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Rules & Welcome Letter

    Welcome to the site! 

    PLEASE READ THESE RULES:
    - No Slander
    - Post only positive recommendations! This is not a review board!
    - No advertising prostitution related services or advertising sites offering such things
    - No posting nude photos or photos depicting sexual acts. Yes this site is adult but we do not allow porn
    - If you do not have anything nice to say don't say it!

    DO NOT TRY TO CIRCUMVENT THE WORD CENSORS - If the site does not allow you to post a certain word, it does this for a reason. If you choose to try to circumvent this you will be asked to leave.

    -Do not post links to other escort discussion forms or tell people to go somewhere else for info or to "Search" for it in a search engine
    -No Spam! this includes SPAMMED ESCORT/MASSAGE AD POSTS! or ads for photographers, drivers or other such things!

    Escorts & Massage providers can post ads (Themselves) in the announcements section and in the classifieds ads ... only - not in the other sections. Escorts and Massage providers are encouraged to participate in discussions however you can not advertise your services or hijack threads. Advertisers are asked to read the posting rules for advertising - it's free to advertise here just please read the rules first! We do NOT allow prostitution related ads here.

    Be nice and we will have a good community here. We do have a short "no-discussion list" of people who do not wish to be mentioned - please read the list regularly and respect them by not posting publicly. If someone asks about them you can PM the info only.

    Guys, do not post rates of the ladies and please do not try to get the ladies to lower prices! Prices the ladies post are for the ladies TIME WITH YOU not what you do when in private with them. Do not ask for a lesser rate to go to dinner then to sit and chat over coffee one hour is one hour either way. Discussions here are not to be based on prices. The ladies have the right to choose the price they wish to charge for their rime and they have the right to post their rates publicly if they wish to. Even with the ladies permission we ask that you do not post the ladies prices.

    Nude photos (including public hair, vagina, penis, anus, sexual acts or anything illegal of course) are not permitted on the site. It is also illegal to post photos that suggest sexual acts!

    What we are all about here....

    Are you looking for BAD reviews of who to avoid?? If so you came to the wrong place but if you ask about a specific lady that is known to be bad our members will most likely PM you the details of why to avoid that person. Boards do exist that show who to watch out for but keep in mind that these boards (Like ours) are anonymous so you can not believe everything that is posted by everyone. That holds true here as well but we have a good system to weed out the bad people.

    Many people try to slander the ladies reputations - it could have been the guy was a jerk, drunk, had bad body odor / breath or any number of reasons and he is pissed and wants to "Slander her" or it could be a legitimate complaint, we have no way to tell so we take the high road here and just dont say anything negative at all. Just focus on the good! Sometimes the bad reviews come from the other ladies or boyfriends of the ladies who think they are doing a favor by getting rid of the competition - (yes this happens ALL THE TIME!!!) it's hard to find the good in all the bad on some of these other boards. 

    We felt a nice discussion board was needed, one where the ladies would enjoy contributing with the general public without fear of being slammed/bashed/slandered/and just publicly made to look like they are subhuman. These are real people just like you and me and everyone deserves respect. Maybe the bad ones will learn a thing or two about how to be good and fix the problems by the other ladies example! We can only hope!

    Our board just allows positive recommendations for anyone who feels someone deserves extra credit (again this could be fake but we usually find out fairly quickly and get rid of the shill posters to ensure the content here is very accurate). We encourage general discussions, jokes and anything of interest. We also allow the ladies to post availability and announcements in a special area outside of the general discussion and recommendation threads.

    We can identify the fake posts and remove the bad members rather quickly. We call them SHILL POSTERS and they are usually new members with less than 5 posts or all the posts they have are about the same girl. Watch for these people before accepting a recommendation - under each members name it lets you know how much they contribute and how long they have been members here. Your reputation on a board like this is very important.

    Here you can ask if someone can recommend one of the ladies you are interested in and see if anyone has something nice to say about that person. If the girl is using fake photos (Bait and switch) or is very bad than the members will PM (Private Message) you a warning in most cases (just not in public view). This is a community board so you must ask questions and contribute to build your reputation with the others and get the inside info. 

    It's a much more civil and respectful way to run a discussion board. If you do a search you can find actual "Review" boards if you wish, here you will not find anyone bashing the ladies... just recommending the girls that are good. 

    Because we do not allow the slander and the bashing I feel our site has much more to offer and the ladies contribute to the board as we do not tolerate rudeness or flaming. Hope you find some value in our "Alternative" type of discussion board.

    Thank you and please enjoy the site

    TheMOD

    Linking to directories to promote an advertisement or person/agency/spa/etc... is NOT permitted unless the directory is associated with lyla.com. Here is the APPROVED LIST. Acceptable sites:
    escorts-canada.com (escortscanada.com escorts-canada.ca etc...)
    lyla.com
    localescorts.ca
    lyla.com (obviously)
    shemale-canada.com
    torontofetish.com
    and other sites owned by DeSign Co. 

    CL (Craigslist) & BP (backpage) can be referenced for the purpose of RESEARCH but not PROMOTION. Meaning if a guy wants to know about a lady who is on BP he can ask and link to the ad asking for advise from other lyla.com members (or warn them of bait and swich or dangerous encounters). Ladies please DO NOT link to any unauthorized escorts/massage/adult directory not listed above without asking me (The MOD) first. Thanks.

    A:

    I am sure by now many of you have noticed a number of words have been added to the censor list. I know it makes the site very hard to read but instead of jumping ship and moving to another country like other adult boards are doing we have decided to instead conform to the new laws.

     

     

    This means

     

    1) No one can ADVERTISE that they offer prostitution related EXTRAS if you offer this off the site that is find as long as you do not LINK to a site offering such things or offer them here. To conform to the new laws we can not to allow you to ADVERTISE such things here on cerb or advertise a website or blog or ad somewhere else that offers such things. If we find you are linking to a website from cerb that offers such things we will need to BAN your site from linking from cerb.

     

    Since people will ignore the law and try to post ads offering such things on cerb we had had to add certain keywords to the censor to ensure no one posts ILLEGAL things. Unfortunately this takes away from the discussion area. Now it is NOT illegal to discuss prostitution or related ACTS but I am not sure how the law will see it if someone is posting that they are a ESCORT (Not offering any PROSTITUTION related extras) and some guy posts saying "Oh, She did such and such with me!" (Guys like to brag when they get something extra that was not advertised....)

     

    2) People may start to try to CIRCUMVENT these words. This will get you SUSPENDED or BANNED as you could put the website in jeopardy. Anyone seeing anyone trying to be creative (offering to do stuff like "squeeze the juice from a hot dog", "Suc the icing off a rooster" or "go in and out of grease for extended vacation" .... you get the point! Please REPORT THIS and DO NOT QUOTE IT! If you reply to it with a quote and do not report it you may also get a warning.

     

    3) Some words are standard words such as O U T C A L L and S E R V I C E and these had to be censored as well as they could be taken the WRONG way and we are being EXTRA VIGILANT at this time to ensure cerb stays within the boundaries of this new law.

     

    4) Use your .... people, don't brag about extra things that may or may not have happened when in private with someone. Just share that you have a nice time, you will see her again and focus on the nice things.

     

    More to come but I am asking for help with CENSOR words as well. Please report any ADVERTISEMENT posts that HINT or BLATANTLY SAY they offer PROSTITUTION RELATED EXTRAS so we can ADD to the CENSORS and protect the site.

    A:

    NEW RULES ADDED

    Bumping Threads and Recommendations

    What is bumping?

    Please do not BUMP threads. Bumming is when you post a comment on a thread to BUMP it back to the top of the "New Threads" or the first page of that thread index.

     

    BUMPING RECOMMENDATIONS

    I have been ignoring thank you's posted on peoples recommendations where the thank you is placed within 24 hours of the post. Because this is too hard to police and explain to people I must ask that NO thank you's are posted on recommendations (As some people are abusing this and others see people post thank you's that were done within 24 hours and think it is ok to do). If you wish to thank someone for posting a recommendation that you started or that is about you please PM them a thank you (OR) you can post a thank you on the persons guestbook (Profile) but please DO NOT advertise on peoples guestbooks.

    BUMPING THREADS

    If you post something and do not get a reply DO NOT bump the thread to get it more attention or re-post it. Use the search feature as you will probably find the info you are looking for already covered. If it has been 6 months and no one replied you can post a NEW thread asking the same info (If no one replies again consider it a dead subject that no one has interest in discussing on the site.

     

    BUMPING ADVERTISEMENTS

    Q: Sometimes I bump my ads so I don't have to start a new thread. Is this okay?

     

    A: That is fine as long as you are following the "Only one advertisement post per 24 hour period" rule. Bumping a previous ad with updated information would be considered a advertisement post for that day. That is a good question so I will add it to the RULE.

     

     

    Guys are NOT permitted to ask the ladies to contact them!

     

    Guys. You can ask your fellow cerb members for advise such as "Does anyone know any 7 foot tall women in moncton?" but you can not post "Any ladies 7 feet tall in the moncton area please contact me" (This is considered advertising for ladies to contact you - and is not only lazy it is unacceptable).

     

    You can not post stuff like ....

    "I will be in town for tonight only can any lady who is available tonight email or pm me" (NOT ACCEPTABLE)

    "If anyone offers BBBJ in this city can you PM me to set up an appointment" (NOT ACCEPTABLE)

    etc.. etc..

    Please DO NOT hijack threads!

     

    Hijack threads means you post a completely OFF TOPIC post and take control of the conversation that someone else started. Instead open a NEW thread and NEW TOPIC yourself.

     

    This includes posting on someone's ADVERTISING thread. If you are a competitor and you place a comment on someone's advertising thread that would be considered HIJACKING a thread.... and if you advertised yourself on someone else's advertising thread I am sure you will not make any friends.

     

    Q: I've commented on occasion on creative ads. I've never seen this as hijacking or bumping is it?

    A: It's more BUMPING then a Hijacking unless you are including an ADVERTISEMENT of your own (This includes your Signature).

     

    ** At this time that has not been a problem. Unless I get valid complaints about such things I will continue to allow that. If you were doing this to "Help" your friend out by bumping her ad to the top others will complain.

     

    Posting short comments to boost your post count

     

    Posting short comments such as "I didn't know that" and "wow, that is great" and "thanks, I like that" on threads when you are in the moderation period will clearly tip me off as to what your intentions are!

     

    Yes, this happens a lot and I catch them!

     

    I know these people are posting like this in order to get out of the moderation period (Either to look more creditable or maybe to post recommendations or some other slanderous thing - trying to get it to slip by)

     

    This does get noticed by me! I will then put these people on to my WATCH list as I suspect as soon as the moderation period is over they will post a SHILL recommendations or something bad on the site (Slanderous)

     

    Just want you all to know I watch for this and if you do this I will PULL your recommendation or posts that you make once out of the moderation period and I will remove the account (but also search the IP to see if I can pinpoint who is doing this)

    WHY NEW RULES??

    I think we are all adults and can distinguish between right and wrong and fair and unfair. I only make rules when people abuse the site and when people bring valid complaints to me.

    A:

    Please DO NOT have conversations on the ladies recommendation threads, if you want to ask questions about a lady do it in the discussion areas (put a link to the recommendation if you wish) but please DO NOT ask questions or make comments on the recommendation threads that are not adding to the recommendation. Your just BUMPING it and in some cases posting bad questions.

     

    Today alone I had to remove a comment from someone bitching that the lady owed him money, I had to remove a comment asking if she does BBBJTC and another asking about a different lady! Come on guys please DO NOT do this.

     

    and ladies... remember you can not post a reply on your recommendation threads either. If someone has posted something you do not like on your rec thread simply FLAG it using the REPORT THIS icon on the post.

    A:

    Once again I need to remind everyone that ABUSING the features on the site will get you in trouble.

     

    Ladies:

    - Sending UNSOLICITED / SPAM pm's promoting ones self is not permitted, if the guy did not PM you first or your using the pm system to contact past visitors to drum up business that is NOT permitted. Please understand that if you spam our members you will not be able to use the site.

     

    - SHOUT BOX rules are 1 visible post with a MINIMUM 6 posts between, double posting cause all your info did not fit in the allotted space is not permitted

     

    Guys:

    - Do not post NEGATIVE comments about ladies, if it's a bait and switch you can post about it but don't abuse that either

     

    - No not post telling people how to find negative info (Google her name) for instance or the other board starting with the letter X has lots of info.

     

    Everyone:

    - Don't be a troll. A troll is someone who posts something just to get a rise out of someone or provoke them into fighting with you or posting in anger.

     

    - Don't feed the trolls. Simply report them. I will remove the trolls when we identify them

     

    Thanks.

    A:

    Please do not try to make your post titles stand out from others

    For example this sort of thing is not allowed
    *NEW*LADY*BOOK*NOW!* (Usage of * and ALL CAPITAL LETTER words is NOT PERMITTED)
    ~*~*~ HOT LADY AVAILABLE !!! CALL ME ~*~*~ (Usage of ~ and * and !!! plus words in ALL CAPITAL LETTERS is NOT PERMITTED)
    ~.,_-PhONE mE NoW~~~ (Usage of any thing like ~.,_- and UPPER AND LOWER MIXED LETTER words is NOT PERMITTED)
    CALL ME!!! (Usage of !!! and ALL CAPITAL LETTER words is NOT PERMITTED)
    AvAIlable Now!! !! (Usage of !! !! and UPPER AND LOWER MIXED LETTER words is NOT PERMITTED)
    *** NEW .... TO ... OTTAWA*** (Usage of *** and ... and UPPER LETTER words is NOT PERMITTED)
    New!!!!!!!!!! (Excessive Usage of !! to draw attention to post is NOT PERMITTED)
    Book Me Today only 150.00/hr 444-4444 or www.mesocheap.com [email protected] (Rates, Phone Numbers, websites and emails are NOT PERMITTED)

    This however is acceptable
    New lady, book now!
    Hot lady available - Call Me
    Phone me now
    Call Me
    Available Now!
    New to Ottawa
    New!
    Book Me Today


    The reason is we don't want the site to look like CL or other trashy classified ad sites where people are trying everything and anything to make a post stand out from the others. Please do not make the title of you posts IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS, or post your URL, PHONE NUMBER or EMAIL ADDRESS in the headlines! 

    If it looks like you are trying to make your headline stand out from the rest of the posts we will remove the post (and you). It's a free site to use but if you abuse it you will not be welcome here! 

    A:In these cities the ads in the massage only section are for BODY RUB massage only (NO SEX ACTS INCLUDING ORAL OR EVEN HAPPY ENDINGS ARE TO BE ADVERTISED HERE!) 

    Anyone offering any sex acts of any kind CAN NOT advertise those services here on lyla.com. Your welcome here as a member and you can post ads for other things if you wish but you CAN NOT advertise sexual services for sale (Prostitution) this includes acronyms implying these services or masked words trying to circumvent the censors.

    A:Lyla.com is a respectful community that promotes open communication between hobbyists and providers and as such, will not tolerate any behavior intended to demean, malign or harm any other member.

    Any discussion that is conducted in an aggressive manner may be subject to punitive action which may include warnings, suspensions or bans. 

    A:Some things are NOT in the rules as they are too OBVIOUS for the need to have to SPELL OUT but still some people will say "That is not in the rules" and expect to get away with doing something they know is WRONG. 

    If you are disrupting the site, being annoying, abusing the site, spamming the site or in general being rude or unpleasant to anyone you will not be welcome. It's very simple. Please read ALL the rules before posting.

    A:Discussing or Negotiating Rates in public is not welcome, this includes commenting in public that you feel the providers rates are too high or low. Asking for senior or student discounts, asking for discounts for just going for a coffee or some other reason that you feel the provider should charge less cause your asking for something less involved then others would ask the provider to do. if the provider posts that no negotiating is permitted and you pm the provider asking for a discount that provider can report your pm to the moderators if offended. If he/she does not post that rates are firm you may pm them if you feel the need but be warned most find this very distasteful. Your better off to keep looking for a provider asking a rate you are more comfortable with. Rates are for the time they spend with you not what you do during that time so it is rude in many peoples eyes to ask for a lesser rate to do something less involved then others may do, commenting or asking for discounts can be personally insulting so please do not do this.

    Apparently this has to be posted as it's own rule. Please DO NOT discuss anything on lyla.com that is ILLEGAL. Please do not post ads for anything illegal or ads for prostitution services. What is ILLEGAL
    - Committing a crime
    - Soliciting for prostition on a website you do not own (like this one)
    - Discussing Drug use (Yes, POT is still illegal so please DO NOT discuss it)
    - Trying to "score" drugs (Most "escorts/providers" ARE not drug users as the media likes to portray them as!)
    - Trying to find a ESCORT or CUSTOMER who would let you do drugs (or do drugs with you) during a date
    - Streetwalkers (Public Solicitation is illegal)
    - Bawdy Houses (Public commercial properties or Residential properties with walk in "Services" are ILLEGAL)
    - Bawdy Houses masquerading as Massage Spa's (IE: More than a rub and tug)
    - Driving or taking a person to a place of prostitution 
    - Underage Escorts (18+ in Canada - Anyone under the age of 18 and your committing a crime)
    - Sex Slavery 
    - Etc...

    Basically don't post stuff that makes us look bad! Use some common sense, be ethical and law abiding. We do not wish to break any laws!!

    A:You must be of legal age (That is 18+ years of age in Canada) to use (AND JOIN) this website. We may ask you to prove your legal age if at anytime your legal age is in question. If you are under the legal age of 18 you are not welcome to post on this site and you should not be involved in this business.. If you are asked for proof of age and you refuse a bulletin will be posted on the site and your name will be added to the DNR LIST (Do not recommend or discus list) and you will not be allowed to post here, all posts about you will be removed and we will tell the members why you have been placed on this list.

    A:You can post 1 thread per 12 hour period in the "Schedules, Announcements and advertising area" of your city. 

    If you tour from city to city please DO NOT spam all the cities only announce your availability (within moderation). We ask that agencies put all the ladies on ONE thread (Not Individual threads) and touring agencies please use the site within moderation as well. If it looks like you are abusing the site we will suspend you.

    A:The recommendations area's are off limits to the providers (You can read but can not comment or add recommendations) - if a recommendation is posted about you and something has been said that you disagree with you are to PM the MOD and let us know (we will not ADD anything to a recommendation but we will remove something under certain circumstances). 

    If you wish to THANK someone post on that persons WALL or PM them to thank them! DO NOT BUMP YOUR RECOMMENDATION.

    A:The general discussion area is open for the ladies and the men however ladies you can not advertise in this area. If the thread is asking for information or names of people who supply a specific service you can reply and let them know you offer that service. Abuse of this however will get you in hot water! 

    SHILL accounts found posting FAKE questions about you in order to sneak in some extra advertising will force us to REMOVE you (And the offending account) from the site so please don't get any idea's - abusing this will force us to remove this exception to the rule.

    A:Please do not BUMP threads. Bumming is when you post a comment on a thread to BUMP it back to the top of the "New Threads" or the first page of that thread index. 

    BUMPING RECOMMENDATIONS
    I have been ignoring thank you's posted on peoples recommendations where the thank you is placed within 24 hours of the post. Because this is too hard to police and explain to people I must ask that NO thank you's are posted on recommendations (As some people are abusing this and others see people post thank you's that were done within 24 hours and think it is ok to do). If you wish to thank someone for posting a recommendation that you started or that is about you please PM them a thank you (OR) you can post a thank you on the persons guestbook (Profile) but please DO NOT advertise on peoples guestbooks.

    BUMPING THREADS
    If you post something and do not get a reply DO NOT bump the thread to get it more attention or re-post it. Use the search feature as you will probably find the info you are looking for already covered. If it has been 6 months and no one replied you can post a NEW thread asking the same info (If no one replies again consider it a dead subject that no one has interest in discussing on the site.

    BUMPING ADVERTISEMENTS
    Q: Sometimes I bump my ads so I don't have to start a new thread. Is this okay?

    A: That is fine as long as you are following the "Only one advertisement post per 12 hour period" rule. Bumping a previous ad with updated information would be considered a advertisement post for that day. That is a good question so I will add it to the RULE.

    Q: I've commented on occasion on creative ads. I've never seen this as hijacking or bumping is it?

    A: It's more BUMPING then a Hijacking unless you are including an ADVERTISEMENT of your own (This includes your Signature).
    ** At this time that has not been a problem. Unless I get valid complaints about such things I will continue to allow that. I think we are all adults and can distinguish between right and wrong and fair and unfair. If you were doing this to "Help" your friend out by bumping her ad to the top others will complain. I only make rules when people abuse the site and when people bring valid complaints to me.

    A:Guys. You can ask your fellow lyla.com members for advise such as "Does anyone know any 7 foot tall women in moncton?" but you can not post "Any ladies available tonight PM me!" (This is unacceptable). don't be lazy! take the time to read the ladies info and contact the laies that are of interest to you!

    You can not post stuff like ....

    "I will be in town for tonight only can any lady who is available tonight email or pm me" (NOT ACCEPTABLE)


    Posting asking "Are there any ladies who offer xxxxxxx in this city?" (Ladies and guys can respond to a question like this) and if you ask the ladies to pm you they can (but only if you ask)

    A:Hijack threads means you post a completely OFF TOPIC post and take control of the conversation that someone else started. Instead open a NEW thread and NEW TOPIC yourself.

    This includes posting on someone's ADVERTISING thread. If you are a competitor and you place a comment on someone's advertising thread that would be considered HIJACKING a thread.... and if you advertised yourself on someone else's advertising thread I am sure you will not make any friends.

    Q: I've commented on occasion on creative ads. I've never seen this as hijacking or bumping is it?

    A: It's more BUMPING then a Hijacking unless you are including an ADVERTISEMENT of your own (This includes your Signature).

    ** At this time that has not been a problem. Unless I get valid complaints about such things I will continue to allow that. If you were doing this to "Help" your friend out by bumping her ad to the top others will complain.

    A:Posting short comments such as "I didn't know that" and "wow, that is great" and "thanks, I like that" on threads when you are in the moderation period will clearly tip me off as to what your intentions are! 

    Yes, this happens a lot and I catch them!

    I know these people are posting like this in order to get out of the moderation period (Either to look more creditable or maybe to post recommendations or some other slanderous thing - trying to get it to slip by)

    This does get noticed by me! I will then put these people on to my WATCH list as I suspect as soon as the moderation period is over they will post a SHILL recommendations or something bad on the site (Slanderous) 

    Just want you all to know I watch for this and if you do this I will PULL your recommendation or posts that you make once out of the moderation period and I will remove the account (but also search the IP to see if I can pinpoint who is doing this)

    A:NO PHOTOS SHOWING GENITAL NUDITY This includes anus, pubic region and also partially covered public areas (All considered PORN and not permitted) you can post topless.

    A:Multiple Accounts (Or sharing computers) is not permitted unless the accounts are PAID Agency/Spa/Private club Accounts


    NOT PERMITTED:

    - Customer and SP share computer (This will appear as a SHILL account)
    - AGENCY and SP Share a computer (This will appear as a SECOND advertising account)
    - GUY and GUY sharing account (Appears as multiple handles - usually up to no good!)
    - Banned/Suspended and NEW ACCOUNT (This will add 30 days or more to your suspension time or get your IP banned altogether)

    Exceptions..

    - Two ladies sharing a computer and they are not an agency (It's best that you let the mod know upfront)
    - Visiting ladies who share accommodations (It's best that you let the mod know upfront)

    PM the mod for any other situations before setting up two accounts from the same computer.

    LADIES and GUYS ---- DO NOT LET OTHER PEOPLE USE YOUR COMPUTER FOR LYLA.COM (If you allow someone to LOG INTO lyla.com using your computer it will FLAG YOUR ACCOUNTS!!!)

    Common question I get is "i have more than one agency can i have multiple accounts?" the answer is YES but both accounts will need to purchase advertising here to use lyla.com

    A:1) Do not harass the ladies
    - this includes asking them to show nudity if on cam
    - being rude to them
    - negative comments
    - etc...


    2) Guys, do not masturbate on cam - we will laugh and kick you out! The ladies can show nudity on chat but it is not to be encouraged or requested by other members as this makes some of the ladies uncomfortable and we do not want the ladies to feel unwelcome here! The chat room can be used as a great marketing tool for the ladies (especially with the voice and cam features) as it lets the guys see them on cam or talk to them in real time using voice chat or text. If you make the ladies uncomfortable they will not come back in the room and we would much rather boot you than one of the ladies!! So be respectful at all times.

    3) Do not discuss anything illegal on this site or in the cam room.
    - this includes drug use discussions
    - underage escorts
    - streetwalkers
    - etc...


    4) Do not discuss personal information of anyone's
    - this includes someones real name
    - address
    - private phone number
    - etc...


    5) Do not fight with each other or slander anyone (Public slander/fights/flames will get you suspended from the site)

    6) Do not argue with the MODS the chat mods are shown in RED and the site MOD can be invisible at any time.

    7) Do not SPAM the site with link to other sites. If your in chat to SPAM your website and not join the chat your will be booted

    If one of the SP's reports you for breaking any of the rules (especially if you made them uncomfortable) we will suspend or ban you from the chat room and the website itself. SO please RESPECT each other.

    A:Can I advertise my business here?
    If you are a escort, fetish provider, dancer, stripclub, massage provider or spa or escort agency you may post in the schedules and announcements areas with your contact info if you follow the posting rules. You can not advertise outside of the dedicated area and you can not advertise anything illegal (including prostitution services even though this is a adult discussion site that use to allow such things it is now illegal so we no longer allow that here)

    Can I purchase a banner?
    You may be able to, you must PM the mod with a link to your website and banner for approval. We do not link to any website that shows illegal content or any website offering prostitution services. 

    Can I advertise my web design company in the forum?
    No, you can purchase a banner for this. Hosting, web design, etc.. if your looking to sell something here to our members you can pay for advertising. We offer free advertising to the escorts and agencies as it helps bring other ladies here and more guys here. If you wish to advertise your product or service to our members you can purchase a banner. 

    Can I place a HELP WANTED ad?
    No, the forums are NOT to be used for soliciting new ladies for a agency. If you post a agency ad and breifly mention that you are always hiring that is fine (within reason) but if your placing ads to recruit ladies this IS NOT the place to do this.

    A:You can not Solicit recommendations for trade of time, money, favors, prizes or any sort of compensation. This would be a shill (Fake and unnatural recommendation) - recommendations must be genuine and deserving must be eared honestly!

    1) Providers are not permitted to compensate ANYONE for recommendations. This includes bartering, offering prizes for "The Best" recommendations, having a friend make one for you or even offering discounts to people who write recommendations for you!

    2) Clients are not permitted to offer to write a recommendation for a provider in return for anything!! (Including a discount, prize, money or any sort of free service, etc...) This would be a form of extortion and we will remove you from the site for this!

    Recommendations that are not earned honestly are considered SHILL POSTS and both accounts could be removed from lyla.com.

    This rule is intended to protect the integrity, fairness, and trustworthiness of the recommendations on lyla.com. 

    A:Please DO NOT post the ladies working locations or meeting places on lyla.com. This includes any Hotels, spa's or residential address's. If they wish to post this publicly they can but no one other then the lady (or spa/agency) should ever post this info. DO NOT post someones private details - if you've become privileged enough to know their private information that's because they trust you, don't break that trust - for any reason. If you do, you may receive a ban, as not only are you endangering someone you've shown your lack of respect.

    A:The following Providers or Businesses have requested that you do not write a recommendation for them or do not discuss them on this website. Please follow by this, as we wish to respect everyone and their right to privacy. 

     

    Anyone on this list, should not be discussed in anyway. 

FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)

    HOW TO POST A AD IN THE ANNOUNCEMENTS AREA:
    This is a discussion forum and we allow the ladies to post ads the announcements area. These are actually threaded posts.

    EXAMPLE:
    For Toronto for instance you can visit the Toronto area for announcements...

    Here is a link:
    https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=69

    Then click on the "Start new thread" button.

    Another good place to advertise is the SHOUT BOX but be sure to read the rules for the shoutbox. Here is a link:
    https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/misc.php?do=cchatbox

     

    ***Paid advertising is currently under review and subject to change - we're currently not accepting any new advertisers at this time***

    Paid advertising is another great way to promote your business and help support this great site. To find banner rates please see this link: https://www.lyla.com/advertise

     

     

    You can place a Banner on your website to Lyla by using the following Code:

    "<a href="https://lyla.ch" target="_blank"><img src="https://lyla.ch/banners/lylaanimated.gif" alt="lyla.ch"></a>"

    A:

    I know many members here do not use the chat feature. As one of the members who does I have witnessed a few things that IMO shouldn't be happening there and that probably have caused some of the members not using it anymore.

     

    Please when you read this keep in mind is not a rant or me trying to tell others what to do is more like a reminder to all of us and giving my point of view as well as suggesting things that may make a difference in the chat room.

     

    1. Start and carry conversation politely.

     

    2. Whisper or use private chat for specific questions, to book, etc.

     

    3. This apply for sp's and hobbysts ... If you do not get what you were looking for from the person you are chatting with the ideal would be to have the courtesy to notify the other instead of just closing the window/leaving chat.

     

    4. Guys I know you like to discuss about some of the ladies but what about trying to keep specific details private and perhaps whisper? Keep in mind whisper sometimes fails, I have been a victim of that a couple of times (ok more than that lol)

     

    5. No arguing or trying to put someone in evidence in open chat or getting other users involved in a particular situation.

     

    Again, this is not me trying to list rules, just suggestions to keep chat a cool place to get to know other members 🙂

    A: Community members who would prefer not to have their entire DOB displayed should update their profile. If you select the  drop box for year of birth and go to the very top you can select the option "not telling", and year of birth is not shown. In addition, you can select blank options for Day and Month also. - Answer thanks to @ManofFewWords

    A:To gain access to the VERIFIED INDEPENDENT area you need one of the following...

    1) Have someone who has access already and knows you personally VOUCH for you. Anyone with VERIFIED INDEPENDENT written under their name has access but they need to have met you personally. 

    2) Another option is to have an ad on Escorts-Canada.com (A paid Profile ad with photos) and it must be online for at least 14 days with no complaints. If you have a past ad on escorts-canada that is no longer online we can still use that as a reference. You will need to open a support ticket on escorts-canada and ask for access to the VERIFIED INDEPENDENT area on lyla.com (Include your lyla.com alias with this ticket) http://escorts-canada.com/support

    3) Substantial post history on lyla.com (That is not just ALL ads) with at least 50 or more posts over 4 or more months so you can establish a presence on lyla.com. By this time some members will post recommendations about you and have general discussions about you. Send the MOD a link to your recommendation thread and ask for VERIFIED INDEPENDENT access. We will review and consider your access. 

    We do not allow agencies (or ladies who work for agencies) access to the VERIFIED INDEPENDENT area (The current providers have asked to have it this way). You can NOT share information or copy and post information from the VERIFIED INDEPENDENT area to other sites. If you disclose any information to anyone outside of the VERIFIED INDEPENDENT area you loose your membership on lyla.com (including access to this area). We consider this area highly confidential. By asking for access you are agreeing to these terms. If you vouch for someone and they do this within the first 60 days you both loose your account so be sure not to VOUCH for anyone you do not trust. Make sure you know them personally and know that they are not affiliated with an agency.

    ****Please note you will not be able to post a Recommendation on Lyla, until you've been a member for at least 5 days and have made at least 5 posts****

     

    A: First we would like to thank you for taking the time to place a Recommendation on Lyla, community members like yourself are what keeps Lyla going :).

    Follow these steps to post a Recommendation:

     

    1. Go to the Browse (Forums) section of Lyla.ch

    2. Find the Province that you visited the Provider in or if you know the Province of which they frequent. Click on the Province or Expand to show sub categories.

    3. Find the Major City that you visited them in or closest to where you visited them - select that city/cities

    4. Several Threads for that City/Cities will be listed, the top one should read  "City Recommendations" - select this Thread.

    5. Now you should see a big button that reads "New Recommendation" - Click it. - This will take you to the Recommendation Creation Page.

    6. Fill in as Follows - make sure to select the star rating for Appearance, Attitude, Service - and always remember - Lyla is a Positive Recommendation board - negativity is not tolerated. 

     

    If you don't have anything nice to say, then please don't say anything at all. 

    A:We do not like negative reviews, flames, slander, etc... and most other discussion boards allow this to one extent to another. We know a few exist that do not (that could change at any time however) and if we make the rule for one we really must make it for all.

    also we are working at becoming "The" discussion board for sp's and sp recommendations coast to coast in Canada and also with our VERIFIED INDEPENDENT section we would like to make lyla.com a safe place for ladies in the industry to come and help each other and also contibute in a positive way to the community.

    Media and society already have a grim look in general about the industry and with a clean run board with positive reinforcement, stong community and educated people sites like lyla.com will greatly help the industry where other discussion boards that allow slander, hate, negative comments etc... just add to the stereotypes and have negative effects on the industry.

    A:Hey there, 
    You can place a Banner for Lyla on your website using the following code:

     

    <a href="https://lyla.ch" target="_blank"><img src="https://lyla.ch/banners/lylaanimated.gif" alt="lyla.ch"></a>

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