Guest gagagaga Report post Posted July 28, 2011 (edited) thank you...bye Edited July 28, 2011 by gagagaga Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silverado17 12689 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 ha ha ha i guess she did get u and u thought u were getting her Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 I guess that was considered a low blow.......... Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MiaBella 10988 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 I'm very curious as to why you, JoeBlow, seem to be encouraging extras in the CR at strip clubs? You know this is prohibited, you know the girl could get in trouble if she is caught, and you know that if you really wanted your dick sucked, you could simply go to an escort. But for some reason, since I have moved here(to Canada), I have witnessed Strip Clubs being no more that under-exaggerated Brothels. Don't mean to hijack your thread, but it seems to me that there is a lot more to risk and in the end benefits only the gent and screws the lady over. Because as I see it, no girl starts as a stripper thinking she's gonna be sucking dick for $40 in the CR when all she really thought it would be was dancing naked. The entire reason girls end up doing extras at clubs is because they feel pressure to do so. They think "well if others girls do that to make money, I better keep up or I'll go home with nothing!" Maybe I'm too sensitive, but I don't see bragging about illegal activities is really all that cool. And the girl in your story had it right on. 21 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 Well said, Miabella. Part of the reason I left dancing, was it was very hard emotionally to be constantly pressured to do things I wasn't comfortable with. There is nothing wrong with sex for money, but there is a time and place for everything. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 I'm sure some girls feel pressure to do what the others are doing. I haven't been to SC much in the last few years but in my experience, any extra I got at a SC ever was offered freely. I never once asked or pressured a girl to do anything. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
twoblues 258 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 I'm sure some girls feel pressure to do what the others are doing. I haven't been to SC much in the last few years but in my experience, any extra I got at a SC ever was offered freely. I never once asked or pressured a girl to do anything. Never got any extras and never ask for any. Having said that, though, if extras were freely offered and it was safe, I would not say no. I go to strip clubs to enjoy the show knowing full well not to expect anything more. Of course, I'm usually on this site or the other while at the strip club trying to decide on what to do after the club ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted July 28, 2011 (edited) thank you bye Edited July 28, 2011 by gagagaga Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 Megan- It sucks that you were made to feel that way by crappy people. I have never pressured any dancer for anything, I don't think i have ever even asked for anything. anytime i have ever gotten anything extra, it was offered freely wthour coersion of any kind. Just last night I was getting dances from a super hot girl, my hand wandered to an area which was off limits, she said ah ah ah..no no...I said, cool, got a bunch more dances, and that was that. Instead of wandering hands, I suggest you ask her first. While I respect that you personally may not have pressured anyone, my issue with your recent postings is that you are encouraging guys to go into strip clubs seeking sex and even coaching them on how to get a stripper to agree to sex. This can create very difficult work environments for us. Like I said above, there is a time and place for everything. If you're looking for sex for money, you've come to the right place (CERB). By the number of nominations that Mia's post received, I hope you have noted that many ladies are put off by these threads and comments. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 Please don't give reasons to close bars or criminalize CR dancing. I respectfully disagree that our strip bars in Canada or Ottawa are under-exaggerated brothels. Definitely not all. And then only a minority of dancers may offer extras and a majority will (contact) dance only. This kind of comments will give strength and reason to the extreme elements in the government not only to make prostitution illegal but also to close all our strip bars (or CRs) too as they almost did in Sweden. I read in an article that in Sweden since buying sex become illegal, dancers are not allowed to take off their underwear even when on stage, forget about contact dances lol (yes Sweden not Saudi Arabia lol!!!!!!). A similar private bill is awaiting to be proposed to Canadian parliamemt in the fall (making buying sex illegal and criminal and some backward elements may consider contact dancing as sexual and paying for it as buying sex!!!!). If they close strip bars too then where do we go for weekend fun after stressful work week lol???. Please refrain from comments like this or describing extras in the strip bars. We all know these are a tiny minority and mostly they are clean dances....It is not the right time. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MiaBella 10988 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 Please refrain from comments like this or describing extras in the strip bars. We all know these are a tiny minority and mostly they are clean dances....It is not the right time. This is why I have a problem with joeblow describing these extras and glamorizing them, and even offering coaching. Like Megan said, there is a time and place. Strip clubs aren't one of them. Maybe my observation is not the same as yours, but from someone who came with experience from dance clubs in the states where touching is completely prohibited, that is what I learned, heard, and am sharing with you after dancing in Ontario for 2 1/2 years. My issue is not with the ladies, and never will be. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103696 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 If it was a "Joke" or to be funny it should have been placed here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=73 do read the rules before posting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted July 28, 2011 This is why I have a problem with joeblow describing these extras and glamorizing them, and even offering coaching. Like Megan said, there is a time and place. Strip clubs aren't one of them. Maybe my observation is not the same as yours, but from someone who came with experience from dance clubs in the states where touching is completely prohibited, that is what I learned, heard, and am sharing with you after dancing in Ontario for 2 1/2 years. My issue is not with the ladies, and never will be. All I am saying is that we should refrain from comments that will provide reason to our MPs to vote positively on the impending private bill in the fall as they may claim that things are now out of control and have to be contained by a tough law. If you wish to share your experience I suggest you do it in a PM and it is your experience and you have not been for sure to all strip bars in Ottawa or Canada to generalize that strip bars are under-exaggerated brothels lol!!!!. As I have poiinted out on past occasions I too have problems with those posting the extras they may get (so they say) in a public place and even under current law it is illegal. We are shooting ourselves in the foot lol. If the bill passes, we as hobbyists will stop seeing escorts (most of us anyways as in Sweden demand declined by 90% first few years) and escorts seeing a drop in business may start dancing and if strip bars are closed too or as good as closed (with no CR dancing and dancers wearing unserwears on stage) then there is no where to go for either of us lol to have fun and release stresses (hobbyists) or to make living (escorts/dancers). It will be a lose lose situation, only the extreme elements in the government will win and we are the reason for it with our exaggerated comments lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CerbForInfo 100 Report post Posted August 14, 2011 I for one am too shy in a CR to ask or do anything out of order and I have never seen or heard of anything like that happening.The CR are too open and visible at most places and don,t most have camera,s? Rg Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted August 15, 2011 I for one am too shy in a CR to ask or do anything out of order and I have never seen or heard of anything like that happening.The CR are too open and visible at most places and don,t most have camera,s?Rg Being shy helps but being illegal is more deterrent for me. Yes they do have cameras in certain bars in the CRs like Barbs and in some like Pigale the bouncers check in at nights so the combinations makes it imposible to do anything extra without a good risk of being caught (that is why I am not buying the claims) and most girls don't risk it. In addition Most if not all CRs on Ottawa side are open and visible. In my view our strip bars are mostly clean and no illegal activities being carried out, however, there may be rare exceptions in a rundown SCs or two that I may not be aware of. No reason whatsoever trying to criminalize CRs or restrict our CR any further. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
