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I dont see it as money (keep in mind I still see it as BUSINESS...just to keep in line..) My regulars are what make my day in this business...My relief from the BS I have to deal with on a daily basis. Sadly I've lost a couple in the following months for different reasons or reasons unknown and it has definitely left me a tad depressed. It is a very big compliment to have someone want to see you again...and again for that matter. Never hearing back from a regular is kind of like losing touch with an old friend...who you may feel akward by shooting off an email to asking how he's doing for fear of him thinking you were only contacting him for business means. The ones who I see again and again are indeed outstretching their hand to build a solid client-SP relationship (not to be confused with an actual relationship) but it makes conversation easier, catching up fun, and more than often the big hug at the door after reuniting after a few weeks that much more enjoyable. Money aside, The regulars are the ones that are the gems inbetween the rude customers and harsh phonecalls and degrading texts from would-be clients. They are the ones that at the end of the night, we walk to our cars with a smile on our faces. To the "collector hobbiests" I have no quams with wanting to try everything once, but in the end I will say that finding the right person (or two) and becoming a regular of theirs is the biggest honour a girl can give you, and if shes appreciative, a great compliment should you be a gentleman to her for her business and are a noble client...repeat business will definitely earn you a girl's trust and have her earn your's....from that point on it's all YMMV

Okay, so I get this call this morning, and as I say hello, I hear a woman's voice in the background talking. The caller says something to her that I don't quite catch. I say hello again, and he says hello. Then says something like "double double." Huh? I hang up. He phones right back. I ask him about the woman he was talking to. Turns out, he's at some fast food place, ordering, AND phoning me at the same time to ask for info. ????? Would you phone an SP for information whilst ordering at a fast food counter? Sheesh! I told him I didn't think we would get along and hung up again before he had a chance to launch into whether I do bbbj or greek. These days, everyone seems so concerned about their online privacy, and yet, they walk around in public with their cell phones plastered to their heads, discussing everything under the sun while innocent bystanders are subjected to it. And people wonder why I'm a homebody.

Yes being an escort is legal but soliciting is illegal. Soliciting would include talking about sex, discuss pre terms and abbreviations before hand and placing these in your ads. Even GFE could be misinterpreted as soliciting for sex. I am new but I have done some homework. This is in CAnada by the way. Additional Comments: Going back the the earliest post, I think GFE means an intimate encounter. That is just me and I guess we all have different points of view. I guess I just assumed that the general public even the hobbyist were being safe considering what is out there. ;)

I agree that a regular siituation is great for both the client and provider. There's the obvious comfort/safety zone and then there's the familiarity of each other that adds to the intimacy. Just like in the civilian world, all realtionships need tending and it's incumbment on both parties not to get "lazy" and take the situation for granted. And eventhough this is a financial transaction first and foremost in my view both parties need to participate equally to maximize the experience. As we've seen in the cable and telephone game some suppliers took their clients for granted and now there's the constant you're special and we want you back badgering. Well if you hadn't f--ked me over in the first place I won't have looked else where. Customer service is becoming a lost art these days and the new motto seems to be "we're not happy until you're not happy" Peace Mr Green

From my reading of online "experts" views, co-risk factors exist because people do other sex acts or things. If a blood-borne STI got passed along, it would be difficult to say it was because of the oral. I agree other things we do are of risk too, like driving to a sp's location. Posted via Mobile Device

I understand the view here but I just want to offer another...what makes it obvious that a man is being seen with an escort? good looking girl saying hi to an older man etc...it happens! no one is ever going to assume you're an escort because of it. And its something that gals shouldnt be paranoid about...you will not "out" yourself if you smile and nod to a gentleman.....you might if you decide to walk down the grocery isle holding hands and swinging them giddily....but thats not what we're talking about here. personally if i was with my mom and i said hi to a karaoke friend...who may be in his 50s and totally akward...she may say "umm...how do you know that man?" I wouold tell her that karaoke brings about all types and ages of people and she would buy it....thats the exuse i would use if my mother grilled me when bumping into anyone she deemed "not worthy" of my age-range. And if she pushed further, i'd say.."mom, I'm friendly to anyone even if I've met them with my friends only once....would you rather I be mean? c'mon..." walking up to a guy and saying hi...not cool.....walking up to an SP and saying hi...also not cool, but I think everyone needs to ditch the paranoia of thinking that just because a client says hi it outs you as an escort...or if an SP says hi it outs you as a hobbiest. there are probably a million other situations a bystander will consider before saying "oh wow...shes saying hi to him...he's obviously paid her for sex" lol....jus sayin

Regular/repeat clients are humbling & much appreciated for so many reasons. It speaks volumes as far as performance, attitude, chemistry, respect & trust on both sides. Building a strong foundation like this between two people in the real world, is far & few between. Negative setbacks in real relationships, naturally occur in time, such as jealousy for example. Whereas consensual arrangements, rooted from boundaries, have automatically flourished happiness between the SP & client relationship. As time goes on, this paves the way to a healthy companionship they both easily find comfort in, & that they simply haven't found anywhere else. As far as I am concerned, you can't really put a price on that. This is just my personal experience though....:grin:

They sure do matter to me!!! Although I like meeting new people?my hope is to connect with them so we can hook up again, ?I would say half of it is for financial reasons, the other half is because for me, it is so nice to look forward to seeing someone that you know will treat you right and that you can have a good time with (this is what make me really like what I do:wink: )?usually no surprises?as you know just what you are in for!! When I first meet someone, I am feeling both excited and nervous at the same time?I like the excitement?not so much the nervousness? Lately I have a been a little weary of meeting new friends, due to a really unpleasant incident that occurred last month (felt shamed, humiliated, and degraded) ??.however, right after the incident took place ( and a few tears later ), the first thing that I thought of was, my special regular friends?.seriously?It was kind of comforting to think about them cause it kind of reassured me that there was nothing wrong with me, I am a very likeable person and if I don?t want to see new people , I really don?t have to cause I have special friends!!! Please note, we all handle our business differently, I am not looking to gain a super lavish lifestyle?therefore, if I only see a handful of friends on a monthly basis, I am ok with that?For me I would rather much see 5 special friends per month, then 20 and take a chance that 15 out of the 20 guys would not be the nicest men?..I realize this is a business, however my personal mental health is very important to me?I know for myself, if I were to see many random clients, I would not be able to keep up my friendly demeanor and attitude?so all that to say I really, really value them !!!

I'm not normally one to be vain, but I will nominate myself for this. Megan

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