hauntingmyst 1 Report post Posted Friday at 08:52 PM I’ve seen Cami 3 times now. Each time she has been extremely accommodating and easy going. There has to be grace shown on both sides. I’d much rather have a relaxed time than a rushed time. Sometimes that means waiting 30 min so suck it up. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blackitlightning 16 Report post Posted Friday at 10:05 PM (edited) 1 hour ago, hauntingmyst said: I’ve seen Cami 3 times now. Each time she has been extremely accommodating and easy going. There has to be grace shown on both sides. I’d much rather have a relaxed time than a rushed time. Sometimes that means waiting 30 min so suck it up. I 100% disagree with this. I will never accept that SPs can treat clients however they want but a client must demonstrate class, proper communication and respect for time. Responding 30 mins after the agreed time is tasteless. Sps have lives outside of this "hobby" and so do clients. The 1st time I saw Bella, things didn't go as planned and I had to change my time. But I messaged her an hour before and she accommodated me. When I met Stephanie, she messaged me 30 minutes before that she will be a few minutes, which I had no problems doing. If there was an issue, I would simply shorten the time we spend together. I agree with showing grace but its ridiculous seeing people act as if ghosting someone for 30 mins is appropriate Edited Friday at 10:06 PM by Blackitlightning 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billygregory 8 Report post Posted Saturday at 10:19 AM the txt now app is VERY glitchy and messages don't always go/come through so prob best for both sides to just use a real number. I can't really speak for other apps tho 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hauntingmyst 1 Report post Posted Saturday at 07:24 PM 21 hours ago, Blackitlightning said: I 100% disagree with this. I will never accept that SPs can treat clients however they want but a client must demonstrate class, proper communication and respect for time. Responding 30 mins after the agreed time is tasteless. Sps have lives outside of this "hobby" and so do clients. The 1st time I saw Bella, things didn't go as planned and I had to change my time. But I messaged her an hour before and she accommodated me. When I met Stephanie, she messaged me 30 minutes before that she will be a few minutes, which I had no problems doing. If there was an issue, I would simply shorten the time we spend together. I agree with showing grace but its ridiculous seeing people act as if ghosting someone for 30 mins is appropriate You are allowed to have your own opinion… I never once said that an SP is untouchable 🤔 however I did say that grace is needed from both sides. My first appointment I was on my way home… I texted her back saying maybe another time. She had fallen asleep it was a long day. In my mind that’s life and it happens. She told me I could swing around and go see her. It was the most brilliant time! The Questions to ask are these… Do we hold ourselves to the same standards that we hold others to? Do you throw a fit when your food takes a while in a busy restaurant? Are we always punctual in every appointment we make? Communication is important! Absolutely! Sometimes phones die, appointments take longer than expected, and sometimes things are just busy. You weren’t ghosted if you were replied to my dude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scrunchie 8 Report post Posted yesterday at 02:47 PM On 5/3/2026 at 11:09 PM, Blackitlightning said: Mikey wasnt the only who said they got ghosted on this thread though. And if the agreed time was 8pm, sending a follow up response at 8:32pm after he texted 15 mins to 8 is crazy. If it was the other way around, he would be called a timewaster. Things happen, fully agree. But communication goes a far way and shows that either party has respect for the other person's time. Stephanie and Bella Blanca will always be elite just based on communication alone. This is exactly my issue when ppl are on a client's case to treat SP with respect but an SP can do whatever they feel like. Yea, sure… but then, if I’m on my phone during an appointment, I’ll get shit on for that, so apparently it’s a lose lose situation. I don’t use my phone when I’m with someone. You should all know by now that the times are approximate. I’ve only ever had 3 people show up on time, EVER. as for being ghosted…. I would reserve that phrase for someone I’ve actually met. How can you ghost a stranger?? 🙄 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Timmy 97 Report post Posted 8 hours ago 21 hours ago, scrunchie said: Yea, sure… but then, if I’m on my phone during an appointment, I’ll get shit on for that, so apparently it’s a lose lose situation. I don’t use my phone when I’m with someone. You should all know by now that the times are approximate. I’ve only ever had 3 people show up on time, EVER. as for being ghosted…. I would reserve that phrase for someone I’ve actually met. How can you ghost a stranger?? 🙄 Is that a generational thing I wonder? I mean I'm 60 and horrifically busy in life....and I've never been late for a session. I always show up 15 minutes early in text 10 minutes before the time to let them know I'm there. I get that sometimes things happen but only 3 people have shown up on time? That's crazy for a Gen Xer 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AdamSandler 426 Report post Posted 8 hours ago 24 minutes ago, Timmy said: Is that a generational thing I wonder? I mean I'm 60 and horrifically busy in life....and I've never been late for a session. I always show up 15 minutes early in text 10 minutes before the time to let them know I'm there. I get that sometimes things happen but only 3 people have shown up on time? That's crazy for a Gen Xer I'm a millennial and it's crazy to me too. I hope she considers me as someone who showed up on time because I did arrive when I said I would but it wasn't planned as far in advance as some appointments. I've been late a couple times but I also try to arrive 10-15 minutes in advance. Sometimes things happen. I don't think I've ever been more than 5 minutes late before. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jnhfxboy 598 Report post Posted 7 hours ago 1 hour ago, Timmy said: Is that a generational thing I wonder? I mean I'm 60 and horrifically busy in life....and I've never been late for a session. I always show up 15 minutes early in text 10 minutes before the time to let them know I'm there. I get that sometimes things happen but only 3 people have shown up on time? That's crazy for a Gen Xer Ditto If you're 10 minutes early, your 5 minutes late! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
clintbarton96 1051 Report post Posted 5 hours ago 2 hours ago, jnhfxboy said: Ditto If you're 10 minutes early, your 5 minutes late! What unit did you serve in? That's a CAF slogan if I ever heard one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 669 Report post Posted 5 hours ago 29 minutes ago, clintbarton96 said: What unit did you serve in? That's a CAF slogan if I ever heard one. That a rule of thumb for any military man. Doesn't matter what branch or unit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jnhfxboy 598 Report post Posted 3 hours ago Not military; heard somewhere and it just stuck 🙂 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
