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I've said it before (and heard it before too), the difference between free sex and paying for it, free sex ends up lots more expensive in the end RG

The overwhelming majority of my clients are also wonderful people! I very much dislike the stereotype that men who see sex workers must be pedophiles, rapists, no respect for women, etc. From my experiences, nothing could be further from the truth! I get much more respect from the clients I meet than I would from any bar in town.

Do you remember your first exposure to erotica? Someone's movie collection? Magazines? I recall being in my early teens and stumbling across a relative's stash of playboys. Needless to say it caught my attention. Those days of different lingerie styles, body types, hairstyles. Not saying those days need to come back, just thinking back. Your thoughts.

I think this thread is good. Good because of the relations that was started between choices of a woman and her body and how it relates to the sex industry. Personally, I will do whatever I want to my body, in turn do whatever you wish with yours. No, I would not have an abortion, I believe in taking responsibilities for my actions. I will say that, being in this industry, girls get very personal and share very personal information, because, we know and understand each other more so than someone who is not in this industry. I have never herd of a woman getting pregnant with a clients baby. I also know many girls that are not in the industry that are complete flat out sluts, that will have sex with many men, protection or not. From my experience, These woman have a much higher rate for abortions. I hear time and again that they were drunk..and..blah blah blah. Then running to the clinic for an abortion a few weeks later. But really, how many times can you get drunk, get pregnant, get an abortion before you realize you need an IUD, that is given free, at the abortion clinic. Woman should really learn to close their legs. I don t think abortions should be confidential-if they are. There should be like a one time only abort-o-clinic. Woman that have multi partners without protection, the sluts..have a lot more to worry about than getting pregnant. I have slept with 5 men in my lifetime. I didn t use protection for every man and I contracted Chlamydia, then gave it to my fiance. I am lucky because medication cleared up my sloppy-sex-disease with two weeks of meds. What if i contracted HIV or herpes or gonorrhea or warts or something like that? Pregnant? Nah, that s the last thing I would be worried about. Additional Comments: Megan, I NEVER would insinuate something like you claim. You should respect my decisions I make with my body. I didn t say any holy-ring about sexual partners. I was stating that I slept with 5 men, and didn t protect myself and contracted a disease..that easy. I hardly doubt bragging about getting a disease is holy-ring about anything. 1 in 5, that s all it took to get a disease. So the last thing I am worried about is getting pregnant, more worried about getting a disease considering I slept with 5 men.(that s a 20% chance) It took me 1000 times to have unprotected sex to get pregnant. I am being honest here. It doesn t matter what anyone else does with their body and no one should care how little or many partners ive had. Not to mention, because you totally read my post wrong, you dropped my reputation points from 27 to 9. that s a tad bit uncalled for, Maybe if I had said something like I ONLY slept with..geesh.. this is my body and I am pro-choice to do whatever you want with yours, don t judge me about my decisions, I thought this post was all about respecting one s decisions and thoughts on them..not for you to "not like" my thoughts, heck, you asked for them..NOT COOL

I can't help that notice that the majority of people who are sex-work positive, are also pro-choice. Until about age 22 I "wasn't sure" what my views on abortion were. As an idealist (so many of us are when we are young!) I thought maybe abortion was wrong. When I entered the sex industry at age 22, I learned that the same people who wanted to control me, my body, and my sexuality by telling me sex work is "immoral" were also the people trying to control the bodies and sexualities of pregnant women. I made a CHOICE to enter sex work, and I strongly believed it was my choice to make and one that should not be judged by others. Upon this realization, I became pro-choice. Although an abortion is not something I would choose for myself, I respect that we are all different and make choices that are best for us. If I expect people to respect my choices about my body and my sexuality, I need to respect the choices of others. What are your thoughts?

Julia, I think that you will find the CERB community is very friendly and open to various views concerning subjects. It is great that you voiced your opinion and that you shared personal information. Hopefully you will continue to share. I would like to point out two things that are mentioned in your post, that many members of this community would find offensive. You mention (i) Woman should really learn to close their legs. and (ii) Woman that have multi partners without protection, the sluts. I suggest that you not use the word "slut" in a derogatory way. It is true that unprotected sex is very dangerous behaviour and that we should inform others of the dangers of this behaviour. However, in the end, it is a choice that each person must make before having sex. We should all strive to be non-judgmental.

You have no reason to feel awkward or embarrassed when visiting the personal sites of other CERB members. CERB is a community and members feel a need to get to know other members. I for one am always pleased when someone visits my site, whether they leave a message or not.

I find it entertaining yet confusing that you don't like my post girls. This Thread asked what my thoughts were about choices regarding the woman body. And,, I gave my really personal thoughts as asked for and added myself as personal example about how getting pregnant would be less serious than contracting an STD, like I have. The number of sexual partners I gave was to validate my statement, that is all. I don't think it's fair or nice that you accuse me of being "holier than thou" because I shared a personal account of the issue. Go ahead and pull down my reputation points if I break the rules or personally insult someone here, but don't ask for my opinion, then pull down my points because of my personal choices and claiming I am being "holier than thou" because of the amount of men I have had unprotected sex with. That's hypocritical, makes no sense and shows little class. My feelings are hurt, knowing that this forum has failed me, since I was under the impression that people were able to express their own personal views, especially when asked, especially on a site dedicated to the sexual industry. No one should have to worry about stating a personal fact like I have. If I slept with 5000 men without protection, would that have been better.

RG:Not to single you out, but this "fresh" comment is a recurring one and I have serious issues with it... So in discussing it, I would like to apologize if it seems uncalled for, I just happen to be reading this comment when I felt the need to speak out about this... I see in a way that you wouldn't want to book an unkempt and overextended SP, but I don't really see the link between a gang-bang and a popular SP, not that there is anything wrong with gang-bangs. As a professional, I feel that a popular SP would take the time to freshen up appropriately before meeting with you, regardless of the other men seen before you and in most cases, unless you book an early bird session, she has had sex already that day, if not the night before. And who is to say she hasn't had sex that morning with her SO? Seeking a professional SP you are aware she has sex for money, and that she is likely very good at it. I understand not wanting to think about the other guys or see them in a gang bang but the reality is, most SPs can and do have sex with more than one client a day and not suffer any issues with freshness or quality. I realize that it can be a bit more of a personal service than say erotic massage, but it is a physical one, similar to erotic massage so why get fresh with the "fresh" comment? AFAIK few would comment on the "fresh"-ness of a popular MP working a 6 or 10 hour shift at a rub and tug so why is it so common in reference to SPs? Re:gangbang comment, I would hope that the other men participating in the gangbang would not allow the sexually frustrated ones to harm or abuse the priviledge of the lady sharing herself with them. No means no, no matter what! To even think this scenario creeps me out more than you will ever know, makes me think of gang-rape a la Jodie Foster in "The Accused". A gang-bang is consensual adult sex and the second someone says Uncle, it should not be an issue for the participants to accept this. If it becomes one, then see above movie and call a lawyer...

My advice on this is to find a lady who advertises with someone. This is because, if the ladies advertise together, they clearly know each other and like each other, which is essential to having a good duo. If you have two ladies in mind that do not advertise together, but you know them both, it's also possible to suggest it to each lady. I've had gentlemen I've never met contact me asking if I want to get together that day with him and another SP I've never met, and my response is sure, I will see you as a couple, and charge my couples rates. That is NOT a proper 'duo', as I'm being brought in to see two people I've never met. However, I've also had gentlemen I know well suggest other ladies he knows well, and she and I have discussed, and the duos have been wildly successful (and OH so wild and wonderful!) A big tip in what I just said above to is to suggest the pairing to the ladies in private. I'm not talking about the fantasy duo threads, but it has come up on many threads and profiles where a gentlemen will say 'Hey 'selected SP', you should contact 'other SP' and offer duos with her!'. While this is flattering, it can put the lady in an awkward situation, where others may then begin contacting asking for this duo, and the girls haven't even met. And then the girls may have to contact each other in private and explain why they are/are not interested in the pairing. Chemistry between the ladies is the absolute key to having a good duo, so imo it's unlikely you'll have a successful one if you just pick two girls and throw them together. But if you know they're friends, ask them in private - you never know, the sparks might fly!

I personally know nothing about this location, but I would hope that noone comes in and shares any of the ladies personal location info here. Where the ladies reside is private, and how many ladies are at each place is also private. My advice would be, if you want to see a lady who is advertising in this area, read her recommendations. Location is almost always noted in the reviews. Also, if you want more details than is available in the reviews, perhaps PM the gentlemen who wrote it, and ask if he can address your concerns regarding location.

I am officially a late bloomer. I will always be young at heart. And thanks to good genes, I will likely look younger or at least 'good for my age' too. I didn't enter this business until I was 33, and looking back, I know I couldn't have done it any sooner. It was extremely tempting to lie about my age. Who would know? How could they find out? By shaving some years off, it could also potentially increase my client base and possibly allow me to work longer. But I thought loooong and hard about it, and decided as much as I wasn't crazy about being honest about my age, I've never, ever lied about it before, so why start now? I'm 36 years old. I feel I look young and youthful for my age. Mentally and emotionally I feel no chronological age specifically. Just comfortable and happy enough with myself to be honest about it. I applaud all the other SPs who are honest with their ages. To me it shows integrity and confidence to be able to do so. We should all be proud we've made it this far! ;)