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as an SP on the boards who is nothing but honest with her photos and pre-call communication I would much rather a client be honest with me from the get-go that i was not his type. The worst thing in the world is having a call with a client, being yourself and thinking its going well but having a client fake or force their enjoyment....then hearing in a review that you were totally not their cup of tea or had a repulsive physique and hearing that there were PMs about their lack of connection etc to other members when they asked. Not everyone is going to connect and not everyone is looking for a 'sunshine girl'...and despite what some may think, most of us classy ladies actually try DAMN hard to make sure we leave the client pleased. we take our jobs VERY seriously and are there for YOU...if you try and force a connection and then are displeased, you only have yourself to blame, and us SPs should not have to get the flack for it if we did everything in our power to make sure you had a good time (despite your lack of attraction)....if you don't connect or aren't attracted to us based on personality but didn't try to see past pictures when booking.....sorry dude, not our fault. honesty goes a LONG way. cut it short...even if the clothes are off....save us some time and our DIGNITY before posting it publicly or to other members minus YMMV in PMs, but at the time of your honest unsatisfation, compensate us a little.....in the long run, its not asking much, SA....believe me, you not only save an SP from a one-sided reputation, but you also save yourself from a certain reputation as someone who wastes someone else's valuable time in search of a forced release.

I read an interesting list lately which I suppose could be defined as the Hammurabi Code for providers: http://tinyurl.com/c6yg8o I think most responsible providers would agree with the gist of this list of do's and dont's but what I wanted to ask is whether you guys thought that this kind of code could be used as the basis for some kind of Better Business Bureau type association of providers. Hobbyists who saw that a provider was a member could rest assured they were going to get what they paid for. Anyway, I thought it was a pretty cool idea and I think the code covers all the bases.

Some of the ladies and i have decided to do our friends list a little different: I'm not sure of which ladies are doing this so maybe they can add their name to the list. From now on i will only be adding gents that i know are safe. I have gone through my friends list and deleted people i don't really know...don't take this personally its just a new way for us to feel better protected. If i have deleted you by accident please let me know. If i do not have you on my list but i know you please pm with a detail or 2 of how i know you and i will add you. I can't remember everyone's handle so this is much easier. Just trying to make this a safer place for all involved. kisses, Emma A

Your comment is rather shallow and I think you will be surprised as most of the ladies here enjoy the job and like the regular average guys. You sound a little jaded so I hope you come around in time and realize how wrong you are here.

If the members here would use the "REPORT" icon more we would have less problems. If someone is being a dick in chat you can PM me about it (Include a time and details - copy and paste the chat log to me as well even). Keep in mind that guys like Cowboy Kenny who find the bait and switch ads for you all are a HUGE help to everyone (and we all appreciate his efforts) but you must take the good with the bad. This brings cerb to the attention of the bait and switch people and I (and many of you) suspect a lot of the problems could be from these people who are trying to intentionally disrupt the cerb site and discredit people on this board (Especially the top members). If someone is slandering someone else in chat or in the forums or in PM's you just have to let me know and I will deal with them. I can view his/her IP and ban them. Sure they could come back but we could create a public bulletin about this stuff. The senior/elite members have proven themselves here so we can stand behind them and of course we will always back up the SP's as well (the ones that have verified not the brand new ones to the board as they must prove themselves first as well). The site is growing every day (and that is a good thing as it brings new members - valued members - but it also brings more bad people that we need to weed out) but we need the cerb community to help police the site (the ladies and gentlemen that love this site and want to make sure it keeps the integrity). Some of the guys who sit in chat are not interested in talking to other guys (DEAL WITH IT) they may just want to sit quietly and see what goes on in chat... unless they are spamming, slandering, being rude, etc.. why do you care? Just leave them alone and ignore them if they are just watching (that is part of chat room culture). It's silly and annoying when people complain about these people (they are not doing anything wrong). If someone is purposely trying to cause problems... ranting in public about it will not solve the problem (in fact it will add to the problem as you give others the same idea and also you show the instigators that the efforts they are putting out are having effect). Instead we should work together to remove and ban those people and IP addresses. I can't read minds or your private PM's (unless someone REPORTS the PM so that it brings it to my attention and I can than read it) I can not watch chat 24 hours (or the shoutbox) I can not read every thread ever posted. I try to read as much as time permits but I rely on you all to let me know (Again click the the PM's to me). REPORT thread icon) when someone is causing a problem. IT'S YOUR SITE AS MUCH AS OURS. If you want to call this home you must help keep the unwanted people out. I DO read EVERY PM that is sent to me and I do as much as I can to make sure the integrity of the site is kept high. The rest is up to you as the community.

Personally I sold mine for 75 pounds in Plymouth, took the money and went to strip club, got drunk and went home with the hot Hungarian dancer! It was the best use I got out the wedding ring! Needless to say, I am a happily divorced man! :D

It'll all be good once we get rid of every mentally unbalanced person out there...the guys who stalk and the girls that do too. Not limited to this industry, everyone in general. Other than that, not much can be done unless you can change the world. No offense, but these daily utopian fantasies are becoming tired. Noble sure, but ultimately pretty fruitless... Posted via Mobile Device

Not to rub it in but this is why every SP/Companion should have an established and effective screening process! i.e FULL name, ID, phone number and one or two recommendations! ;) xox