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[Exotic Touch Danielle 31900]

And here we go once again, this shit is never ending

Thank fck I ask for a deposit now, the guys that respect our safety and time will send and the ones that don't won't

 

[BenDover78 110]

I just had the opposite, provided the deposit and have the provider cancel on me 3 times. 

[MsManda 25992]

6 minutes ago, stevenwilson said:

Only simps and morons do that. At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it. There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better. The entitlement is crazy. I do hear SPs point of view as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit. We don't deserve that. Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive. Its about using common sense and having morals. You can be trusting anyone these days.

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it. I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything. but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed. 

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, 

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around, simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them. But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that.

 

Thank goodness this guy doesn't dictate the norms and standards omg 🤦

[LadiesFirst 867]

41 minutes ago, stevenwilson said:

but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to

Perhaps we would do well to remember companions are somebody's daughter, sister, and in many cases mother, in short,  they too have families. 

 

[MsManda 25992]

5 minutes ago, LadiesFirst said:

Perhaps we would do well to remember companions are somebody's daughter, sister, and in many cases mother, in short,  they too have families. 

 

He sees us like the cops do

Nhi

No human involved 🤦

[MikeyInHalifax 541]

1 hour ago, stevenwilson said:

Only simps and morons do that. At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it. There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better. The entitlement is crazy. I do hear SPs point of view as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit. We don't deserve that. Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive. Its about using common sense and having morals. You can be trusting anyone these days.

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it. I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything. but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed. 

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, 

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around, simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them. But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that.

 

Who hurt you?

[Skilled Hands 223]

1 hour ago, stevenwilson said:

Only simps and morons do that. At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it. There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better. The entitlement is crazy. I do hear SPs point of view as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit. We don't deserve that. Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive. Its about using common sense and having morals. You can be trusting anyone these days.

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it. I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything. but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed. 

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, 

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around, simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them. But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that.

 

 

[Skilled Hands 223]

[Pamela Luscious 398]

No one is entitled to a SWER’s time. If someone isn’t comfortable with an escort who screens, has clear boundaries and remains selective, then they were simply never her target client. And just because you consider yourself a good client doesn’t necessarily mean you are a good client for her. A good client for her is someone who does not question her limits or her screening process.

 

Not all money is good money, and I think it’s positive to see more and more SWERs able to prioritize their safety and their standards. Being selective is a luxury and unfortunately it’s not a reality for everyone in this industry. But those who can do it are also helping normalize healthier boundaries.

 

I also think it’s powerful to see women able to choose, to be free in how they work and to decide what is right for them. Our freedom and autonomy should never be negotiable. No one has control over our choices, our limits or how we choose to manage our careers.

 

We also shouldn’t be afraid to be firm in our boundaries out of fear of blackmail, pressure or fake bad reviews. Setting clear limits from the start isn’t being difficult, it’s simply respecting yourself and protecting your safety.

 

The more we normalize screening, freedom of choice and respect for boundaries, the healthier this industry becomes for everyone.

[Skilled Hands 223]

11 hours ago, BenDover78 said:

I just had the opposite, provided the deposit and have the provider cancel on me 3 times. 

But how did it end? Did you eventually have your deposit applied and eventually were able to book? 

 

[BenDover78 110]

9 hours ago, Skilled Hands said:

But how did it end? Did you eventually have your deposit applied and eventually were able to book? 

 

I had my deposit applied to each of my bookings, and they kept canceling until the 3rd booking, then they never replied at all. Still haven't contacted me after texted and called. I've never had a SP do this to me before and it has caused me to lose trust. I understand why they ask for a deposit but ghosting a client can't be good for their business.

[minuteman06 532]

I wonder if this discussion will ever end 🤔

It's a rinse and repeat conversation that constantly comes up; just change a few of the characters and it starts all over again with no resolve.  

I'm actually amazed at the time it takes for some people to type out the length of reply they post, good for you, shows you're passionate about the topic.  However, history is doomed to repeat itself and here we are again, sigh. 

Until the end of time (in Canada anyway because I don't see any laws changing soon), we will always have clients who pay deposits, clients who don't pay deposits, each has their reasoning.  We will also have swers who require a deposit and we will have swers who don't require a deposit.  Pretty simple, not rocket science, let's move on and stop beating this dead horse.

[dadawg 160]

2 hours ago, minuteman06 said:

I wonder if this discussion will ever end 🤔

It's a rinse and repeat conversation that constantly comes up; just change a few of the characters and it starts all over again with no resolve.  

I'm actually amazed at the time it takes for some people to type out the length of reply they post, good for you, shows you're passionate about the topic.  However, history is doomed to repeat itself and here we are again, sigh. 

Until the end of time (in Canada anyway because I don't see any laws changing soon), we will always have clients who pay deposits, clients who don't pay deposits, each has their reasoning.  We will also have swers who require a deposit and we will have swers who don't require a deposit.  Pretty simple, not rocket science, let's move on and stop beating this dead horse.

True enough, but always started by lyla member,  and responded to by providers. You can see why they bite each time, safety, their safety in this wacko world, they are probably sick of saying it, and have much better things to do. While I'm on the soapbox lol, who actually sticks up for providers other than themselves? Still an underground occupation in this so called inclusive woke society, I know there are sketchy ones, but that that isn't the case on this thread.

On the upside beautiful sunny Saturday in Scotia.

[Pamela Luscious 398]

3 hours ago, minuteman06 said:

I wonder if this discussion will ever end 🤔

It's a rinse and repeat conversation that constantly comes up; just change a few of the characters and it starts all over again with no resolve.  

I'm actually amazed at the time it takes for some people to type out the length of reply they post, good for you, shows you're passionate about the topic.  However, history is doomed to repeat itself and here we are again, sigh. 

Until the end of time (in Canada anyway because I don't see any laws changing soon), we will always have clients who pay deposits, clients who don't pay deposits, each has their reasoning.  We will also have swers who require a deposit and we will have swers who don't require a deposit.  Pretty simple, not rocket science, let's move on and stop beating this dead horse.

 I just want to clarify something.

Here, we often see members say they won’t see an escort who screens or who has strict boundaries. It’s fine to have preferences. But we also need to be aware of the impact that kind of discourse can have.

When new girls in the industry constantly read that screening drives clients away or that too many boundaries are a “turn off,” it can create pressure. Especially for those who need money quickly. It can push them to lower their standards, screen less or accept things they don’t really want to accept.

And that can become dangerous. For their safety and for their mental health.

If I’m speaking about this, It’s because this is a reality most of us have experienced at one point or another. I’m speaking here for the safety of women in this industry and to normalize having strong boundaries without fear of pressure, retaliation or coercion.

[MikeyInHalifax 541]

3 hours ago, minuteman06 said:

I wonder if this discussion will ever end 🤔

It's a rinse and repeat conversation that constantly comes up; just change a few of the characters and it starts all over again with no resolve.  

I'm actually amazed at the time it takes for some people to type out the length of reply they post, good for you, shows you're passionate about the topic.  However, history is doomed to repeat itself and here we are again, sigh. 

Until the end of time (in Canada anyway because I don't see any laws changing soon), we will always have clients who pay deposits, clients who don't pay deposits, each has their reasoning.  We will also have swers who require a deposit and we will have swers who don't require a deposit.  Pretty simple, not rocket science, let's move on and stop beating this dead horse.

My bone to pick is the denigrating language used against swers. 

 

You want to use their services but look at them with scorn the second they want some small measure of knowing who they are dealing with. As if they should just open themselves up to whatever is coming through the door no questions asked.

 

Like I said before. If you don't like the things an SP requires, don't see that SP. But don't go complaining and moaning about the standards she keeps. Move on.