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An exerpt from my diary I wish to share here with the members of CERB as some of you may not frequent the diary.... Pay it forward I'm often told I should charge for the service I provide, tracking bait and switch photos and for maintaining the numbers to avoid list. Many have told me of the countless times the diary has saved them from grief and more importantly, wasting money. That got me to thinking about how we could make the diary benefit more than just hobbiests and honest providers, but how could my simple diary benefit the greater community. I could never charge for the service, after all I'm a giver not a taker. In the past all I've really asked for is your thanks. So I put this challenge to the regular and frequent visitors who appreciate the efforts of the diary. Take the money that you've saved or would have otherwise wasted on a agency or indy with phoney pics or a "date verification" scam and donate it to charity of choice. Many who choose to participate in this hobby do so as a matter of choice and are in fortunate place in life to do so. No matter how you afford to participate, it's your money it's well earned and you deserve the diversion you seek. Many people in our city don't have those choices available, they must choose between a warm meal or a roof over their heads, others are faced with ilnesses that present life challenges with vary few options available to them with out impacting their lives o those afflicted of their families. So if you've ever been helped by out by the diary, or the cowboy has come to your aid, consider making a donation of value to the charity of your choice. Big or small, the amount is not important, but the consideration and the thought are. There are many deserving charities choose one close to your heart to make the donation more worthwhile. Here's a few charities I continue to support with my time and money... Epilepsy Canada The Ottawa Mission Candlelighters Childrens Wish Foundation

Sorry it took me so long to jump on this train, BUT here is what I say: Age is just a number. I have had older guys treat me like a piece of meat and younger guys (my own age) treat me like a princess, just as I have had the opposite. YoungStud said it best though: the older guys just have more going for them in terms of skillz (with a 'z' for my homies) and we all know I like my sex exciting :)

Spending time with any of the ladies on here (or anywhere for that mater) is a privilege, not a right. If a lady doesn't want to see you it is her right to decide who she spends time with, it may not be to you liking (no one likes to be excluded), but you have to live with it. There are lots of beautiful ladies out there, so find a lady who wants to see you and have a great time.

In every social or professional interaction, people need to be treated with respect. That is particularly so when so when you are talking about a business in which the services are of a very personal and intimate nature. As for bars ... I'm way past that scene. Done it, can do it, not interested in it. Just as us old folks shouldn't necessarily make assumptions about young fellows, don't assume that the reason we're seeing escorts is because we all look like rumpelstiltskin. There are lots of reasons why people choose to participate in this hobby, and all should be treated as valid. Cheers, Porthos

April 01:

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I may rub some people the wrong way with this post and I am by no means a seasoned pro in this hobby but I have noticed a few things on this board since I joined and wanted to build a how to list based on my own views. Basically when dealing with life and business and people you develop certain interpersonal skills. On this board we are trying to make connections that are very intimate and should be handled with care and tact (imho). CERB is, as I have found, an excellent resource for quality companions and should not be treated like the side alley or even Craigs List. below is a list of tips in how I approach new people and felt I should share it as I see many impatient responses to announcements or weird ways of asking for information. Read their Announcements completely! Many times there is a link to the SP or MP's homepage, e-mail address or phone number. These announcements generally have availability, details and sometimes rates. Take the time to see what they are saying and decide if you want to contact them. If they have a webpage...READ IT, I have yet to visit an SP's page and not come away with a nearly complete idea of what they offer and their general rates. If they have recommendations, read them, and not just the 'score'. If you are looking for a certain type of experience the reco's usual will recount (sometimes vaguely) what is offered and what isn't. The list of services under the review header is generally pretty specific. Do a bit of research if you want to know what the SP/MP is like. A lot of the women who announce regularly also post regularly. Personally I only want to spend time with people I am interested in, by looking at what they have to say you can get a feel of their personality. If you click with someone then generally you can have a much better time. If you have specific questions do not post them under their announcement, PM, call or e-mail them depending on what information they provided. How would you book an appointment for anything else in life? If they are a regular poster on CERB they will see their PM's, many of the women even mention if they can't get to them and specify alternate methods. Do not post on their guestbook 'call me', 'are you available now' or 'PM me', if I was on the other end of those messages I would not respond or maybe not even see the notes for a while at a time. Be respectful in messages and notes. If you want to be treated well and meet some of the amazing women on this board approach them as they should be approached, with class and respect. I am not saying debate should never happen, but that is not the point of this board. I know I am a relative n00b so to speak so some may disagree with me or discount the advice but I felt I needed to get this off my chest. Anything I missed? Any comments from the SP's/MP's? From other hobbyists? I know there is a 'do not do' thread, but a concise how to guide could never hurt!;-)

No more fantasies Love ya :(

Now this is really taking things way too far.

Put me on your ''things to do'' list! I guess I'm to dominant, so nobody dared, so far... Will you? ;-)

Maybe to resolve your immediate problem, next time you get together with a MP/SP/EP or even your wife (as you put it lol), when you're at the point of no return, relax, go with the flow and let it happen! Don't hold back! You may want to do that a few times too... A few quickies here and there never hurt anyone! It can actually be fun from time to time!... Especially in the morning! ;) Good luck and have fun! xox

I did also......oops....

Well I take pride in showing up on tiome for appointments and (touch wood) have never had to cancel an appointment much less being a no show and I am sure the ladies I see on a regular basis would vouch for that. But then if I have any doubt about when i book that I may not be able to make a certain timing and have to cancel, I simply will not make a booking. Sometimes it meant I can't see a certain SP but that is life. So If i am a no show, it is very likely that something happened that prevents me from getting to a phone. I don't like wasting my time so I certainly would not waste a lady's time.

I am interested in finding a gentlemen thats very dominate and into role play. I have a fantasy about being dominated by a larger man and made to do things, ect.... I have had this fantasy for awhile, and was just hoping to run into someone through escorting that I thought could fill my requirement. I am very into experimenting and discovering new fetishes and erotic play that I enjoy, so I hoping this will be my newest discovery in my sexual growth. I'm very tall 5'8, so I am looking for someone over 5'10 preferred. A medium to large toy in your pants for me to play with... :) I am dominate by nature, so you must be very dominate and have experience in pushing someone into a submissive role. Also must be vocal, I am very vocal, I want to be given instructions and requirements in our play session. I have lots of toys, ropes, cuffs you name it...LOL So no fun bag needed, unless you see fit. I really hope this fits someone who is willing to play. Because I am requesting this, there is NO COST to my play partner that I choose. I am also looking for a single good man.... So once I decide, thats it thats all.... I am keeping my fingers crossed, Kisses and Spanks Ottawa's Pretty Paige

A hot blonde with tatoos, good god I'm in love!