Not trying to sound flippant, but stick with the ladies found through CERB. There is a great deal of chatter around the BP ladies, but the ladies on CERB are "vetted" by the membership and the moderator. The moderator is very tolerant of these discussions. I would hate to see us lose this wonderful resource due to lack of support for the ladies we find on CERB.
I am working on getting my 5 posts in - I have been a member for 1,451 days and have been content to lay low. However, the nearly one page reminder that I haven't met the 5 day 5 post criteria is slowing me down. Time to get my five posts in.