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    I want to try chocolate-dipped bacon and go to the mega annual Bacon Festival in the US! It's on my Bucket List./

    Did bacon-wrapped hotdogs n tater-tots the other day - yum!

    Costco Maple smoked thick cut value pack is pretty good.

    Love the iron skillet each Saturday morning :)

    Best thou is Homemade Bread Bacon n Sweet Pickle Sandwiches!!!

  3. Posted · Edited by BownChickaBown

    ...and B)

     

    Sp's like discretion to ,it seems that there is a big double standard here,or is this just my misunderstanding things after all what do I know !!

     

    As seen on CERB time and time again, blanket statements can quickly lead to misunderstandings, as discretion, like many other things, such as recommendations of a SP, can be very, very subjective - whereby the perception of having apples and oranges linked does give one pause for thought as to the clarity of the original message/post, before leading to true or false inferences and conclusions.

     

    I'm sure different SPs have different ideas respecting their comfort level to the discretion of themselves and their business, for example, such as when a SP chooses not join CERB and/or not post 'discreet' photos of themselves on the World Wide Web, or whether a SP chooses to. That's everyone's prerogative, with pros and cons, risks and rewards, and consequences intended or not. C'est la vie.

     

    Albeit, a fundamental virtue of hobbying appears to be stringent privacy of clients (from what I have learnt in my time) - for many reasons, toward egos or otherwise. For example, the worse thing that could happen is clients, individually or in general, become 'turned off' by the perception of a low/lowering level of privacy by a SP (or SPs in general), as it begets a perceived increase in the risk of having their secret 'hobby' exposed, "package"-wise or in any other way.

     

    In reality, whether from a perception of low/lowered privacy or otherwise, if less clients participate in the overall industry then inherently what shrinks is the market, with less capital to invest amongst the same SPs, possibly lowering the price per hour as supply becomes more competitive - that is to say, imo, is a lot harder to stimulate the overall 'sex-onomy' than most any individual guy on planet Earth :) That is to dare say, one would have to stimulate a lot more guys (per hour or otherwise) to make up for less privacy and maintain current donation-levels. To avoid this, no 'shocks' to the market status quo surrounding the outing of client privacy would appear to be best - as a clients' SO (or whomever) may not appreciate the complexities of the situation if the cone of silence was raised (in whatever way) and the client(s) were possibly taken out of the marketplace.

     

    So, I do not believe there are double-standards here when comparing apples and oranges, as standards are different by nature of the industry, not nature of the gender. Service privacy is service privacy is service privacy and service advertising is service advertising is service advertising.

     

    ...recos serve their purpose, of course!but the ones that do describe a womans size,and othe graphic details aren't necessary. To reco a lady is great but it can be done with class and respect,for both parties involved.

     

    It seems in this society a womans breats ,bottom,legs are fair game but when it comes to a mans"package" the rules change.

     

    Undefined, 'class' and 'respect' are relatively subjective.

     

    The 'hobby' and 'society' are also 2 very different overlapping sets of paradigms and practices. I appreciate both apples and oranges, and fruit overall - but an apple is always an apple and an orange is always an orange. Uniquely and inherently similar and different at the same time, but never exactly the same thing.

     

    Personally, I believe life is all about learning and appreciating the wabi sabi of 'fruit'. Bitter sweet as it may be :D

     

    To note: I've never seen a recommendation thread comparing the 'size' of one SP to another, in whatever trait, however sexually 'graphic' a SP and the services enjoyed are described - and I find the 'best of' threads more an homage to, for example, bums overall, and not a bum-by-bum comparison of one against another. In the end, the biggest sex organ has always proven to be... The Brain, of each and every SP (or non-SP) :grin: ...and Variety appears to be the Spice of Life :wink: Bon appetit!!

     

    I find the best recommendations ones with a combination of descriptions towards the ladies personality and service skills, so I can imagine seeing myself enjoying such a lady as most compatible with my own personality and skills (albeit limited - but I try! :p ).

     

    Its been said men are obsessed with the size of their package so I'm sure secretly we would all have loved to seen the responses. But how we handle those responses really boils down to how comfortable we are with our bodies.

     

    If I may say in general, and imo, (after being one) 'boys' are more obsessed with size of their package (and whether they get off) and 'men' are more obsessed with getting it up, and getting the lady off too. From more sexual physicality to more sexual mentality - at least for me anyways (rightly or wrongly, it seems to get the most out of life for me :D ).

     

    An example of this to me was in seeing the difference in the level of complaints toward 'best of ladies' (physical award?) threads (that is, a much lower level) compared to the 'popularity poll' of most valued community member (mental award?) threads (that is, much higher level of complaints). ...but maybe that's just me. :S ...as I could be misperceiving such, and that may not be a fair comparison in itself.

     

    Secretly, not "all" of us would of liked to have seen the responses, as with myself, I am much too busy trying to better understand ladies - not guys. Guys are simple :) We have a penis and (most all of us) love boobies and sex and boobies!! HaHa! (Obviously, this is not a comparison to ladies, as I have never been one to make such a comparison, but I dare say ladies are not so sexually simplistic as us guys - imho. ...and if I recall correctly, this was studied in one wicked part of an episode of 'Curiosity' on Discovery Channel - women like more mental stimulation in general compared to guys when it comes to the big O. Friggen science is awesome! ...unless the Discovery Channel is BS'ing me :-S)

     

    ...incongruous...

     

    Thanks southman for teaching me a new word! :)

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    ...and C) I vote for sexy CERB as having the 'best package'!! CERB blows my mind all the time! ;) hehe

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  4. Posted · Edited by BownChickaBown

    It would be easier to see the sites you are talking about then talk generalities here.

    Please feel free to PM them to me if you want and I will give you any insight I can with any experience I have with them.

     

    As you mentioned above, always check: http://www.cowboysdiary.info/

    ...before galloping off on your adventures.

     

    Better to be safe then sorry :) Good Luck!

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    I could not agree more - there are some elements of the profession us clients have no business knowing about and I think this may well be one of them.

     

    ...I completely disagree 110%, as in my opinion, ignorance is not bliss, and knowledge is power. This is the Information Age for a reason ;)

     

    If there is danger in the business, toward ladies or clients, we should all educate ourselves and be aware of it, and not be apathetic in conformity to turning a blind-eye to it possibly happening to others and hope it never happens to us, or someone we know. I know Ottawa has it's shady under-belly and can be a dangerous place at times like any other city - but like other replies in this thread, I agree the best weapon one can have is to have ones wits about them. Any victims in turn deserve our help, and not being able to identify the signs of such dangers does not help with making this any easier.

     

    Anything a lady, or a gentlemen, can do to protect themselves is good information in my books to allow us all to build the safest community possible.

     

    ...and then let's all hope no one ever has to use a weapon, but if need be, then use it wisely. Brains included!

     

    Peace and Love!

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    my personal opinion is everything included except BBFS...because if someone offer it, they are well more then crazy...Just all what you would consider PSE I guess like bbbjcimsw, cof, greek

     

    This is my take on the term too, as I see BBFS as a standard across-the-board restriction to begin with. I know BBFS is out there, but it's whispered in hush tones moreso then anyone who would openly advertise it.

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    *HUGS* for the Great Story Emma!

    Makes me wanna go hug my Grandma right now :) Good karma!!

    Keep it up!

     

    Last weeki was in Halifax and the hotel i stayed at is close to the Hospital...i often sit outside the hotel and chat to people...this one morning a lady i was talking to told me a sad story of how her husband had passed away just 2 weeks ago and now she was in Halifax because her 87 year old mom was having her leg amputated..she looked so sad and lost i couldn't help but hug her deep and hard...{i am a caper after all...we love our hugs}she smiled and thanked me so much...every time i seen her after that she hugged me and thanked me for that one big hug i gave her. Something so simple and real can give someone strength for the day. So pass on the hugs people...it makes people feel good.

    hugs,

    Emma

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    A friend of mine pass away yesterday (well 2 days prior,but he was only found yesterday, dead in his sleep)...he was 26 years old and died of a heart attack. This isn't suppose to happen...:(

     

    I am going to bum hugs!

     

    Well my dear, from me to you, here is a...

     

    *SUPER-DUPER FRIENDLY WARM GUMMY? HUG*

     

    GummyKiss.jpg

     

    tc Princess :)

    Carpe Peaciem!!

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    To everyone...

     

    I would like to hug all your bathing suit parts with my mouth...

     

    Does that count?

     

    Leave it to me to smut up puppies and kittens...

    Hehehe!

     

    Yes that counts, and even encouraged!

     

    ...and Sara, let me join-in on your smut-terization by saying: Is it just me, or is that boy puppy cupping a feel from that other puppy with that hug? :|

    haha Smut-Puppies!!

  24. Posted

    It may have been rare and little of my doing (other than being ready and willing and just what was around at the time for these particular ladies), but I consider myself fortunate to have had a couple of such decent non-hobby related proposals :-) (...and sometimes, just sometimes, Santa truly does reward nice guys, and not always have us finish last :D )

     

    (Long story short...)

    A girl I picked-up online back in 2001 whom I 'had relations' with for a couple of years tickled me one day not long ago and asked if I would like to meet her friend (supposedly her friend had been single for a while and needed a shag, while the original girl was 'not available' anymore). It was all good to me, when after the first meeting of her friend, the original girl then wanted to join-in, to which we all did one night - then another night not long after (before it all fell apart, which is a different story).

     

    This was all at their proposal and they are not working girls, so I guess it can and does happen, as it luckily did for me :-)

     

    Got to love the early days of the Internet!

    (...and ladies, as a guy, I truly appreciate when you refer us to your lady friends for friendly-benefits ;) hehe Keep it Up! Thanks!)

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