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Everyone still getting emails? Some people reported lyla.com as sending SPAM EMAIL so the new system in place lets us know when a complaint it made (5 in the last month)
SO I AM BANNING ANYONE REPORTING US AS SPAM! This includes marking the emails in your INBOX from this site as SPAM mail as that can sometimes be enough to register a complaint.
When you register here WITH your email address you authorize us to send emails so making it as SPAM is unfair to everyone who wishes to receive emails from the site.
In your USERCP you can choose to NOT GET NOTIFICATIONS or DO NOT SUBSCRIBE TO THREADS. Please UNCHECK this and remove all your subscriptions if you do not want to get the notifications.
Also... if your account has a DEFUNCT or BAD email address it will get BOUNCED (This also effects of rating) when this happens I will lock out your account until you add a valid email but please check to see if your email in your profile is still a valid email.
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I switched to a new SMTP provider. The issue is if too many people report the mail as spam these 3rd party SMTP providers just cancel your account without notice. Even when you pay them!!
I found another one today, we are going to try it.
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Does anyone know how to set up the email so it works? I have tried all sorts of things. I dont have the time right now available to look into this dmarc thing or anything else for that matter.
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You should post this in the recommendation area for her then?
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I am very glad to see everyone posting here in a positive way on this thread as it had potential to go very bad. I think londoncapers got his answer.
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Anyone advertising sexual services you may want to AVOID since it is now illegal. We do not discuss escorts who advertise such things here any longer either.
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If you download the PUFFIN browser app for the ipad the chat room works on it. It is a VPN flash capable chat plugin. I do not think the webcam features will work but the chat itself does.
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Plus this thread discusses sexual services being offered (this was LEGAL before Dec 2014) but now is NOT LEGAL to discuss here so please be sure if this discussion continues that no sexual services are not referenced as available, hinted/suggested or anyone looking for.
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They officially were forced by apple to ban all adult sites... Tapatalk may be going away we will have to wait and see.
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Its not that important really, the https (notice the 's') means the page is secure (encrypted between your browser and the site) helps you stay more private. Stuff like the chatroom will not work is a secure https environment but chatroom is in flash so its pretty secure too on its own). Your browser will warn you when you go from secure to non secure. No worries.
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Hi Folks, We have a new sponsor for the lyla.com site. You will probably notice the CAM4 ads kicking around the site now. We do not normally allow sites that contain pornography photos or videos but the head office approved this live cam site for advertising on the network. If your into that please check them out, keeping our sponsors greatly helps keep the site up and running. Thanks.
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Others may be taking more of a risk, maybe they operate in Toronto but have servers and business address in Amsterdam (like many have done). The law is not being enforced right now but it could as it is law now and anyone seeking paid for sexual services is breaking the law so the censors help educate people as well as protect anyone who may not know the law.
For the ladies they can LEGALLY advertise however no one can ALLOW them to advertise (It's a catch 22) if we allow someone to advertise sexual services they are not at risk but it puts the site and the owners of the site at risk.
Legally anyone can advertise NON SEXUAL services here and DISCUSS escorts and let people know they had a good time with one of the ladies, if anything goes on above and beyond a non sexual date we don't want to know about it and it should not be discussed in public, anyone posting and saying "Hey i got such and such from so and so on our date" would technically be admitting to breaking the laws.
Don't vote conservative if you dont like the current laws.
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I see you are affiliated with a company so yes a paid account is required. PM me for info.
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I gave someone a warning for posting negative comments about a lady, they replied by PM with the following (I removed the persons name to keep them anonymous).
My Reply to this person...Dear Mod,My comment, which you viewed as negative, was posted because someone on craigslist was warning about the young lady and her pimp. She reportedly would take the money, leave the room and then her pimp would come in and demand more cash. Guess I should've posted it under the warnings section.
The internet is so anonymous, it makes it easy to exploit/abuse. I don't know if your being honest when posting negative comments or malicious and trying to discredit someone so here on this site we do not say negative things. PERIODNo! Not at all! This would be hearsay, do you believe everything you read on cl?If this was first handed experience (and you were a seasoned member here) I would allow the info to be put into the warnings section but whats to say that this is not her competition or someone trying to cause her problems?
By doing this your just helping a bad person spread rumors! Don't spread rumors! especially those that you do not have any first hand experience to confirm.
Anyone who does not agree with this policy I tell to go find another discussion site that is more fitting for them to call home. This community was and will continue to be built on POSITIVE comments and people!
It shocks me that people still tell me we are doing things wrong by not allowing negative comments here. This site has been running for a LONG time now and has a good community who embraces that core rule. New members continue to join and try to tell me that this is not the way we should do things. Some even go as far as saying they have some sort of right of freedom of speech to say what they want here in our members only website.... i politely tell them to go review the laws and when they educate themselves come back and apologize for the ignorance.
Some stats to share and prove our policies work...
Cerb/Lyla Purges some old posts each year (a few thousand) but currently we have 525,041 posts
We have over 55,600 registered members
We have over 9400 members who post and contribute (Active Members)
On average we have 1100 people on the site at ANY given time
We have OVER 60000 unique visitors a month to the site
We have OVER 200000 visits to the site per month
On average the site serves 190GB of data per month!
... and that accounts for over 15 MILLION hits!
Being positive, being nice to people, focusing on the good! ... IT WORKS!
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Remeber under the new law one can not offer sexual services or seek them from a paid provider.
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I merged your old account with your new one Steve.
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Maybe get a new email address from another company and try that? Most phones will take multiple email accounts and check them all as one account these days.
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make sure you check the spam/bulk email folders and add rules when you can (If you see them in spam mark them NOT SPAM so that the system learns to not mark them as spam).
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If the bullshit cat fight continues on i am going to start suspending or banning people! I will ask the council to decide who stays and who go's so i suggest you all get out of the schoolyard!
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This looks like a scare tactic site with links to an adult dating site and a reference site.
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Sorry folks email is so unreliable these days. The server sends thousands of emails out for notifications so it can be seen as spam and blocked... Especially when people flag them as spam.
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Bit of a learning curve but worth the effort! ;0)
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I'm with gmail. I do receive forum notifications but not one pm. ConfusedIn your USERCP area do you have
Receive Email Notification of New Private Messages
checked off or unchecked?
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Welcome back, lets start by posting ads in the correct section HERE: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=316 and be sure you read the RULES & FAQ carefully. Since you have been suspended once already further breaking the rules would result in longer suspensions or banning. You can find the rules link UNDER the LYLA.COM logo (Rules & FAQ)
Hey...it's Janice here. I'm sorry - and I'd like to thank the Mod that took the time out to explain the situation. I double posted an ad, so I was SUSPENDED for a week. I had two accounts, and I guess I got a little impatient for my ad to show up.Lesson learned. So...I'm working tonight and I'm super excited because I just got a new bed moved in and it's great!
As for the step-daughter...I deal in fantasy. If any of you guys out there want to play out a secret fantasy that you've never been able to tell anyone about...or maybe just something fun, I'm your gal. I'll put on a show for you with someone half my age though - someone who could in fact be my daughter. She may show up tonight.
Sorry to the mods, and kisses to you.
XO
Janice
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Email Notifications Acting Up?
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We are not relaying through gmail, I tried that and it worked for a day. We are using a third party smtp relay company now and most people seam to be getting the emails. check your BULK/SPAM folder please.