kinkyfixneeded 100 Report post Posted April 11, 2013 Thanks for all the advice ladies. I will keep this in mind for future reference! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dabomb 100 Report post Posted April 16, 2013 Everything sounds fairly reasonable to me, I believe it's just common sense for the most part. How about a thread for suggestions to SPs. Like: ease up on the perfume ladies, many of us johns are married, and the wives can easily smell a different perfume on their husbands. I've seen an SP where I had to take a long shower afterward to clear up the perfume but it stuck to my clothes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sheldon1 100 Report post Posted April 17, 2013 I agree, respect is of utmost importance! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gabbylaurenxoxo 370 Report post Posted May 12, 2013 Finally, don't aske me if I'm "open minded". What the hell does that mean? In my experience, most of the time it means, do you do anal, but hey, not always. I have been surprised at what "open minded" means to people. That's like saying, do you like food? Be specific. What exactly is it you are trying to ask me. I am a big girl. I can handle being asked a question, it's just the way you might ask me: "do you do anal" is a lot different than "can I fuck your ass". Bahahaha. I continue to be entertained by emails from men (young, mostly) who claim they're "ashamed" to share their kink - as if we haven't done it/heard it/thought it/seen it - only to finally have it disclosed reading as copy for a hardcore porn film. I'm very open-minded. Wanna philosophize? :icon_wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sofa King 110 Report post Posted July 30, 2013 This is great advice! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missclassysexslave 419 Report post Posted August 12, 2013 there's nothing worse than going down on a guy who smells...please..please shower Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lazydog 100 Report post Posted August 18, 2013 Great discussion, a lot of this seems like a no-brainer but it appears that many of the SP's have unfortunatley had bad experiences. The hygiene basics seem pretty straight forward (I won't be partaking in an enema lol) but the other points raised about etiquette and communication have been extremely helpful for a rookie like me who has yet to pull the trigger. Thanks to all for the great input and guidance. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slyjohn 929 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 I'm the best client EVAR! ;) Seriously this thread is great. Everyone should read and follow these 'rules' . I tip my hat off (if i had one) to ALL SPs and MAs out there! Great job ladies and gents! ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sofa King 110 Report post Posted August 21, 2013 This is great advice! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted August 22, 2013 Some quick off the cuff comments About the donation. Always look after it right away. And for those ladies you trust and feel comfortable with, email money transfer is the way to go. Saves you carrying a large wad of cash to an encounter and saves the lady from having to carry it when she leaves This just from my experience and opinion. But let the encounter unfold naturally instead of having the encounter pre planned And the ladies are much more than just providers of sex. Have time for conversation over drinks, maybe dinner out. It is, IMHO more enjoyable being intimate with a lady you spent time getting to know than a lady who really is a stranger. If a lady has screening/verification requirements, provide the information requested. It is a normal practice for many ladies, and there is nothing to be concerned about by providing this information. You want a lady to trust you to be alone with her intimately, the least you can do is be open with her when she screens you Just a quick off the cuff rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuvAlts (AKA BownChickaBow 438 Report post Posted August 23, 2013 Yeah! Great thread. So many ladies, so much to learn :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
