SP & Hobbiests Who Know Each Other

[m*******e 103]

I am sure this is rare but I was wondering if there are situations where an SP and say 2 of her hobbiest friends all actually know each other in person. More specifically I am wondering what the dynamics of such a relationship is and how it evolves over time - basically speaking is it a good dynamic to have or not. My instinct, if I were to look at the big picture, would be NO - but want opinions of those who have been or are in this situation and also of those who have not.

[JuliaOttawa 131]

I'm a dancer, not an escort, but I have a long-time male regular and an occasional female who would come and buy dances from me. They ended up dating! I don't think it lasted too long, but I sure had a good laugh at their "how we met" story.

 

I'm had several guys "share me" with their friends, but I'm sure that's more common amongst dancers than escorts because men sometimes go to the strip club in groups.

[YoungStud 468]

I'm not sure I completely understand your question. Be that as it may, I know a number of "hobby buddies" who have seen a number of the same SPs I've seen, either one-on-one or in other combinations. So far, it's all been good as far as that aspect of "group dynamics" goes.

[JoyfulC 132299]

I would never chance to accept as a client someone I knew in another capacity -- such as, say, an owner of a shop I frequent, or someone who works on my car, or my accountant, etc. Nor would I turn to a client for services. That has the potential to get messy. I have also refused appointments with people who I knew lived in my close neighbourhood.

 

But on the other side of the coin, some of my best friends are my clients. It's still a proscribed friendship -- it's not like I can call them up to chat any time of the day or can expect to be invited to their home for Thanksgiving dinner. I'm married; they're married. But we correspond, share thoughts. I have a few clients who know my husband, cat and dogs very well, and who come for the day with a session in there somewhere, and stay for dinner, maybe a walk by the river. Obviously it's not like this with everyone. The clients who are like this generally are older and have a much easier grasp on things.

 

I've also found myself in situations with clients. I used to participate in some federal regulatory consultations on behalf of my association, and often found myself sitting in a room with one or more clients. Everybody was discreet and no one was the wiser. And I've run into clients in various situations -- again, everyone behaves as they would meeting any other stranger, so no problem.