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It's happened to me too, Isabella. What I do , whether it is in life, on CERB, in pm's, and emails etc etc etc, is treat the other person(s) the way I would like to be treated. There are those in life that are rude. But don't let them get you down. I'd like to think there are more people that have good manners and are respectful than are rude. And on days where I've had my fill of rude ignorant people and feel like I should be the same, I think to myself "I won't lower myself down to their level" Hope that rambling helps RG

I would say 97% of my clients are not shaved. I prefer trimmed because shaving makes you prickly. Soft hair is much nice than sandpaper.

Two words that I have read quite a few times in some threads posted here. However, not too sure how many really apply them. This is far from for a rant, more like an observation. Since I joined cerb I have been participant of the threads, first reading them and once I felt I had something to comment, well, then I started to reply and when I noticed I was posting my first thread. Same thing with chat and through both of them is that I have noticed and sometimes received discourtesy from some members which is kind of disappointing when I try to be friendly and respectful to others. The feeling of starting this thread started last night when after being in the chat room for a little while, I realized it was bed time, and just as I was about to close my window, I noticed a question from a new member who seemed a little confused so I decided to invite him to private chat and answer his questions as well as give a few suggestions and point a thread on the topic he was concerned about. Next thing I noticed, he had left chat without even saying good night (a thank you would be to much to ask it seems). Recently I got a private message from a member saying he would like to meet me and asking if I would be available a certain day/time which I was not so I replied explaining this and telling him what my schedule is normally like, he replied back asking me to please let him know when my next availability would be and that is exactly what I did ... Did I hear back from him? Of course not. Would it be to much to ask for a short note like a 'That does not work for me?' And like those I could give you few more examples so yes, I'm a bit disappointed and frustrated to see that some people has no manners and/or respect for others. In my case, it makes me feel like trying to help others out is not worth it as is not appreciated. Yes, I know one should not do things expecting something in return but a 'thank you' makes a big difference. I also worry that the more people take this attitude the less others will want to help others out and in this particular case (cerb) that is what keeps it as a friendly community. At last but not least and something non-cerb related thing. I would like to remind those who show no courtesy towards others that it can get back at them and I'm not saying I'm wishing for it to happen but I know many of the members here (ladies & gentlemen) have children. Please do not forget that no matter how many times you tell them things they watch more than what they listen so teach them good manners and to appreciate people, that will be reflected in their lives as they grow older :)

It's not just about pampering ourselves. It's funny I dread my 3hrs at the salon every 6-8weeks getting my hair fried to the right shade of blonde. And as much as I love feeling sexy in lingerie, finding quality sexy garments at resonable prices is time consuming and costly. I am one of the few girls who do not have acrlylic nails and I avoid the mani/pedi costs by enjoying the process of preping myself at home. All together, hair, body lotions,lingerie & makeup I spend 300-400$ every two months. It's insane to be vain but being boring brings no excitement to the game. Keep looking beautiful ladies. :wink:Cheers xoxo Jenna

At issue here are two different situations. The broadcast or streaming of the webcam content without the consent of the participants. This is wrong on so many levels the parents of the students accused should ask for the tuition money back, their kids are just plain stupid! The bigger issue here is the persecution and outing of Tyler and forcing him to choose what he thought was the only way to deal with this situaiton. A terrible end to a young and what could have been a promising life. The pair responsible for the promotion and organization of the web streams are ultimately responsible for the death of this young man. Had they not chosen to be so selfish,vindictive and cruel Tyler would still be with us today. I cannot tolerate the actions of those who choose to knowingly manipulate and take advantage of others for their own gain, be it financial, emotional or otherwise.

this is to get me to post here.....right?

I normally do not make comments like I am about to, but this statement makes me very, very unhappy. If you had a great relationship with your father, that is wonderful, and I do agree that loving relationships are essential to personal well-being. However, Saying women who are loved by their dad are much nicer is such a broad statement and feels like a slap in the face to women, like me, who did NOT have such a relationship. I'm quite happy in the fact that I don't have a father - but by your statement, this means I'm not as nice as someone who did? Give me a break. I will assume your sentiment in this statement is again, 'loving relationships make nicer people', which is how I live my life. The loving relationships i've developed with my friends, my animals, my lovers, are all what make me the nice person I am - father not included! Now back to the original topic please...

Hi everyone, First thank you for reading my thread! It's long and more of a rant, but I just wanted to share and see what kind of response I got I'm just wondering, and would like feedback on this topic. It's a situation I've been having lately, specially with 21 years old. Not that they are the only ones but they seem to be the most common. They start their conversations with: "Hi I'm 21 years old, good looking, how about you cut me a deal and I treat you like a lady, you might like it!" When you give them your rate, they keep taking your time asking personal questions, then they say they don't want to book they want to be friends, get to know you and see where it goes from there. When you explain to them that you post because you want to make money, and this is your work. You are not friends, but clients, either don't believe you or ignore it and they keep persisting. I'm just curious if, and I'm sure the answer will be yes, other SPs get this type of client and if they do, what do they say to get them to either book or rid of them? I've used a lot of different techniques and none seem to work. I've even told 1 guy who said:(note: this conversation happened after he told me he was shy and needed to talk to SPs 1st before booking) "I would like to get to be your friend, go out for drinks nothing sexual, just friends and see if we click" I replied: "Great you want to be my friend, then I will meet you for drink but, I will be accompanied by my fiancee is that OK?" (I figured that would get him to give up) He replies: "why would he come?" ME: "Well see, we have an agreement, when we go out with friends we always go out together. Most times that is the only time we spend together, therefore if you want to be my friend then I guess you have to live with him being around!" I then get the obvious response: "Well I was hoping to be friends and see where it goes from there!" Note for all you hobbyist reading this: (And I'm sure most of you probably know this, so please do not think that I am being condescending to you. I'm just ranting and hoping that this will help people who don't look at life this way, to have at least a different perspective) In my humble opinion, if you see someone posting on any erotic board or boards dedicated to SPs odds are we are not looking for dates. Most of us already have relationships outside of our work. Please do not waste our time by trying to entertain a relationship right from the start. (If you are looking for a relationship, there are tons of dating sites full of women waiting to chat and do the dating thing!) Book our time, spend some time with us (for a fee), then you never know we may just like you and want a relationship! :razz: And for those of you who have this theory "I would never pay for sex!" Ask yourself this: Have you ever picked up a girl at a bar and bought her drinks, supper, movie, clothes, jewelry, etc... slept with her but didn't have a relationship her? If your answer is YES then you've paid for sex.It's not because she was in a bar that you didn't exchange something for the sex you got. This said, the only difference between that girl in the bar and an SP is; you don't have to spend 4 hours trying to pick us up by making an impression all you need to do is call and show up. With her you're not even guaranteed to get any action, no matter the amount of drinks you buy her. With us you are, if you pay of course. So if you want a relationship, pay our time instead of drinks, use the time to flirt and try and gain our attention you never know it just might work! See . Different setting.same result!