What kind of business etiquette is this?

igab · December 1, 2013

Just a side note. A mailing list is a great tool for escorts. It allows you to send surprise messages discreetly. Only the clients who want these messages will subcribe to the mailing list and clients can always choose to unsubscribe at anytime.

Exactly I am on a few lists but the lady asked me and I said yes please.

qwertyaccount · December 2, 2013

And password protect your phone, I'm single and I have passwords on my phone and computer.

And a good story is that the passwords aren't to keep your SO out, they're there in case you lose your phone/computer.

Easy cover stories:

a) it's a "wrong number" text

b) it a drinking buddy screwing with you seeing if he can get you in trouble

Athos · December 2, 2013

If you are using your regular phone as a hobby phone, I'd also suggest adjusting your settings so that there are no notifications for text and e-mail. that's the kiss of death, if a notification banner or alert pops up on your screen along with part of the text/e-mail so that it an be read. I also turn sounds off. so the only thing that shows up to indicate I have a text is a number on the app icon. I also keep my phone in its case. Even if one does come in, then your SO is unlikely to see it or know what it's about. It's just a number on the screen.

I get lots of e-mails, so having sounds for e-mails isn't a big deal, but I actually prefer to have the notifications and sounds turned off so I'm not being bothered all the time.

None of this is to take away from the inappropriateness of what was done, or how horrible it must be to have been busted. But it is better to take more precautions than fewer. The only person whose behaviour you can really count on, is your own.

Porthos