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Rules & Welcome Letter

    Welcome to Lyla! It's great to have you here. 

    Lyla is a forum for great discussions to take place. We aim for it to be a safe environment where members are respected and cared for. As a new user, your first few comments will be manually moderated. This is to build up initial trust to make sure that you respect our community as much as we do.

    We do have some guidelines to ensure Lyla is a great place to be. These rules can be found under this first question in our FAQs. Before posting, we ask that you familiarize yourself with these. If you ever see anything that you think shouldn't be on Lyla, please report it to us by clicking "report comment" on the top right corner.

    Thank you for respecting our rules and making our community so great!

    Lyla xx

    If you are new to the site, please read our welcome and rules page.

    RULES

    1. NO PROMOTION/MENTION OF SEXUAL SERVICES

    We do allow escort promotions and recommendations. We do not allow promotions and recommendations of sexual services. For example...

    ALLOWED: "I had a fantastic time with Lydia in Toronto. She had a gorgeous figure and our conversation flowed for hours".

    NOT ALLOWED: "I had a fantastic BJ from Lydia in Toronto".

    Common sense should prevail with this one, but more detail can be found here☺️

     

    2. NO PROMOTION OF STREET WALKING OR CAR CALLS

    As mentioned in point 1, we do allow promotion of escort services but any mention of street walking or car calls will result in a warning.

     

    3. NO PORNOGRAPHY OR SEXUALLY EXPLICIT IMAGES

    Lingerie, underwear, topless images are allowed. Explicit nudity and pornography is not. 

     

    4. RESPECT EACH OTHER

    There is absolutely zero tolerance of any hate speech, bullying, racism, sexism etc. on our forum. Anyone who starts trouble will be banned.

     

    5. NO NEGATIVE REVIEWS

    Lyla is not a review board. We are a forum. It's fine to leave positive recommendations for people, but please refrain from writing negative reviews. If you had a bad experience, take it up with the individual. Lyla is not a place to bad mouth anyone or attempt to tarnish someone's reputation.

     

    6. NO SPAM

    If you post something and do not get a reply DO NOT bump the thread to get it more attention. Use the search feature as you will probably find the info you are looking for already covered. If it has been 6 months and no one replied you can post a NEW thread asking the same info. If no one replies again consider it a dead subject that no one has interest in discussing on the site.

     

    7. ONE ADVERTISEMENT PER 24 HOURS

    Please only post your advertisements once every 24 hours so you don't spam the forum. If you want to "bump" your ad so you don't have to start a new thread this is perfectly fine, as long as you're following the "one advertisement per 24 hours" rule. 

     

    8. DO NOT ASK PROVIDERS TO PRIVATE MESSAGE YOU

    Don't be that person. By all means, ask for recommendations, but do not post something like "looking for a lady in Moncton, please contact me". This is lazy and not good etiquette. 

     

    9. DO NOT HIJACK THREADS

    Stay on topic, please. Hijacking a thread means you post a completely irrelevant post and take control of the conversation that someone else started. Instead open a new thread and a new topic yourself. This includes posting on someone's advertising thread. If you are a competitor and you place a comment on someone's advertising thread that would be considered hijacking a thread.... and it's downright rude. A big part of this community is supporting each other, so show some love.

     

    10. DON'T POST SHORT COMMENTS TO BOOST YOUR POST COUNT

    If you comment on a thread, make sure it's adding value and not just wasting a comment. 

    In the past we have had people post things like "cool", "thanks", just to get out of the moderation period (we manually moderate your first 5 to 10 posts if you're a new user. This stops spammers, abuse and any negative slander that we do not allow here). If you do this you'll only be hurting yourself as you'll stay in the moderation period for longer.

     

    11. DON'T POST PERSONAL IDENTIFIABLE INFORMATION

    This should go without saying. No addresses, full names, DOBs etc. 

     

    12. NO DRUGS OR ILLEGAL MATERIAL 

    No pics of illegal drugs, no discussion of illegal drugs, please.

     

    13. NO DISCUSSION OF RATES OR PRICES 

    Advertisers are allowed to state their rates or prices in their ads. However, this is not something that should be bartered/discussed/commented on. If you'd like to comment on this you can do this in private (but we'd advise against it as asking for discounts is incredibly rude). Please do not discuss or compare rates or prices on Lyla. 

     

    If your post breaks any of these rules you will be messaged by a moderator asking you to change it. From the time of your initial post, you'll have 48 hours to edit it so that it's in line with our rules. Failure to do so will result in your post being removed from Lyla.

    The following Providers or Businesses have requested that you do not write a recommendation for them or do not discuss them on this website. Please follow by this, as we wish to respect everyone and their right to privacy. 

     

    Anyone on this list, should not be discussed in anyway. 

    353 Spa, including Honey, Skyla, & Apple.

     

    Rules for Escort Ads and Scheduled Posts.

    In addition to our regular rules found here, Verified Independent users must also follow a different set of guidelines for posting in our Schedules & Announcements forum. These are:

     

    1) Posts must include a URL to either your LeoList ad, VIP Favours ad, or your own personal website (other websites are not allowed).

    2) Posts must include a telephone number in the ad description, not just in the photographs. (A phone number is NOT required for online services)

    3) Topless photos are allowed, but frontal, below the waist nudity or graphic nudity is not.

    4) The post must contain a detailed description about yourself and your rates.

    5) Post cannot contain direct or indirect sexual references.

     

    Thank you for helping us keep the forum a great place for our entire community!

    Lyla x
     

FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)

     

    Easy peasy! If you're a provider looking to post an ad in the Lyla forum, follow these steps.:

    • Head to the Lyla homepage
    • Scroll down and you'll see a list of provinces 
    • Click to expand the relevant province that you want your ad to appear in
    • Select "Schedules & Announcements" on the relevant town/city
    • Click the teal "create topic" button
    • Once you've done your post, click "submit topic"

     

    To use the chat feature, go to the mail icon in the top right corner. Select "compose new" and type in the username of the person you wish to send a message to.

     

    Chat etiquette:

    • Start and carry conversation politely.
    • Use private chat for specific questions, to book, etc. 
    • If you do not get what you were looking for from the person you are chatting with, don't just leave the chat, let them know. We want Lyla users to have respect for each other!

     

    If you have any issues with the chat feature, please report it to a moderator.  😉

    Community members who would prefer not to have their entire DOB displayed can update their profile to hide this. If you select the drop box for year of birth and go to the very top you can select the option "not telling", and year of birth is not shown. In addition, you can select blank options for Day and Month. 

    In order to become a Verified Independent on Lyla, you must be a verified user on either LeoList.cc or VipFavours.ch. Once you have become a verified user on there, email either one of those two websites asking them to let us know here at Lyla that you are verified with them. Once they notify us, we can then promote you to Verified Independent!

    This is also very straightforward to do, but there are some things all users should keep in mind!

    - All recommendations will be pre-approved before they are published on the site.

    - It is good practice to search for an existing recommendation about a Service Provider, and add your recommendation to an existing thread. 

    - You will not able to post a recommendation on Lyla until you have been a member for at least 5 days, and have made at least 5 pre-approved posts.

     

    To find our recommendations, here are the steps:

     

    1. Go to the Browse (Forums) section of Lyla.ch

    2. Find the province that you visited the Provider in, or the province you know they frequent. Then click on the province (or expand to show sub categories on the same page).

    3. Find the major city that you visited them in or closest to where you visited them

    4. Several threads for that city will be listed, the top one should read  "(city name) Recommendations" - This is where you need to go!

    5. Now you should see a big button that reads "New Recommendation" . This will take you to the Recommendation Creation Page.

    6. Fill in the options. Make sure to select the star rating for Appearance, Attitude, Service - and always remember - Lyla is a positive board - negativity is not tolerated. 

     

    If you don't have anything nice to say, then please don't say anything at all! 😉

    Make clear to the community what you're about! Perhaps lead with a question or statement and save the detail for ad's text.

    Please do not try to make your post titles stand out from others by using special characters and lots of caps. It makes our head hurt and it's not the look and feel that we want for Lyla.

    For example, this kind of thing isn't allowed.

    • *NEW*ESCORT*BOOK*NOW!* (Usage of * and ALL CAPITAL LETTER words is not permitted)
    • Book Me TODAY only 150.00/hr 444-4444 or www.website.com [email protected] (Rates, phone numbers, websites and emails are not permitted in post titles)


    These however are great examples of what we're looking for:

     

    • New escort in town, give me call!
    • Let's meet and have an awesome time!
    • I'm new to Ottawa, and look forward to meeting you!


    If it looks like you are trying to make your headline stand out from the rest of the posts in an obvious manner, we will remove the post (and your account). It is a free site to use but if you abuse it, you will not be welcome here.

    If ever in any doubt, ask one of the moderators!🙂

    Anyone offering any sex acts of any kind cannot advertise those services here on Lyla. You are able to post ads for escort services, but any sexual services mentioned will result in a warning and/or ban. This includes acronyms implying these services or masked words trying to circumvent the censors.

    You must be 18+ to use and join this website. We may ask you to prove your legal age if at anytime your legal age is in question. If you are under the legal age of 18 you are not welcome to post or view this site. If you are asked for proof of age and you refuse, a bulletin will be posted on the site and your name will be added to a banned users list. All posts about you will be removed and we will tell the Lyla members why you have been placed on this list.

    No - the general discussion area is open for both providers and hobbyists however providers cannot advertise in this area. If the thread is asking for information or names of people who supply a specific service you can reply and let them know you offer that service. Abuse of this however will get you in hot water! 

    Multiple accounts or sharing devices are not permitted unless the accounts are PAID Agency/Spa/Private club accounts


    NOT PERMITTED:

    - Customer and SP share computer (this will appear as a SHILL account)
    - AGENCY and SP share a computer (this will appear as a SECOND advertising account)
    - Banned/suspended users who attempt to make a new account (this will add 30 days or more to your suspension time or get your IP banned altogether)

    Exceptions..

    - Two independent providers (not agency) sharing a computer (it's best that you let a moderator know upfront)
    - Visiting ladies who share accommodations (it's best that you let a moderator know upfront)

    PM the mod for any other situations before setting up two accounts from the same computer.

    Chatbox is a part of Lyla that allows you to have live chat with each other. You can find it here

    To use it, you just write your message in the box that says "your message here". The same rules that apply to Lyla apply to Chatbox. No nudity, no bullying, no hate speech, only advertise once ever 24 hours etc. If you go against these rules there will be consequences. 

    To request to purchase a banner on Lyla you must message a moderator with a link to your website and banner for approval. We do not link to any website that shows illegal content. 

    You can place a Lyla banner on your website by using the following Code:

    "<a href="https://lyla.ch" target="_blank"><img src="https://lyla.ch/banners/lylaanimated.gif" alt="lyla.ch"></a>"

    This is a good way to show real recommendations to your prospecting clients. 

    • Go to Lyla.ch homepage and make sure the "browse" and "forums" tabs are selected
    • Click the teal "start new topic" button
    • Select which forum you'd like to add the topic to from the drop down list
    • Press continue
    • Write your topic and click submit at the bottom of the page 

    Advertising on Lyla? You can see our full list of rules at the top of our FAQ page, but here are some things to bear in mind.

    What you can post

    • Topless images (male and female)
    • Prices
    • Availability
    • Permission for clients to send a private message

    What you can't post

    • Mention of sexual services provided (including abbreviations/slang)
    • Nudity (male and female)
    • Pornography
    • Anything negative about other providers

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