I’ve hit a hard wall…

[JohnBB 1027]

Well, I think I’ve finally hit a hard wall and I’ll tell you why…….. so in the last few years I’ve seen quite a few ladies all in that $300-$400 an hour range. Sooo you know I didn’t go cheap, they always said good service isn’t cheap and cheap service isn’t good, right?
 

Well I’d like for some service providers to please chime in here because I think I’m miss understanding something. Out of allllll these ladies, some local and some not. (Probably 20 or more) All with good reviews. Only one, ONE acted like they wanted to be there. GFE? Eh? Well you guys are acting more like a wife tbh. If I wanted someone to starfish and act like they would rather be somewhere else I’d stay home. For the price we pay, which some of us is hard earned money! I and many others that carry lunch buckets everyday. Could you please act interested for an hour? Could you act like you want me and want it? Like is that too much to ask for? lol and before you go saying blah blah blah maybe its you maybe maybe maybe. It’s not. I treat all the women I meet like gold and I’m not a bad looking dude. I dunno maybe 300-400 is not enough anymore maybe I need to spend a little more? I’m just tired of meeting women for companionship and y’all just act like you wannna take the money and run. Do better please!

 

Also if any service providers on here read this and feel like this would definitely not be them, message me! Please! I’d love to meet you!

[annapolis1949 359]

Agreed . It's been awhile ( and the ones I fondly recall are "retired")that I have met someone that makes me want to come back the next day. And if I find what JohnBB is looking for , I am more likely to keep her to myself...LOL . 

[ManFromMoncton 5]

I agree, I'm new to the hobby but yes im 1 for 4 and the 1 is a touring provider that rarely tours now. :(

[JohnBB 1027]

@MsManda I wish you would come too Fredericton more often! You’re so amazing! I’d marry you lololol😝 

[MsManda 26044]

My sexy friend @ebonyjuelzmight be coming your way soon 😈 

[Cherry Tartlette 227]

My rate is slightly more, but definitely worth it 😘 I tour there every couple/few months and will be there this week. I would love to meet you and spend some sensuous, connective time together! 💞

[Harleyboy64 285]

I can relate to the general frustration being shared here, but I want to add a bit of a different perspective—respectfully.
Over time, I’ve largely stepped back from reaching out to service providers altogether. Not out of bitterness, but more out of recognizing that things in the industry have shifted quite a bit from what they used to be. What used to feel more natural, engaging, and mutually enjoyable now often feels… transactional at best, and disconnected at worst.
To be fair, I don’t think this is entirely on providers. The landscape has changed—expectations, volume, safety concerns, burnout, and frankly the overall tone of the industry all seem different than years ago. What we may be interpreting as lack of interest could just as easily be fatigue or self-preservation on the other side.
Personally, I’ve chosen to limit interactions to rare occasions, usually only when I’m traveling and reconnecting with individuals I’ve met over the years and built some level of familiarity with. That seems to be the only context where the experience still feels genuine.
At a certain point, you have to step back and ask whether continuing to push for something that no longer exists in the same way makes sense. It may simply be that the writing is on the wall and the dynamic has fundamentally changed.
Not saying anyone is right or wrong here—just that expectations and reality may no longer be aligned like they once were.