Chanel Reign

Sex all night long with my s/o (if I had one). I love long sex.

Turkey or chicken?

Do hobbiests know how nice it is to hear that it's not all about them? Believe me...THAT'S a turn on for sure.

Spent some "me time" lolling about in bed and cuddling with my furbaby this morning. After a busy 3 days, it was absolutely fabulous.

Tom, please read my response to your pm. I can't add to this thread anything other than what I have said. But I will always have your back in the Hope Zone.

But you already know that.

Kinky Sex

Being a Sub or a Dom/me?

If it wasn't for CERB I would not be an SP and having so much fun!

Yeah maybe. So you want us to do what?

Wondering how my doggie is going to handle going to the vets tomorrow!

Watching the Oilers and the Canucks as I type. :)

I do admit to the jury still sort of being out, but in this case I do believe the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

I am willing to be proven wrong. Without going into detail, I worked through past Liberal establishments and was up close and personal with the differences between the Conservatives and the Liberals way of doing things.

I'll just say that with the Conservatives, there were far less bottles of liquor in the desk drawer, less free for all open bar parties, standard gifts, and fudges in contracting; that with the Conservatives I frequently found myself in the Ministers office "chatting" because I would question them.

However, I don't know how this administration is run, nor how Trudeau would run his; as I have been out of this for over a decade. That was about the time I crossed the floor. I call myself a Conservital Liberative. ;)

I do not believe that Justin has the focus or any better a moral compass than Harper. His agenda is his own, and will flip and flop with the wind to gain majority approval (ie kiss ass). The exact opposite of the Harper reign. Neither is a good fit for Canada in the present day. Unfortunately there is no viable alternative.

Although very young I went through the Trudeau years, but as an adult have seen the fallout first hand. Pierre was no better than his cronies during the day; and I was glad to see most of them leave politics in one way or another. If PT had been around in today's political climate he would have been crucified instead of given a sort of sainthood that so many did.

Loved C Hitchens but I sure can't discuss/debate him with some folks. They are so narrow minded as to not want to hear anything that doesn't fall into their happy little place.

I did wonder that too.

But I would also like to know why he has been here

more than a year now suddenly is of a broken heart.

It occured to me, at first, that maybe his GF found his account.

In which case, sorrry dude, you brought this on yourself.

But this post, given that after 15 months

& his only one, his profile says Hobbyist but no reco, & now, poor me???

My second thought is,

" Pity Party Ploy ", cheap & looking for a sympathy freebie. "

Sorry, I don't think so."

Sandi

I think that the issue of a freebie has already been addressed. There are lots of people here that never post. Maybe it is just what it is. Plain and simple.

I have never outed myself, nor do I intend to. There are 3 people outside of CERB that know what I do. For a lot of very important reasons.

The most important being my family. For one, this would be the cruelest thing I could do to my Mother. The hurt would be as if I had cut out her heart because of her personality and religious beliefs. And while she is my best friend, this is one secret she doesn't need to know. Why would I do that to her?

My very best friend knows and only very recently. She actually surprised me with her reaction (or lack thereof). She had a lot of questions because of her concern and the fact that she knows so little of this industry. I was upfront and honest reassuring her that the mainstream stereotypes she thought were fact were in fact not.

Discretion is a two way street, and I expect no less from my guests. Since I see some very high profile and recognizable Gents not on CERB (Ottawa is not that big) there is rarely any divulging, even between my SP friends. Who I see is my business, their business and no one else's. It would be unrealistic to say that we don't share on occasion but these are women in the industry that I trust.

My public life is mine and not relevant to what I do. Given my friend base I suspect I would lose some friends simply because of attitudes. I do not feel it is up to me to change that as I love them just the way they are.

If I've made her squirt...massive turn-on. If she had to do it herself...massive disappointment, but, still cool.

I'm sure you can agree that it takes some practice for a man to know exactly what to do to initiate this type of orgasm. It's the same as women have to know what muscles to contract to "build up" their head of steam, so to speak.

If a gentleman is not hitting the exact right spot, which is different on all women, it's not going to happen. This is why when I know what's about to occur but things aren't aligning right, I will either gently guide said appendage (fingers, cock, whatever) to the area or do it myself while he watches. I have never seen disappointment on any playdates face.

I suppose I can understand the disappointment of not achieving this yourself. It most certainly isn't a failure on anybodies part. Especially if the Gent is a new client, and doesn't know the Ladies body, or doesn't know the technique. (It's not that difficult guys)

Plus one can always try again if the women is a multiple orgasmer. ;)

Female ejaculation has to be the strongest of orgasms I have ever experienced and has now become involuntary. When entertaining I have to put extra protection under my sheet or my mattress would have been ruined by now. I too love to make a woman do this. It's an all round turn on for me. If it's me or a woman I'm with. yummy

Speaking of being able to do things remotely, I have a boner all the way here at my home :)

Buzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Hot tub in a hotel. Makes for spectacular sex.

Trip into space or a 2 week cruise?

Totally illegal, but on my own time there's nothing like getting it on in the bushes or tall grass where one wont get caught. ;)

Thigh high boots. I love boots.

fine dining or homemade meal?

For years I have repeatedly asked that they stop wasting the trees and stop delivering mine. Those requests go ignored. It gets stored in the basement and gets recycled all dusty and unused. Bad Bell. :spank:

Looking around for my awake. I seem to have lost it.

Yes I don't use that for condoms but its really slickery so I like it. The Kama Sutra is an old standby from my pre-SP days when you could only get it by having KS parties. lol

They do have some all natural lubes that I want to explore but I need to do my homework on those first. :)

I use several. But for this purpose I use JO Premium, it's a water based warming Gel or Kama Sutra Intensifying Gel. Its fabulous for this.

So do we now call you Gabby? :icon_wink:

Congrats

I totally agree with the "get the edge off first" concept. You are not alone in this.

I have done quite a bit of "edging" and most SP's know how to read the signs.

Some of us even endeavour to "train" speedy orgasmers. The last thing I want is for a Gent to think that that was it, that was all.

When a guest is upfront about this it makes my job easier, as distraction can slow things down quite substantially.

I also fail to understand the "one off" way of doing business. I am certainly not dissing any SP who works that way, it's just not for me. If I get to orgasm multiple times, why shouldn't you?

The best advice given here imo, is beforehand thinking about your pending visit and privately ripping one off just before your playdate. Then take it really slow when you do arrive.

There are ways around this; you just have to find the one that's right for you.