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    I'll provide the caveat that I'm not much of playa but I do play abit. I've never been asked to provide a reference and likely wouldn't. If there is a provider I'm interested in seeing, I'm prepared to take the time to ensure both parties are comfortable. It's a two way street as far as I'm concerned. I don't rely on reviews to make my decision, I rely on the response I receive when I make an intial contact. If there is an interest I'll ask general questions about services provided and rates, but I don't ask about anything specific. I'm open about who and what I am to the point of sending a pix and providing my contact details. I'm polite, respectful, fun and extremely chosy. I know what I have to offer and if I can't get that across through some communication then so be it, I'll just move along. It's not life or death to me.

     

    I do get that there are some fucktards out there and references are a very valuable tool to weed them out. I just feel that very quickly I can demonstrate I'm not one of them.

     

    Peace

    Mr Green :)

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    Wow a neat topic and isn't great to be alive?

     

    Being a little older I've pondered these and most life type things many times. People come and go in our lives all the time and some we have very intense and intimate relationships with and with others it's much more casual. Have I been in love a lot or have I been in lust a lot, the answer to both is probably yes. Can you be in love with more than one person a time I would say yes. And it will happen when and where you least expect it. To me love/lust are inseparable. I can't be in lust with some one I don't have some form of love for. I agree that love doesn't have to be forever and it's ok to just enjoy it and ride the wave and when it's done it's done. It doesn't diminish it for me at all. In fact I'm not even concerned if I'm not loved back the same way.

     

    I promised myself a long time ago that I'm going to live a lot, laugh a lot and love a lot.

     

    And that's exactly what I'm doing!

     

    Peace

    Mr Green

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    Here's my current favorite topic these days, the tyranny of the minority. The fucktards who screw things up for the rest of us.

     

    I'm not much of a player but one time a sp wanted confirmations right up til the last minute to make sure I wasn't going to cancel or no-show. So I told her I won't book unless I'm virtually 100% sure I will attend. If something does come up and if I have to cancel (and it's never happened) I would cancel with a minimum of 24 hours notice, hopefully more. If I can't meet my own self imposed 24 hour notice then I would remit a least half of the session cost because of a missed revenue opportunity for the sp. I thinks that's only fair and frankly I also expect the same consideration.

     

    It's about respect, courtesy and simple manners in my view, shit does happen and sometimes things are unavoidable but one can still be classy in how they manage the situation.

     

    Just be nice to each other......it's pretty simple

     

    Peace

     

    Mr Green

  10. Posted

    For me it's always been about the whole experience. I had to overcome my own insecurites and performance anxiety and with the help of a kind, sweet and patient pleasure practioner I think I have. There was a mental connection before there was a physical connection and I believe that's what made the difference.

     

    Each visit has been better than the one before, our comfort with each other has grown and I expect our times together will become even more pleasurable as we learn about how our bodies react to each other and share and communicate.

     

    Peace

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    Hi, over the years I been the eb/to many many times. By far the cleanest r/t parlour in the city, the rooms and tubs are pretty nice. The shower area is very clean. Cal has run an operation that has very little LE heat mainly because non/fs rules. Every so often there is someone who breaks that rule and it get talked about on the Boards and the rules become even more strict for a time. Any one who has been there over the years know that sometimes the "rules" are broken. Many of indies (on ec) and girls at Nevada and Broadways got their start there.

     

    If you're into a r/t session it's the place for you, covered bj are also usually offered. I always found it best to have the tip out in advance and speak to what you're looking for early on, it helps relax everyone and gets the awkward part out of the way. Some girls will be more or less interactive depending. But as usual if you're polite and open the sessions can work well. Kissing isn't an automatic and infact in my experience quite rare.

     

    You can buy 4 sessions (room only) up front and get a "free session". It allows you to call ahead and book someone rather than take a chance that their available.

     

    Some may try to grind you on the tip, I always checked in to make sure I was being fair.

     

    My experience was $60-70, exceptional service maybe $80 for a r/t and I've heard $75-100 for a covered bj (wasn't my thing) so I'm not sure.

     

    Typically girl in the tub and r/t 45 min session $120-150. If you pre-buy sessions it can be

    $ 105-125.

     

     

    Good place to start out.

     

    Peace

    Mr Green

  13. Posted

    I imagine most of the clients seeing sp's are regular types of guys and are polite, respectful and appreciative and seeking a mutually benefical experience. And being some what a neophyte I likely have no idea how many emails or phone calls that popular sp's recieve daily or weekly. And I know that there are some jerks out there who are time wasters and are rude and crude. I just figure it's not the majority by a long shot. Like most business the 80-20 rule likely applies. I'm hoping that it's 20% who are dicks and 80% aren't and not vice versa.

     

    My biggest sp turnoff is either a cynical and rude response to a polite email inquiry or a repsonse thats a mere lisitng of their do's and primarily don'ts and having no interest in engaging further. Also I find myself questioning my participation when reading a sp's site where there is a need to outline do's and don'ts that to me are just plain common sense.

    It sort of makes me feel like an ass that these things need to pointed out and I'm somehow being painted with an all inclusive brush.

     

    So in the end I guess my biggest pet peeve verus turn off is allowing the tyranny of the minority rule the day.

     

    I might be sadly mistaken or just don't understand and if thats the case I take it all back :)

     

    Peace

    Mr Green

  23. Posted

    How sad :(. I was raised up proper and because of that I have developed impeccable manners. That as well as excellant posture are 2 of the things about me that I truly value.

     

    There is no reason to be rude to anyone and certainly not to someone you'd like to see naked. In my books a woman is a lady until otherwise proven. Once a rapport has been devleoped more suggestive kinds of exchanges may take place. But that's not for everyone either. This game is tough enough as we all struggle with our own insecurities and a minimum civility should be the norm.

     

    I see very very few providers and don't see everyone I communicate with, for me it's the whole process and as much as I'm being judged, I'm judging as well.

     

    In the end even if I don't "hit" it off with a woman and am moving on I will have been respectful thorugh the whole process.

     

    Let's be kind to each other!

     

    Peace

    Mr Green

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