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That's a great point To actually point it out to the sp , that is what i am looking for and agree on it. I hadn't done that before. But on her website, the sp clearly had that listed as a service. So it was dissapointing. Thanks for the recommendation, but I am having trouble finding that group " all things greek" , can anyone link me , please?

Yeah , thats true. The same case with my GF who doesn't do greek. Thats why i thought maybe i could get some help on this board finding a lady who does offer it and actually does it well . No bait and switch

I want to know who is a lady that can can have great anal sex. I have met 2 ladies before that said they offered greek , but one said and that shes not in the mood pretty firmly and the other plain said i don't do that. So it was total bait and switch. This is my fantasy and i need help finding the lady who can help me fulfill it. So maybe, any guys on here, who have had a good experience can advise in a private message. I don't mind if my "mileage varies" for this request. But i do also want to try to have sex with the girls vagina with a dildo in her ass. (hope the language is not to explict, didn't know how else to put it ) lol

lol yeah that was a good one

Okie so I have a HUGE fetish of getting together with an emo girl. i don't mean literally emo. i want to know if they're any ladies who wear lots of dark eyeliner and straighten their hair alot to look really punk and have pale skin. thats a huge turn on for me would love to meet a girl with that get up. i know someone like lindsay on this site could pull that look off very well apart from her any suggestions?

is any of these ladies in ottawa? can anyone help me find them?

how could you not notice there was someone in the washroom.. wouldnt you need to use after or before to freshen up, and with a closed door like that , wouldn't you get suspicious.. and when you paid the sp , and you saw her bf, did you get any of the money back, or did you just pay to walk out? Additional Comments: whooaaaa.. i admit it man. i ain't seen nothing

Great comment. I couldn't agree with you more, when the girl is ok.. with a facial, it feels like you're forcing it on her and it takes out all the eroticism out of it. Girls should either just say no. or really enthusiastically beg for it.

That is EXTREMELY erotic for me.I would do anything to meet a lady who has that ability. In fact, for me that easily tops the biggest fetish. How much do you lactate? can you only do it on certain times? or at will?

I don't feel the need to touch myself for a couple days after I have a good session with an sp.. Sex 3 times a day?That would not be a big deal when you're really young. But at the age of 41?! If it doesn't mess up things in your life..then no big deal. Props to you on the killer sex drive man!

hah! I knew it, what? you thought that was a random guess? I know asian girls too well. Asian and caucasian nice . : D

I was wondering if she is asian or caucasian?

Met April A couple of days ago.Shes new at Pk, So I thought I'd meet her Definaltey didn't take too long to get comfortable. In a few minutes it felt like we had been friends forever Got down to business. BBBJ, 69, NICE! Had her undivided attention,which was nice She really REALLY gets into it, once you get her going. Started yelling each others name> Very passionate for sure. And she felt really wet. Had an amazing rack too. Too bad I didn't go russian , but you need oil to go to russia.. Worked up a hell of a sweat. Laid backed and chilled with a smoke as I told her about problems I had with me ex. She was extremely attentive, super friendly, gfe, had an awesome time.

Yeah , I guess I am being irrational. And I have to admit i am pretty young and so is everyone i hand out with, (meaning her friends). and my ex is even younger, shes only 22! but her whole high school popularity facebook drama , hasn't left her, even though she has a child. I need to be alot mature then this too. Sometimes, I just get so worked up over her, I start thinking like a child again..so irrational, and so immature, maybe i am hurt? or maybe i am justing looking for revenge in a very sketchy way. Her highschool immature life style drags me into this.Atleast her new bf, treats my kid okie, and my son will probably grow up to love him instead of me. I was just losing it because I hate him for replacing me, and i hate her for allowing this to happen. But my approach is so wrong, hell, i made alot of mistakes , i thought i would let this be just another mistake. I guess i need some perspective, and try to find a better way for this, or probably just give it time. I have so many issues, its no wonder she left me. lol Ps: (sorry about the sounding hateful with that word, didn't mean it).

first of all. Damn, this community is tight. Thanks for the thoughts. but so much advice and i am more confused than ever. But let me make a few things clear , about my plan. I would not add the sp to my facebook , so if she is in any photo, on my profile..Noone she knows will ever find out. Since, the chances of me having any friends in common with a sp are 0. okie, secondly, i would NOT change my relationship status at all.Not create any fake profiles, NOT attract any new attention and not showcase it to her or the world. they are just pictures of me smiling my ass of , and a gorgeous babe so happy in my arms, at a resturant..I wont be kissing and SHOWING I am in a relationship, it will be more like "go figure.." Since, my ex-girfriend can't know all the people i hang out with, she will assume its a new girl i met, and be jealous that she is so much hotter than she is. (thats why i need a real babe, or i wont get her attention) lol. I mean people!!!! seriously, think about this. If your ex , adds a few pictures of him with a new girl, and they're all hugging, and SMILING, and looking like he has never been happier... What are you gonna do? check forums like these do see his posts? OR demand your ex to be introduced to your new gf? no.right?, i have thoght about this alot.. and i know there is no way she can ever figure out, shes a simple gal guys, she wouldnt fathom it. so thats an explanation for people saying, what if she finds out ? dont worry , i thought of it, I will make sure its impossible. : ) or lets assume for a second that she cant.. Alright second, why dont you just have some private time on your own with an sp?.. well to be honest i have had quite a few encounters. BUT THEY were so mechanical experiences, and i just ended up cheered up for a day..or two. and then i am depressed.so thats that. Secondly, shes just a gf . Yeah well did I mention I have a KID with her? did I mention we split up 6 months ago? did I mention I HAVE TO see her every week, I can't get her out of my life , i just can't remove her from fb, man its not that simple.. Its so much drama in our lives, i could write a book. Let me make this clear, SHE IS SO FAR OUT OF my league,that when we walk into bars, people stare cuz they can't believe the girl I am with.. And now she finally hanging around someone in her league, and there all smiling, and posing, in parties, and commenting on their new pictures.. And the guy is so mcuh hotter than me, and i can't take it.. she tries to make it jealous and it works!! BUT WE HAD so many years of history!!! We were so in love , that she used to CRY in my arms. GOD , and how did this all fall apart in the last 4 months?? OKie, it was MY fault for what happened, I had started being a real dumass in the last weeks after she broke up... Now. everyday i regret it.. but I KNOW THERE IS SOMETHING STILL BETWEEN US! everyone thinks so, she is just trying to make me feel bad for my mistakes, and showing me i should have cherished her, SHE MAKES ME FEEL JEALOUS. ANd yes it works, because Yes i am crazier than ever about her. But my self esteem, is low,so low that i can't even fucking look her friends in the eyes, anymore, cuz they all thought i was a loser, they all KNOW ITS BEEN MONTHS but i can't move on. And thanks for telling me to just get a new gf guys, but umm. my last name is not exactly Schwarzenegger . okie? girls are not that into me. not that simple. i need something simple Sorry for the long life story, but why am i doing this and my life issues can only be resolved by someone who knows me personally, and has seen what i have been through. Still my question is, assuming the following: I don't change my facebook relationship status. I don't add the sp or have any personal contact with her at all. I make it impossible for anyone to know. would sp providers still have an objection? IF sp providers think this is something, they can do, by acting natural, SMILING their ass off, looking very classy(not too much makeup ), and posing with me like you totQally think that i am the best guy in the world. Those are the kind of pictures i need with an sp. After that i can gaurantee the pictures wont come back to haunt the sp's.. and they won't ever have to worry about it and they dont have to do anything they are not comfortable with. If you ladies are happy to do this and can understand how i am feeling and what i want.. then please pm and tell me more about yourself, so i can decide if you are the kind of girl i am looking for. (now i am thinking it will be an 9-10 hour date btw) ANYWAY!!! as much as i appreciate receiving the "the shallowest guy on the earth" award, i will conclude by saying this. My ex's and her friends look like they all walked out of the front page of a magazine. since, they know i have no one in my life, same old loser friends, and have nothing going on, they assume i stay at home all day like a fag, with no life. I CAN"T MOVE ON! and i have no self esteem. getting these pictures will show her stupid friends that "BITCH i am with a supermodel and shes way hotter than you!", atleast i will get my confidence back , if not self esteem!!! I need this guys, i really do. How do i get more self esteem, i feel ugly, and like a loser!! I know this will help my self esteem atleast and make me feel better. Just people advice me , on how to make this look as natural, if i just had to DO this, what are some tips? For everyone, who says " why are you doing this? are you really going to feel better"i say, you can't judge man. you don't know where i am , and what its like.. if you did. Then you would understand why, you might not agree..but you would understand why i am resorting to this/ ..........? lol, will anyone reply? and what kind of girls are gonna reply..lol whats my add gonna read?ALSO , the photo model thing sounds like a f***ing BRILLIANT IDEA!!!Pm more about that PLEASE!

Okie so I am asking sevice providers this. I am sort of new to the whole idea, but not totally. I am actually interested in something very different. What i want is this. To find an gorgeous, innocent looking , sp close to my age. Take her on a date for 5 hours, and take pictures with her in different poses in different locations indoors and outdoors like two close friends would. The sp would be fully dressed (no controversial pics) and would be fully compensated for her time.Plus I would pay for the food ofcourse, etc. Is it weird for sp to do this with a client? what do hobbyist think about this? Would sps mind have their picture taken (fully dressed) . I am ask this cuz they ussually hide their faces. The reason I want to do this is because , my gf dumped me a month ago, and has moved on..I want her to see that I am not mourning over her still. once i post those picture on facebook, she will definately get the message. Since she dumped , It kills my self esteem, so bad, that THIS is the extent I am going to , just to feel better about myself. I know . I am shallow. But sps wouldn't mind this right? I am new here on this site too. so be nice? lol

True, very true. Plus, if you connect and talk to your date before hand , get to know her, just like you would talk to a girl you meet at the bar. Basically, get to know her very well, you're likely to enjoy yourself alot more, rather than if you just met her, clothes off, take care of business mechanically and over..atleast i think so. Also, with one hour meetings, the service provider, is also bothered about the time, because it is so short. She might be thinking about her next client he is going to be there in 10 mins. But with a date like 4 -5 hours, sp is likely to be completely relaxed, and totally foxused on you. works out better , right?

Very well said. That's exactly what you should consider. My advice is this. Be extremely over friendly, and have perfect hygeine. If you are very friendly, your 'date' is going to be very comfortable with you , less awkard and it will be easier to connect. Start off with a short meeting. So that you do get along. Can you imagine, if you pay for a weekend, and you don't get along at all and its awkawrd...?