I think your inquiry is a sincere and appropriate request to ask of this community. And I appreciate your bringing it up.
Many providers provide company and companionship, and often indicate social dates on their various web sites; some dates do not necessarily have to be linked to a sexual encounter later on.
Alternatively, having a friendly "movie date" might be the sort of "ice breaker" some folks want to have, not only for its social/warmth/cuddle factor, but to be comfortable taking the date to the next level.
Everybody has their own specific needs and unique desires, wishes, wants; coupled with their emotional temperament, their need for human closeness, and also their age and life situation.
Personally, I value closeness and connection.
I've noticed that no providers have yet joined in the discussion. I'd love to hear their perspective!