work as a part time SP in secret. I refused to pay up to his monetary ransom demands. He categorically almost destroyed my life completely by launching a horrifyingly malicious defamatory smear campaign against me through a strategic, comprehensive email offensive... contacting important and influential people in my private life causing disastrous repercussions that still affect me to this day, 6 years later. The fact that anyone decides to engage in work as an SP is entirely their own business, and no one else's. The reason that they choose to do so, is also their own business. As long as no one is being trafficked or harmed, it is no one else's concern, except that of the SP themselves. They do not deserve to be shamed, abused, or treated differently in any other way. SPs are professionals who work hard for their income. They deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. SP's are not slaves. SPs are not bought or owned. We do not have to "obey" or "comply" with every quirk or fancy a client might demand of us. We are human beings and therefore are entitled to human rights and respect. Something that is lost on so many people who seek to employ us. 5 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
harboursmoke 3074 Report post Posted January 30 8 hours ago, Violet said: No only have I been threatened, doxxed, exposed, blackmailed and extorted during my time a a SP... I have had people, (both clients and non-clients), attempt to infiltrate my private life by going to extreme lengths to find out my true identity... They then try to cause all kinds of trouble for me in my private life... doxxing me to people in my life such as my unknowing family, full-time employer, landlord etc. irreparably and catastrophically jeopardizing my home, my career, relationships, etc. All this because I decline their custom, or will not lower my rate, or refuse to provide a particular service. One man in particular, tried to extort money from me through blackmail... He threatened to inform my family of the fact that I do this work as a part time SP in secret. I refused to pay up to his monetary ransom demands. He categorically almost destroyed my life completely by launching a horrifyingly malicious defamatory smear campaign against me through a strategic, comprehensive email offensive... contacting important and influential people in my private life causing disastrous repercussions that still affect me to this day, 6 years later. The fact that anyone decides to engage in work as an SP is entirely their own business, and no one else's. The reason that they choose to do so, is also their own business. As long as no one is being trafficked or harmed, it is no one else's concern, except that of the SP themselves. They do not deserve to be shamed, abused, or treated differently in any other way. SPs are professionals who work hard for their income. They deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. SP's are not slaves. SPs are not bought or owned. We do not have to "obey" or "comply" with every quirk or fancy a client might demand of us. We are human beings and therefore are entitled to human rights and respect. Something that is lost on so many people who seek to employ us. That's terrible. I'm very sorry that happened to you. I've been the victim of blackmail in this industry. I feel you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StephanieMystique 1804 Report post Posted January 31 It's so heartbreaking how more and more of us share the similar story. The damage done is a huge heartbreak and sends an echo out that comes back often to continue to hurt us. Losing careers, places to live, family, partners and friends to speak on a few of my own tragedies from being doxed. Legal justice is hard to come by for the victims due to the nature of our jobs. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
