LadiesFirst 897 Report post Posted 4 hours ago Good morning Just thinking outloud In the interest of a concise, cleaner discussion board, was just wishing/ hoping if anyone has seen any of the millions of randoms of the leolist that present with no feedback here and the encounter was positive go ahead and drop a recco in that other reccomendation section. SAVE US from the: "Any info on her" "She's not for me" "DM me if you've info" "I'm interested too" My personal favorite "its been a while, any info yet" 🤡 Just noticing there is only about 30 pages of recommendations. Also, sadly, there is approx 250 pages of discussion asking mostly "any info on her?" Right off you can see probabilities are low that it's a good investment of time, effort and money. The math doesn't math. What i find ironic is it would appear that the ladies that are legit and worth seeing on leolist end up with positive comments in the recco section anyhow 🤔, so why not just verify against the positive feedback already posted? Please post your reviews, sure maybe there is slight delay, but I think the delay is for vetting because we are supposed to say nice things, let's try not to degrade and put down the ladies because you didn't receive your acronym. If you were harmed in some way that's a different situation. Otherwise please wait to see something positive posted that gives you confidence, it will happen if they're the real deal. Patience is a virtue Yes I realize this is going to fall on deaf ears but the site was set up the way it is for good reasons, many would argue it used to be better. The site is still the same, the rules just seem to be ignored now, which is unfortunate. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 603 Report post Posted 4 hours ago From your fingertips to God's eyes my friend. I am slowly coming to the conclusion that there are a GREAT number of challenged or thoughtless individuals using this board. I get it, they're not very smart. This hobby of ours is probably the only way these poor guys have even a chance at an encounter with a female. Such are the cards they've been dealt. Technology can be difficult, and they probably would like to have as little interaction w/ the InteErWebS as they can. Mainly because, while it's extremely useful in remaining anonymous and engaging with the ladies, this internet stuff is just tough man! Plus "I dOn't wAnt pEopLe tO kNoW My bUsiNeSS..." *That one always makes me laugh* Then again there are the guys I truly sympathize with. Those gentlemen of a certain generation that were left behind when the Internet dropped on us like a ton of bricks. I have time to answer those gents questions if I can. I know how it feels to be lonely and the caress of a beautiful woman can change a lot of our psychology for the better. Who I don't have time for are the members who A. Just joined and/or are probably pimps looking to bag their next victim, B. Can't be bothered to check the review page, C. Want you to be their personal Ho Sherpa. You're just lazy bro. Guys please... Take the time to at least try to figure your own way. It's not that hard. Read the reviews from us that have been doing this a while. Write a review of a girl you spent some time with and enjoyed. Actually contribute to the community. Stop being a leech. *Gets down off soapbox* Stay safe and have fun gents 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AdamSandler 382 Report post Posted 4 hours ago One big issue with the recommendations though is admin approval is required. I have a solid amount of reputation points on the site. I don't constantly post complaining or need to have my posts taken down. But the last couple of times I've tried to post a recommendation it never appeared and I didn't get any feedback from the admins telling me they deleted it because it broke a rule or anything. I even reached out to the admins asking why and never got a response. It's frustrating when you try to contribute and put the time in but nothing happens. 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 603 Report post Posted 3 hours ago 38 minutes ago, AdamSandler said: One big issue with the recommendations though is admin approval is required. I have a solid amount of reputation points on the site. I don't constantly post complaining or need to have my posts taken down. But the last couple of times I've tried to post a recommendation it never appeared and I didn't get any feedback from the admins telling me they deleted it because it broke a rule or anything. I even reached out to the admins asking why and never got a response. It's frustrating when you try to contribute and put the time in but nothing happens. Yeah... The admins/mods aren't the best. I think they might just be overwhelmed. Time to invite some of us from the community to be mods. Maybe that's a bridge too far though. I just accept the fact that if I post a reco, it's gonna be a while before it shows up 🤷🏾♂️ 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AdamSandler 382 Report post Posted 3 hours ago I have one I posted in October and I never showed up. That's beyond a while. I think it's dead and gone. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiesFirst 897 Report post Posted 3 hours ago 42 minutes ago, AdamSandler said: One big issue with the recommendations though is admin approval is required. I have a solid amount of reputation points on the site. I don't constantly post complaining or need to have my posts taken down. But the last couple of times I've tried to post a recommendation it never appeared and I didn't get any feedback from the admins telling me they deleted it because it broke a rule or anything. I even reached out to the admins asking why and never got a response. It's frustrating when you try to contribute and put the time in but nothing happens. Agreed that is frustrating and you should be able to get a review through, you’ve been contributing a while. It does say you’re an elite member. I will say though it does seem that most - I’m sure they’re are exceptions- ladies on Leo that are legit and well received do manage to get a post with positive reviews in the reccos Also you writing a nice short note on your experience in discussion is worlds of difference between what is the current shit show going on. Mikey’s more admin is a great solution, I think the vetting is an important part…. To avoid the brouhaha’s Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiesFirst 897 Report post Posted 3 hours ago 21 minutes ago, MikeyInHalifax said: Yeah... The admins/mods aren't the best. I think they might just be overwhelmed. Time to invite some of us from the community to be mods. Maybe that's a bridge too far though. I just accept the fact that if I post a reco, it's gonna be a while before it shows up 🤷🏾♂️ Consider yourself nominated @MikeyInHalifax Think you would be great at the role! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 603 Report post Posted 2 hours ago 1 hour ago, LadiesFirst said: Consider yourself nominated @MikeyInHalifax Think you would be great at the role! Don't want it 😂 😂 😂 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
clintbarton96 1050 Report post Posted 1 hour ago I did notice one thing about recos and probably threads in general- if the person that made the initial reco deletes their Lyla account, all the recos they posted and all the posts that commented on their reco are deleted too. There used to be more recos in the Halifax section. I know some were lost during the switchover when this site was CERB but I am talking just in the last 6 months. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
