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kmwq

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  1. Okay, this doesn't really fit here but I have the urge to tell it so I'm doing it. Quite a few years ago, I was driving up north to Huntsville from TO in the middle of the day. Stopped at McD's drive through to get a meal with a large drink (back then eating and driving was not consider distracted driving). Anyway, had the meal and almost finished the drink when the urge to go the washroom for number 1 hit me. I was running a little late and didn't want to stop for a pit stop and yes, you guessed it. I finished off the drink and since traffic was very light, while still driving, I decided to take out the little guy and put the large drink cup to use. Why this thread reminded me of the event is because as I was filling up the cup, I got a raging hard on. It was kind of exciting to be fully visible for anyone passing on the right to see what was happening. After I filled the cup and carefully put it away without the straw so I don't forget and you know. I sort of just let junior hang out (or stand up) for a bit, many cars passed and a few mini vans and SUVs. I would glance over as they passed, a few looked over and whether they realized what they saw or not I don't know but it was exhilarating for me (I think I'm a closet exhibitionist). Junior was standing tall for quite a long time before he got bored and relaxed back into position. That's my story and finally able to share it.


  2. Very similar to most here, I love my wife and we are still very much in love but we were never very compatible when it came to bedroom matters. Mostly it seemed she participated to please me and probably she wanted to start a family. Once we had the family, our bedroom activities disappeared. It slowly dropped off over a 10 or so year period and then I realized that I was constantly needing it and pleasuring myself to keep the desire at bay. I was becoming bitter and miserable and thought long and hard about asking for a divorce but could not see myself happy without her in my life.

     

    I went through some serious meditation and soul searching and realized that having an affairs was out of the question. In the end, I decided to get a non-RMT massage because it did not involve any "participation" on my part and that was how I rationalized it to myself that I was not cheating. I was travelling for business a fair bit in Europe and Australia which gave the opportunity as there were many legal establishments to choose from. That lead to meeting some amazing ladies who provided the release and over time, I participating by touching them back and then the reverse massage and then seeking out the full encounter. My frequent business travels to Europe and Australia ended about 8 years ago but I was still travelling within Canada and that is when I found this website. I learned the norms of how to behave and to participate safely here in Canada, so I owe this site a debt. I try to contribute where I can even though I haven't been able to participate much since the stupid new law came into effect. I'm currently back to self pleasuring again but hope to re-enter the hobby soon.

     

    One final note, my relationship with my wife over this time has improved dramatically. I'm no longer resentful of her for not wanting to be active in the bedroom. We enjoy each other's company, we attend the theatre, concerts, museums and galleries, we started hiking again and travelling for pleasure and have rediscover the activities that brought us together in the first place. This is the life that we had wanted with each other.

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  3. Striking out with plan A, put plan B into play. Plan B didn't respond until it was too late to accept, ask for a later start and getting ignored. Plan A then says it can work if I go to plan A's location but also too late for me to make it on time. Plan palm had to be deployed.

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