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I came across an issue that is very painful to every person who has suffered it in their own skin....violence.... In general one hears the stories about violence committed against women, perhaps because we ladies have endured it for many years and in some societies, as we all know, the abusive behavior, the castration of women is an everyday issue. Nevertheless I want to open a thread about violence against men. I had the pleasure of meeting some gentlemen who are dominated by their partners and can not even hold their own bank account. In my life experience I also came accross females that are belittling their partners in front of strangers in a way I could not imagine why the boys can tolerate it.... There are cases and cases....does anyone want to cooperate in this "opening up" of violence against our men? I love to read what everybody has to say about this painful situation. May be some gentlemen wont like to be identified, as well as us who suffered it, try to keep it in the shadow and wear the "mask" of "not-me".... let's open this forum to the reality of life, Violence exists and damages all of us in one way or another...... LoraLee

violence against men has increased by women in the past few years, but still police look at it like get a set of balls man. If a man fights back he is the one arrested and charged. The truth is finally coming out about bad behavorial habits by some women. Like my 1st she used other people to do her dirty work. I believe this is why I go to dance clubs and the lovely ladies on cerb. The lack of emotional attachment is a good thing when you need short term comfort for these men. I am willing to bet that 25% of the men you see are affraid of emotional attachments due to violence or emotional abuse.

MRGREEN Thank you for letting me know that at least you have some awareness of some principles in the arts of erotics, why are the great lovers in this world so rare? I think although sex it is one of the most searched after activities most people do not bother to read about sexuality neither care to find out the likes and dislikes of their sexual partners. I will never understand how come some people study to become lawyers engineers and politicians, but most people will not bother reading about sexual intelligence, it is so sad and as a result most people are zero lovers. I think good sex requires some knowledge and fitness and finess and self awareness and generosity, if one is self centred sex cannot be any good right? But generous guys are the best lovers. Not generous in a financial sense but in a emotional attentive and sexual sense.

I say thank you, and then being thru the door first, will usually open and hold the door for them if my hands arent full. Zero effort and just plain good manners. :-)

Democracy is rife with "what ifs". Who moderates who? Who is to be trusted to be impartial and unbiased? This is an online, virtual, anonymous community. I would not want to be in charge of finding anyone perfect enough to meet the requirements of monitoring this board, as there is not one participant that doesn't have biases and self interest at hand, while still pleasing the masses that seem to demand their perception of perfection instead of practical application. Given the pettiness, immaturity and nonsense I have seen on the board lately, I would gladly choose to have MOD continue as always and permanently ban the whiners, complainers and shit disturbers. The manipulation and games would push anyone over the fragile edge. I know many "valued" participants would be gone but it would give CERB a fresh start and I for one would be glad to see them go. MOD is constantly taken for granted by both hobbiest and SP alike. Has anyone ever thought of what would happen if CERB were shut down? I mean literally, off the air. Having this board is a privilege not a right. It costs nothing to participate and we all gain from it, but it costs $$$, time, heart and soul to run it. This whole "democracy" issue should have never happened. Who has the right to question and complain about MODs decisions to begin with? It's his board, which means his game, his rules!!! He has the right to make decisions without backlash or complaint from anyone in any form. If you don't like his decisions, LEAVE. There are other boards out there for you to participate on. Don't like those, start your own board. To all of those who have pushed MOD to this, those who complained and pitched hissy fits, give your head a shake, grow up and get a life. You have brought this on CERB. It would serve all those involved if MOD decided to simply close up shop and move on to something that doesn't require hyperbaric sensory deprivation treatments to maintain his sanity. You know who you are. All of you who chose to PM him, giving him a hard time about bans and suspensions. All of you who question his decisions. All of you who take petty squabbles to him instead of being an adult and taking the high road. All of you who feel it's more important to be right than it is to be happy. Life doesn't always work out the way you want it to. Accept it and move on. For those who have been banned, take responsibility for your part in it and....move on. Perhaps if some apologies and self policing were implemented, this would all go away. Use a little common sense and empathy from now on and maybe all of this can be resolved without complicating life any more than it already is. cat