Clearly you read my post and went all inward with it. I wasn't completely clear...completely understandable. Humans are known for that ;) My apologies.
....but, when I said, "these girls", I was referring to the "party girl/party friendly" ladies (that was the vein of discussion due to the provider focused on in this thread having a guy hanging around - providers who have guys hiding in closets/waiting outside the room are a different type of provider than yourself or providers like you - we can agree on that, yes?). I didn't mean all providers....just the, well, I won't get into it....but I'm sure you understand what I mean.
I'm the last person who would generalize about providers. My best friend and someone I can say out loud that I love is a provider and I am very close with another girl who works. I've met and spent time with quite a few different "levels" of girls in this industry.
I apologize because I have seen the bottom of the barrel and the ups and downs some (and I said some - not generalizing lol) of the ladies call their lives. But I have spent enough time in said lives to see, regardless the circumstances, they have family, care about their pets, are incredible people, etc. .......all the "normal stuff" a non-provider is supposed to be. I don't see my friends as providers, I see them as friends. I see their good - but I also see the bad in their lives - their pasts, the people who have used them etc. and there are cases that can be atypical and that is what frustrates me - just the inability to see their actual worth due to the lives they have led (or been led into) so far. I see how much they have to offer and their potentials and it's annoying to watch "these girls" stay in that negative cycle because they don't think they can get out or don't feel they are worth it. That's my beef. :) If you don't fall in that category, then awesome!! ....but "that girl" does exist and ignoring that they do isn't helping either.
Now, on the flip side, I can totally feel your frustration when you see some dude "generalize" about escorts. It may be akin to how a African American may feel in today's society. Not ALL African Americans have grills, carry guns and are in a gang - but it is that small % that get all the attention/press - thus a "generalization" may occur. So, Joe Blow Black Guy who is a accountant and doesn't even know what a grill is still has to deal with generalizations and he is usually pissed about that. Just like you in this case. I get it and I apologize. :)