Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 before making the movie...lmao Some of you might remember this skit from years ago... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzY3QV6MkGs Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted October 8, 2009 I really appreciate Riley posting this on another board for me. Just wanted to let everyone know that they are free to mention this on any other boards or websites if they like to help me spread the word. I selected CERB because it is the best board out there and the only board I still use, but mentions on other boards would be appreciated. Thanks! I am also going to be in touch with the many ladies who offered to help via private message within the next few days. Thanks for your support. I appreciate it more than you know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rileydaniels 1901 Report post Posted October 9, 2009 No problem feel free to post it on my website I have created called http://www.sexworksupport.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AddisonWoods 123 Report post Posted October 10, 2009 A couple of things make me wonder: In regards to things MB has written she indicated that after 8 days of escorting, the testimonials on her site are real and true. Really, after a week, already there are reviews?? It's kind of unbelievable.... but ok. After 4 months, within that time she manages to work, once a day, 5 days a week, and meet, fall in love with (head over heels), pack up her stuff, rid herself of an apt she had set up and decorated for about 3 weeks, and move to Ontario blissfully happy. Wow, what a fairy tale life this escorting leads to... :handjob: Am I the only one having a hard time not believing the conspiracy theories that are abounding in regards to this lil tale? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Missy Mariposa 234 Report post Posted October 10, 2009 I do have to agree that seeing one person a day and having several reviews after eight days DOES seem a little suspect. I've seen reviews spring up en masse with higher volume providers and micro girls, but never low volume. It is very suspect, to say the least. The one person a day, five days a week thing also had me a bit skeptical for someone so new with no reputation and experience in the field. It takes many women years to build up clientele that steady. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted October 11, 2009 Congratulations on this project MB! I'm sure you can count on a healthy number of Cerbian subscribers to your finished doc, either on-line or dvd (myself included). Your goal of a positive approach will be welcome, compared to the negative stereotypes you aim to debunk. And also very welcome, need it be said, compared to poorly-aimed and off-topic "suspicions" and "conspiracy theories". Cheers, Wrinkled Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leah 220 Report post Posted October 11, 2009 I have been doing this for only 5 months and it has been alot of hard work just getting the regulars I have now. If you can call them regs I haven't been doing it long enough to call them regulars yet. And to work 5 days a week you must be good girl can you tell me how you got all your reveiws and regulars in that time because I really must be doing something wrong here!!:confused: Someone help me to understand now I am depreesed :-(:? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted October 11, 2009 Please see below. Not sure why my words posted twice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted October 11, 2009 I just treated my clients with respect, put a lot of thought into my meetings with them and treated them how I'd want to be treated if I were in their shoes. If they had a particular fetish, I would try my best to accommodate that. I would occasionally treat my regular and best clients to dinner and sometimes surprise them with gifts to let them know how much I appreciate them. Because I set my rates high, I attracted many terrific, classy, brilliant professional men who deserved to be treated like kings. It was an honour to do my work (most of the time). I also built my own website, kept a regular diary in it (to attract clients to keep coming back to it) and built it as a true reflection of who I am as a person. I was often told that I had one of the best escort websites out there. When I first began working in the industry I asked my first clients to send me an honest testimonial via email that I could put on my website. They did and I posted them on my own personal website. There is nothing wrong with this. Businesses of all types ask their customers for testimonials and I only did what a smart business woman would do. I fell in love and left the industry to be with my significant other, a wonderful, gorgeous, successful man who is the true love of my life. There is nothing wrong with this and I don't believe it makes me less of an escort that I followed my dreams and did what is best for my child and I. We have a wonderful life and we're hoping for baby number 2, if we are blessed. I worked as an escort for four months and left the industry for love. I am not ashamed of that, nor do I feel I owe anyone (other than the ladies who appear in my documentary) any explanation for who or what I am. Why has my announcement of doing a documentary become an interrogation into my life? I have nothing to hide, but these ladies questioning me here (Missy Mariposa and Sweet Tart) are the same ladies who are attacking me on other boards. They also happen to be close friends with someone who I share no love loss with. Why don't you ladies find something better to do with your time? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted October 12, 2009 I don't think Missy M and Sweet Tart are doing anything more than trying to bring some light onto what can be a delicate subject. Anyone new, who has worked for that minimum 6 months or so, may not have enough experience to know what those tough questions are, and what to look out for with any kind of offer that comes their way. This is one of many offers that may come their way, and they need to hear all of the questions that they themselves should be asking before they commit themselves, their privacy, their POV to any endeavour. And, as the young lady above suggests, which I totally agree with, in her experience of 5 months it is impossible for her to consider any of her repeat clients to be regulars. Regulars visit regularly over a significantly longer period of time than 4 months. Personally, I have seen the same gentleman for over 8 years 3-4 times a month, as well as one I see 4-5 times a year but for 5 years now. Plus, in this business it is not considered proper etiquette to solicit reviews. It taints the spirit of the review, making them less meaningful. Had you listened to the advice given to you, MB, when you asked for it, you would have understood this and not made such glaring mistakes, including the barter and trade setup you also thought there was nothing wrong with. At this point, the sp with 5 months has a lot more experience under her belt lol. When you have had as much real time experience as the sps you are referring to, then you can feel free to complain about their opinions. Until then, perhaps we can all just agree that, at this point in your life, it is time to step away from the boards as they really have no place in your life anymore by your own account. I also find the inference that higher rates = better class and quality clients. I think that all of my massage clients are good "quality" even tho they choose to do a session that is easy on their budget. I feel offended on behalf of all of the escorts in your area who charge less than 300 and for the clients who pay less than that. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted October 12, 2009 It is a shame that some women aren't capable of supporting one another, no matter how good their intentions are. I am going to do the best job of this documentary I possibly can and am turning to more experienced escorts for guidance in this. I have never professed to know it all, nor will I ever. I do have a place on this board because of the project I am undertaking. Enough of the petty cattiness. I am very empowered because I have some of the most high-profile, reputable ladies in the industry working with me on this project. Success is the best revenge (for doubters). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Missy Mariposa 234 Report post Posted October 12, 2009 I also find the inference that higher rates = better class and quality clients.I agree. You would absolutely have to be sopping wet behind to ears to think that the more you make, the better the clients. Newsflash: Guys with money have the capabilities of being just as big fuckoffs and jackasses as guys without money. Just like some of the sweetest men on earth also live like paupers. I have no more or less dickbags that come to me now that I charge $300 GFE/$450 PSE than I did at $250/$350 or $280/$380. My clientele hasn't changed. Their suits are nicer, the tips are bigger, and the sessions are longer. But that's all. The only thing that changed is I find my American clientele is more okay with screening. And for the record MB, you really need to get your facts straight. The problem I have with your documentary and the way you present yourself has nothing to do with anyone else. Sorry to say that the person you claim I'm friends with is someone I have had 0 personal contact with in my life. The problem I have with your documentary is the fact that a) you know very little about this industry. The fact that you solicited reviews via email (aka not on a board where they could be proven/disproved to be by a real person) shows that. Your "barter system" shows that too. The way you look down on everyone who charges less than you and their clientele is another one. Oh and the fact you always acted like $300/hr was a "high rate". It's average for your former area, and there are many women that charge more. No, MB, why I am skeptical of the success of your documentary has nothing to do with a certain lady in Winnipeg. It has to do with your holier-than-thou-I-am-better-than-you-and-my-shit-doesn't-stink attitude that you purposely exude here and on other boards. I tried to give you constructive criticism here and elsewhere and you popped out your standard "I know best" style of replies and talked yourself in circles when questioned or called on something that seemed wrong. I hate dishonesty and you wreak of it, ESPECIALLY on the other board that rhymes with "turf". You expect people here to just take you at your word and ignore what you say elsewhere (which completely contradicts what you say here and the way you handle yourself here). You think the people here aren't reading over there and seeing your true colours? Of course they are. It's unfortunate, because you seem like you could be a really nice person underneath all the crap. But really right now you're just your own worst enemy due in part to your two-faced behaviour and rampant dishonesty. It's a shame, because I tried really hard to befriend you when you first came around. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted October 12, 2009 It is a shame that some women aren't capable of supporting one another, no matter how good their intentions are. The fact is, on the other board, there are around 100 sps who belong to the escort only forum specifically designed to support and encourage each other. Sweet Tart, SS, Missy M, myself, and more are all part of that group, yes group, yet accused here of being unsupportive?? The fact is that you were also welcomed into that group yet somehow managed to screw it up by your own behaviour, lack of discretion, lack of support of other sps, petty and catty, and more. I don't think you lasted a week in there, much like your sp "career" it was short lived. Had you understood better how to get along with others, the value of discretion and the importance of a sincere and honest approach to this business, even retired, you would still be a part of that group. You were voted off the island by the majority of your peers there, however. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AddisonWoods 123 Report post Posted October 12, 2009 Why has my announcement of doing a documentary become an interrogation into my life? I have nothing to hide, but these ladies questioning me here (Missy Mariposa and Sweet Tart) are the same ladies who are attacking me on other boards. They also happen to be close friends with someone who I share no love loss with. Why don't you ladies find something better to do with your time? Well MB. I have never interrogated/attacked you ever. This was my first post in regards to this lil thread of yours here. Or ever for that matter. Please get your facts straight. Like the other women here have stated you were welcomed into our little community but you quickly burned those bridges. For someone trying to show support of other sps maybe you should also come clean about being 'attacked' as you told me. If you were truly looking out for our best interests you would have relayed the info about this incident to the rest of the community to help keep the other women out there safe. However, you chose not to do this. Just one more reason I am highly suspicious of what you say and do. MB you have stuck your foot in your mouth more times than I care to count. As MM stated dishonesty will not get you far nor the respect of fellow sps. I think it is time for you to find something better to do with your time MB ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
