This...👆...all day...
Bring some drinks, or a gift...can be a simple box of chocolates. Take a lady to dinner, get to know her, and each other...you may be surprised how your body & mind react to the exchange...some of these ladies (this one in particular I will add...😉), have an amazing ability to connect with you, naturally, organically, & have so much more to offer you than what one "typically" considers when meeting with a SW'er...they'll be on your mind long after you part company...and you'll find your experience rising to a level few consider, or take the time/effort to achieve...
Don't just take my word for it, try it, and I'm guessing you'll be glad you did...🙏✌️