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More Jasmine. So sexy!!

An great experience is not limited by the size of the players. Size is a subjective term with no 2 people?s definitions meaning the same thing. This thread reminds me of the racism issue at home. Most people would not intentionally say a slur, nor would they think they are racist. They would not choose an unqualified white man over a qualified black man, and don?t hesitate to sit in a restaurant beside a different race, which 40 years ago was unheard of. But when the baby brings a different shade home to meet the parents, it?s a challenge to those dearly held social beliefs. Weight discrimination is out there, even if we don?t acknowledge it. The degree varies, like color discrimination. The lighter the skin...the better. The thinner the woman?the better. It?s not conscious, but it?s there. It is a societal perception and not reflective of all the individuals in the society. Discussion brings things to light, and with the light darkness cannot exist. If someone relies on a particular body type rather than the person within for the attraction stimulus, it simply means they are focused on form which is linear, rather than essence which is depth. It is not better or worse, it is simply the way they see the stardust we are all made of. Yes, the proportions have to be symmetrical to be appealing to the eye most of the time, but not always. Yes, as a society; most tend look for those bodies that visually balance. We have had decades of Playboyesque female forms to shape what we define as beautiful. To say what you like today isn?t shaped by the filters of how you view the world (which are formed over a lifetime) is simplistic. We all do it. I have 4 daughters, 1 spinner, 2 average curvys and one that is a BBW. They are all beautiful facially. The BWW is as pretty as the others, and at times even more beautiful. Shes outgoing and smart, but she is the one sitting on the couch with me on Saturday night. Only older men ask her out, and at 18 she finds that a little too weird still. In time she will realize that age isn't a factor. In the meantime she waits. I was never a spinner. I have been volumptuous from puberty, and often times just plain ole fat. I had no confidence about my body when I was young because I wasn?t slim hipped with a little ass. Did the centerfolds taped up all over my dads garage influence how I felt about my body? Absolutely! I would sit in the office and look at the "perfection". No false breasts back then, just natural, slender women. It was the '70's and I was a '50's shape. Just didn't fit the mold, but I was too young to realize. As I matured my body changed. With childbearing my hips widened, my breasts softened and internally did weird and wonderful stuff. The curves to me now represent life and all the changes that I regard as amazing. I would not trade my body type now, I embraced it years ago, but it took being an escort to realize I was attractive and desirable. We come in all shapes and sizes, which is the wonder of human beings. I think there is an issue, but it will change with time if it's recognized. It always does? Cat

It personally does not infuriate me that we pay house fees. By the way, 95%+ dancers in North America and 100% of Ottawa dancers pay each night to work. We are independent contractors and enjoy many benefits as a result. I've worked in Thunder Bay where the pay was $200/night for 4 stage shows and I much prefer paying to work. Here are a few reasons: -I own my business. I don't work for someone. -When we pay housefees, there is MUCH greater flexibility in scheduling. I get to show up when I want, work however many days I want, take breaks whenever I want. When you are paid by the club and "on schedule" you have to work when you are scheduled and when they tell you to. -I can do whatever I want onstage. When they don't pay you, they can't tell you what to do. When I worked in Thunder Bay, they were much stricter about your shows, costumes, music, etc. Most dancers have to purchase new outfits to work there. -Money is power. When I'm paying to work there, I have greater control over my environment. For example, when I give staff money, they know they have to treat me well or else I won't pay them, or I will pay them less. I could keep going but I think you get the idea. I am happy to pay to work, and I don't want to go back to a shift pay club. One of my favourite things about dancing is that I own my own business and that I don't work for anyone but myself.

wow wow wow even tho you say that is your last comment SA (as you do many times) I predict further commentary after this post. Once again you are dismissing the opinions of those who are actually partaking in said acts instead of perhaps realizing that you could learn from those experiences as opposed to your own secont hand knowledge....its ok, just a bit of a pattern....remember, its called open discussion for a reason?: lets first off dismiss the fables of what group sex entails.... Q. domination? or being told what to do or ordered what to do by all participating males??? A. absolutely not! every female participant lays out her restrictions, services and ground rules prior...those who aren't looking for those services go elsewhere. And every male participating waits for the lady to take the lead in the actions....no one orders anyone around like a football coach or they'd not be invited to the next event Q. Group sex entails greek? A. Not if the girl doesn't offer it normally, there are many ways to please men, not simply by penetration in "various holes" Q. The lady must have fantasies of this or only be turned on by these acts to engage in them and not be a classy lady (someone mentioned the word "slut" before?) if so... A. some ladies engage because they are simply curious about a controlled event like this....maybe in the end they decide its not for them. But my dad said once "try everything once...maybe twice if you think you like it and it doesnt kill you, but it shouldnt define you if you were simply inriqued" ...-- now...all this stuff about being under the influence. I know what you're referring to and who you're sticking up for and I dont think that the influence of being under psychological meds for other reasons besides what you think to be her helpless vice to dealing with sex-work (if she didnt want to do it, she wouldnt) is making her any less able to make their own decisions....also I dont think she'd like you to put that out there so best to leave that alone.....drugs, alcohol and being taken advantage of are far from what this group is about. No one is forced to do anytyhing under the influence in that group. All that being said, I am proud saying that I've been to a couple events now, have been fully in control, Have been overly respected in terms of my limitations, have had laughs and chats with everyone participating prior and after as like any other call I've been on...I dont travel to the greek islands, love myself at the end of the day with a huge smile on my face. At The end of the day I can also firmly post my schedule and include the word "CLASSY" without haste. I will also add, I do very well for myself as a low-volume SP, this is my only source of income yet I am extremely well off even if I dont accept group sex events....and I have a child to provide for too, SA, but it doesnt mean that any client should pity or judge me more than my degree-carrying, self-sufficient self should deserve. To assume that we only do what we do for the money is putting us all in the "victim" category....something that many members here know that I dont stand for. "Shes a student, shes a young mother, ...those men must be taking advantage of her and her financial troubles!".........common now have a little more respect for the ladies. When someone tried to tell me that I dont know what I'm getting into or that I'm being brainwashed into something, it makes me loose total respect for them. In the end, your lady of choice will thank you for respecting her decisions and respecting that she is a big girl, capable of making her own choices in life Those who want to turn my smile or other's into a frown or shame can take a hike :)

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