Poll on how BJ type affects hobbying decisions

[Guest Ou**or**n]

There has been plenty of discussions and polls on the topic of mens preference for BBBJ over CBJ. From these it is fairly obvious that most prefer BBBJ.

 

However the reality is that a large number of providers only provide CBJ due to personal health concerns (a fact I fully respect). How much reality there is behind these concerns has also been discussed. Dumpy ran an excellent poll and subsequent discussion on SDT/STI transmission during oral sex (which can be found here)

 

My question for this poll is whether your preference for BBBJ affects your actions when it comes to your hobbying. Preferences and actions can sometimes be two different things so I'm curious. This is a multiple choice poll so select all that apply to you.

 

Personally I prefer BBBJ and while I certainly will see well reviewed providers that only provide CBJ I repeat more often and have longer sessions with those that provide BBBJ.

[ekimout 188]

I do prefer to see the ladies that offer BBBJ, but don't limit myself based on that service alone when choosing an SP. There are some great ladies out there that provide excellent service without the BBBJ.

 

Just because and SP offers BBBJ does not guarantee a great session, it's much more then that.

[A***** A***** 510]

My two cents on another angle, oddly enough most of my clients are blow job only appointments 8-)

[YourOttawaMan 100]

Just to add to Angela's comments

 

I was with a touring provider for 2 hours and she told me that she was very curious why a number of her clients did not want intercourse so I tried to offer the following observation / opinion

 

One very clear obstacle is that many men that start this hobby have not worn a condom in many years having been in a relationship. Maybe they are still in that relationship - maybe they are on their own now - does not really matter for this discussion - but - the point is they had not worn a condom in many years

 

So - when it came to this hobby - they likely will have tried CBJ and obviously intercourse with a condom and simply found this is no where near enjoyable for them - it is a totally different sensation - or - lack of

 

Those that continue to hobby - are most likely to only look for BBBJ and opt not to have intercourse for the most part as it simply does not offer the same experience

 

Anyways - just some thoughts

[A***** A***** 510]

Just to add to Angela's comments

 

I was with a touring provider for 2 hours and she told me that she was very curious why a number of her clients did not want intercourse so I tried to offer the following observation / opinion

 

One very clear obstacle is that many men that start this hobby have not worn a condom in many years having been in a relationship. Maybe they are still in that relationship - maybe they are on their own now - does not really matter for this discussion - but - the point is they had not worn a condom in many years

 

So - when it came to this hobby - they likely will have tried CBJ and obviously intercourse with a condom and simply found this is no where near enjoyable for them - it is a totally different sensation - or - lack of

 

Those that continue to hobby - are most likely to only look for BBBJ and opt not to have intercourse for the most part as it simply does not offer the same experience

 

Anyways - just some thoughts

 

Interesting way to look at things as well. Still haven't figured out why, but who knows, maybe that is the way it's supposed to be? I honestly can't remember the time when I did actually have sex with a client....

[buggernot 588]

I really like blow jobs...but I don't love them. If I'm going to get one, BBBJ is far more preferable and you can do that progression from fooling around to having your little johnny in someone's mouth in a natural way.

 

But I guess I could go without. I said this in another thread but, if I had a choice between a CBJ as part of a 69 OR just a BBBJ with no 69, I'd take the CBJ option without hesitation.

 

And as always, so many variables at play. A great girl, a great connection makes all the difference. I saw one girl like 4 times, she never went down there and I never asked. I went down on her once and that was only after she showered first...was just self conscious about it, said she was like that with anyone. But she was sweet and we had a good time still. But it was tender, gentle sex, not animal driven fluid swapping lust. And sometimes that's what I want.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

For me personally, the BBBJ is not only my one reliable ticket to cumming; it carries with it the powerful psychological intimacy generated by direct flesh-to-flesh contact.

 

There is just nothing else that can compete with real direct contact with all of the adorably warm surfaces and aspects of a lady. Skin-on-skin in all its delightful forms is wonderful -- and emotionally nourishing. Without it, much of the point of the whole companionship-experience would be lost for me. Among other things, this means FK, DATY and cuddling are my musts, and BBBJ a strong preference.

 

BBFS would also (theoretically) be a must, if it were not categorically unacceptable for health reasons. CFS (alias Can't Feel Sensation) just doesn't measure up. Yes, there is pressure that can be felt during CFS, but the main direct-friction component of the stimulation is missing (personally, if I'm not constantly keeping track of such proceedings visually, I can't even always be sure (just by feel) that everything is plugged in to the right outlet, or that there's power flowing in the circuit). As far as degree-of-sensation lost when covered, the comparison between CFS and CBJ is direct.

 

I have certainly read many many recommendations where the pleasures of a lady's CBJ (and CFS) have been praised, so I'm keeping an open (theoretical) mind on the subject, but I have personally never experienced (in practice) a CBJ (or CFS) that had me even close to cumming. (Of course, cumming is not the be-all or end-all, neither. But it is very very nice -- its like the icing on the companionship-cake, lol).

 

So yeah, the BBBJ is something I'm kinda fond of, and it has and will continue to factor into my first-time selections. "All else being equal", BBBJ is a strong positive. But, that being said, its presence or absence is only one aspect of a complex interpersonal experience which offers many rewards on many levels. "All else" is never equal anyway when it comes to the decision of whether or not to repeat ... interpersonal chemistry trumps almost everything else, then.

[Peachka 4334]

Interesting way to look at things as well. Still haven't figured out why, but who knows, maybe that is the way it's supposed to be? I honestly can't remember the time when I did actually have sex with a client....

 

 

Maybe they have a SO & rarely (if at all) get a BJ at home.

[A***** A***** 510]

Maybe they have a SO & rarely (if at all) get a BJ at home.

 

If that is the case, then that is sad :-(

[Peachka 4334]

If that is the case, then that is sad :-(

 

 

I agree! :cry:

[Guest **g*or***]

Aurora, Peachka has hit part of it on the head - pun intended. In my one long-term relationship, BJs vanished after about two years of being together, and a year after moving in together. I had to literally almost BEG...until I wised up and decided it wasn't worth getting that pathetic.

 

Her logic was that she felt I got off when coming anyway, and even if I gave her great DATY, I was still getting greedy for wanting to get off twice with BJ and then fucking. Sad thing was, she was good at it and loved(!) swallowing.

 

Of course that covered up the fact she didn't feel like it, and only wanted sex on her terms. I even tried telling her to skip getting me off with the BJ, I enjoyed it as part of foreplay....nope. Nada. Zip.

 

This is, in my mind, just as selfish as a male who only thinks about a wham bam fuck session, done in five minutes and gives zero attention to his partners needs and wants. And why my next LT partner - if I have one - must be more sexually open and forward.

 

As for SP preference, I prefer BBBJ, because nothing's better than that feeling of warmth all over my manhood.

[YoungStud 468]

. But it was tender, gentle sex, not animal driven fluid swapping lust. And sometimes that's what I want.

 

Both are really good. Particularly in the same session with the same person.

[YoungStud 468]

As for SP preference, I prefer BBBJ, because nothing's better than that feeling of warmth all over my manhood.

 

Yep agree with you there. Though my fav SP only does covered BJ with clients. And she's my fav because the overall experience is so varied, so imaginative, so friendly and so good.

[whatsup 11893]

Nothing better than a BBBJ and some exquisite dining fine dining, even at the same time. :-D Thats why I love the hobby so much.

[TRman 536]

For me, AA has it right as do most of you.

 

No more BJ at home so I go out.

 

Rarely, if ever, do I have intercourse with an SP, but I love the sense of a new naked body, tities and digits. The Y on many ocassions as well. But as I said - rarely intercourse and that would only be because of additional arousal in an hour long session and 2 BJ's is tough for me (receiving).

 

My two cents on another angle, oddly enough most of my clients are blow job only appointments 8-)

[A***** A***** 510]

I would love to help all you men not getting the love at home, but I am nowhere near there, so here is the best thing I can do

 

[p22*** 236]

I'll be honest I have always preferred BBBJ, even the best tasting condoms still taste like a condom... Yuck....

 

And if your using non-flavored condoms, double gross yuck....lol

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

I remember enjoying giving BBBJs, a long, long time ago. But I haven't given one since I was married, also quite awhile ago! I don't offer them. I do give a great CBJ. I have clients who see me just for that, so I must be doing something right. :lol:

 

I have intercourse a LOT. In fact, I think I've not had it with only a couple of clients in the last three or four months. This is the clients' choice: I'm happy with whatever happens and don't pressure anyone for anything.

 

I wonder, though, whether age might be a factor in this? It's rare for me to have a client under 40 and most are in their 50s and 60s. Most of them say that they're not getting any sex at all at home and they want a lot of cuddling, kissing and intercourse. One client, who's been with me four or five times--enjoys the CBJ but asked me to stop last time because he wanted to hold me--it was the closeness he wanted.

[Apex2006 1071]

Wow, if I could find an SP that would offer a quick bbbj for 30 min meetings, I would go quite offten! But I would still need my FS every once in a while!

 

 

There is noting better then a BBBJ! I always look for that when selecting an SP!

 

Apex

[A***** A***** 510]

I offer the 30 min BBBJ with CIM COT, swallow for XXXXXXXX, I really should come to Otttawa :mrgreen:

[d*mm*y 887]

Interesting poll, it is interesting how over the years the same posters seem to change their view on this, I know for me if the lady does not perform BBBJ than I take a pass on the CBJ, if everything else is really good than I can live with out the BJ, then other ladies I go just for the BBBJ. Not unlike HJ some ladies can really do this well and we never mention it? One of the coolest HJ's I have had was Monique she is CBJ but makes up for it with incredible HJ and Greek skills!

 

I don't think any one service or lack of service would ever qualify or disqualify a lady from to do list. Attitude is the make or break for me, our time has to be a mini vacation, not just to get me off (they have internet porn for that). A clear signal to me that the lady is not for me is when my mileage is very different than other clients, that tells me that I am not wanted.

[VedaSloan 119179]

A lot of my clients are BBBJ only as well, and quite frankly that is fine by me as I love to please. I figure they keep coming back because I've got a damn good mouth :)

 

I also do half hour sessions, XXXXXXXX

 

Sometimes, when the mood strikes me, I'll offer quickie bbbj's (15 mins max) as well.

[PistolPete 61421]

I figure they keep coming back because I've got a damn good mouth :)

Sometimes, when the mood strikes me, I'll offer quickie bbbj's (15 mins max) for $60.

 

I like options, I also like that you have damn good mouth;-), to make me cum in 15 minutes...lol,..

 

but really it would take me alot longer, so the longer option..is/would be mutually beneficial, thanks Erin:lol: