roger dodger

well, i won't win for the biggest, but won't lose for the smallest..lol. remember ladies, it's not the size of the rise that satisfies, it's the throb of the nob that does the job. and it's not the size of the wand, but the magic that's in it, and they call me Merlin the magician..lol

i just bought a 17 inch Toshiba with 6G at best buy, and i only paid 499.00 plus tax. it,s very fast, and very nice.

thanks Geezer.

hbon, i am sorry, but as a client, i have to offer another insight. If you went to a bar and tried to "pick up " a girl, would you ask her the same question? I think you may not get the same answer you got from these lovely and respectful ladies. You would probably get a slap in the face. I think the ladies here were very respectful in the way they answered. They were just honest. I also think it's a very rude and inapropriate question to ask anyone, unless it's going to be your possible life partner. The SP's are much more aware and clean, than most girls you would pick up for a one nighter in a bar. The sp's know all the risks, as opposed to a drunk girl in a bar that may have no clue what she is doing.

I do agree that sp's providing bbfs is a very dangerous and careless behaviour. It's not only the lives of the two people involved that it afffects, but every other persons that both of you will encounter in the future. I have come a few ladies that offer "no restrictions" and after talking to them and asking questions, found out that it was merely a way to get more people to call them. I have told these ladies that it's not fair or right to false advertise, and that they may be putting themselves at risk. When the client comes to their place and finds out that the ladie has lied to him, some may get very angry, and who knows what can happen. Some sp's also offer "pse", which again some times may be very misleading. The best way is to dicuss thouroughly your intentions and wants to the sp, and then decide from there if she is what you want. But the problem exists that, and this has happened to me a couple of times, where you have both agreed on the services provided, but once you get there, and give the donation envellope, all of a sudden the services have changed. I have been offered bbfs 3 times, and have declined. Twice i left, and gave half of donation, before even anything was started, and once, where i could not finish, even though no fault of the sp. After she noticed i was having a hard time to finish, she offered that i could finish bbfs. I politely declined, told her it was in no way her fault, told her i had a great time. She was sad i couldn't finish, but i told her i would come back the next day. All was great the next day, and she even offered me her session at no charge, to which i declined.

This happened to me also a couple of years ago with a girl from Pink Kitty. The lady looked exactly like my niece, so i profusely apologised to the girl and gave her compensation, called Jason and explained my dellima. He was very understanding and let me see another lady in the same hotel. I have always had great experiences with Pink Kitty, and why i was quite a regular for a while.

You don't know what you're missing :)

Yeah you're right. Don't really know why i have going only to parlours, and usually only the asian ones. Dammit, time to expand my repertoire lol. I actually have 1 lady in mind now that i am PMing and trying to find the right time to meet. I may be aiming high, as i have recently heard that she's the best. Will be putting a reco out as soon as i am priviledged enough to see her.

It's been my experience that men fantasize and want an asian girl more than any other type of woman am I wrong,if not why?

I used to fantasize about asian women when i was younger, and in the last 5 years or so, i have been with at least 150 to 200 asian women. I have been with ladies from pretty much almost every race, and i keep returning to asians. It is maybe just my preference or my taste. It is not to say that i have not enjoyed most of all the other women, just that asians are my cup of tea. There are a lot of reasons that i have, including that they look so much younger than their real age, they have the smoothest skin, they have in most part hairless bodies, in daty they are the most wonderful tasting, they just have that " exotic " look. It used to be the norm that most asian girls had very small breasts, but in recent years that has changed. The only thing that i have noticed about all the asian women i have seen, is that i found that most are not great at giving oral. That may be the half that Annessa isn't, because if i remember correctly, she is incredible at that lol. This is no disrespect to all other ladies, this is just my observations and preferences. I have seen many many non-asian ladies and had incredible times, it's just the asian ladies is what i seem to prefer.

Hmmmm, sounds kind of interesting.......... except for that whip thingy LOL

 

don't knock the whip thing...can be lots of fun....lol

Megan says it all right here. It's really up to the lady and should not be expected on a first meet. There's a few clients I have that I'm quite comfortable light kissing and do not charge extra $ for it. Most MA's are all inclusive and you should not be expected to pay more. This request is more of a GFE style massage, and there are ladies that offer it as part of their session. I wouldn't like it to be looked upon as an extra or to be expected as two people should do what they both feel comfortable doing. The cold and flu season is here so we all have to be careful. As well, if you're prone to cold sores you do need to be more aware and responsible. Just like everything else right? : )

sorry if my quote was misleading, but i was talking mostly about MA parlours, not independent MAs. I unfortunately have never seen indy MAs, but in MA parlours, almost everything is extra on the most part.

This is with like anything else with an MA, or SP, u need to ask the lady what she allows or doesnt allow. Ask in a nice and polite way, and the worst she can do is say no. A lot of times, it is very much YMMV, but sometimes its just how the lady is comfortable with you. Not often will an MA offer LFK or DFK on your first visit, even though it can, its just not the norm. But maybe after a few visits, she may become more comfortable with you. Always remember that if she does offer it, it will be extra payment. Good luck.

I don't know about other Canadian cities but in Ottawa, Bella Escorts, Pink Kitty and Explore Her do most of their business as incalls. They also are paid advertisers on the board and regularly post the availability of their girls.

 

I've had great experiences with both agencies and indy's. It's really a question of how the lady prefers to work.

i prefer independents also, but have had lots of great experiences with Pink Kitty ladies and a few with Explore Her. I think everyone has different tastes and likings. Both are very good.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=53180

 

I think this may be the person you want to contact:)

thank you for the link.

Interested in finding out if anyone has seen Ga Ga. She advertises in the ottawa sun. If someone would prefer to pm me the rates and services offered that would be fine also. I beleive she is asian. Thank you.

As far as I am concerned, lesson learned and I have moved on. I agree with Megan though as this is very rare with a reputable SP. In fact, it never happened to me in many years. I have also had very good experiences with dancers. Actually, in 15 years, I never had one similar bad experience... this was a first... and a last. Again, lesson learned... life goes on. Special thanks to all of you who supported me. Cheers!

i am sorry that happened to you, but one of the golden rules is never cash upfront. You are not the only one this has happened to, but most guys are too proud or too emberrassed to admit it publicly. There is no good that can come out in confronting her, as she may agree to meet you later to pay you back, but when you get there they may be a couple of guys there also waiting for you. Better to lose a couple of dollars, than losing a couple of legs. For fs, stick to cerb ladies, much safer, and much better ladies.

congrats man! Have used your service many many times in the past, and will again very soon. always great experiences and great service. Keep up the good work!!!!

Anyone heard of or know where Vivian is working now? This is Vivian that was working at 868 Merivale, and before that Gladstone location.

There is always the possibility of falling in love with an sp, or ma, but very rarely does it work or last. One of the problems i have found in my years of hobbying, is that many times, even though the sp or ma and i would of gotten along amazingly, it will almost always be in the back of their minds, is how you both met. I know some people, as i have also had relationships with some ladies, that later on in the relationship, if you get into an argument, the "how" you met sometimes gets into play. It's a very difficult line to cross. It can happen, but it is rare.

In my experience, sometimes you really click with a service provider and sometimes you just don't. I have had some amazing moments that still leave me breathless when I think about them. Other experiences have me convinced I must be the worst lover ever.

 

What are your experiences? What do you do when the experience just leaves you limp from start to finish? Do you go back over and over to those you click with? Are you fearful it may be a one time thing and don't want to jinx it?

Chemistry is so important. I have been lucky i guess in going to see mp's that i have had great chemistry with. I have repeated many times with most of them. Some i couldn't see as often as i would of liked due to the fact that their rated may have been a little higher than i could not afford. Not they were not worth it, to the contrary, some of the experiences with them was priceless, it's just that i had a budget to live by. I have been with a couple of sp's, NOT from Cerb, who as soon as i got there, the lady was looking at her watch constantly, and when during intercourse, would say " hurry up baby, cum for me quick". Well, once i actually stopped and walked out lol. The other one told me as i walked in the door, that we had to hurry and only had 15 min because her bf was coming home early, even though i had booked an hour call. Well didn't even took off my shoes, and left with her yelling at me i owed her 150.00 for cancellation. " Are you freakin serious" i asked her. I left, and have been seeing only our fine, sweet, beautiful ladies from Cerb only except for 1 lady that i have seen for at least 5 or 6 years. These two previous other girls were obviously only doing this for the money. Most of the ladies here on Cerb do it for the money of course, but it's because it's what they want to do, and enjoy meeting new people and actually enjoy sex, some more than others lol. I must say, quite a few of the ladies i have seen on Cerb i would want in my personal life as a gf, even though that would probably never happen, i am not that lucky lol.

I have in the past dated dancers, ma's, and sp's. Even though when i started dating them, i thought i was ok with it, but it didn't last because i became more and more uncomfortable with them still working. I would defenitely date someone now, but to be honest, she would have to quit the industry. I would not be upset or jealous about her past, as everyone has a past of some sort, so who am i to judge. The past is the past, so to me in a relationship, that is how i would want it. I would never want to talk about that part of our past. But i have to admit that when i was dating ladies in the industry, the sex was absolutely amazing, as these ladies really know how to make a man happy, and really like to have variety.

Is this the place on the ground floor (hairstylist) place ?

it's beside it, upstairs where the adult movies are, but different room

I am slowly remembering certain ladies, another one i miss so much was an asian girl named Nicholle that worked on Holland ave. Started as a ma place, then owner got greedy and advertised in escort ads and massage ads at same location, but with different phone numbers. Not a good idea to advertise to LE what you are offering. When i told this to owner, he said no one would notice, and one week later they were closed. I miss Nichole very much. She left Ottawa and never came back. What a shame

Hey 2 guys half the time each. Do the math...

 

Also, we are not interested in SPs who will be doing it only to have more $ for the same duration, but we are looking for SPs who will really enjoy it.

 

We have done this before and we have never paid double (just because it makes sense not to charge double and give each half the attention).[/qu just got to say WOW!!! I guess if you did this before and didn't have to pay double before, consider yourself lucky! It is a lot harder for an sp in a mmf, than for her to be alone with a client. There is defenitely the safety issue, but also that she basically has double the work to do. It is hard enough for an sp to try and feel comfortable with a total stranger, let alone two strangers. The fee they charge is what they are comfortable with and what they feel they should be charging, so i may be wrong in saying this, but i think your comment is a little insulting. Sorry if i am wrong, but that's what i feel when reading your comment . The ladies from Cerb are just that, LADIES and should be treated as such.

Another vote for Redsedductress. Glad to hear she's working in her chosen field and enjoying life. My memory of our times together are still crystal clear :)

 

I also really miss OAF/Candyland's PSE Maggie, the first lady I saw from them and still the gold standard I carry when I see their newer talents. I hope she comes back but I have a feeling she's permanently stationed in Hong Kong.

 

Great thread idea btw.

ty. it just brings back so many memories lol. I also remember PSE Maggie, with the hot water bbbj. Surprisingly enough, that was the first lady to ever do that. It felt so amazing. Also, miss Marianna. She was such a beautiful girl and very sweet. Would like to know what happened to her if anyone knows.

Sexy Brooke, sweet and gorgeous, definitely memorable.

god, u just brought back so many great memories lol. yeah, she was incredible and so much into it when she liked you.