Flipmatic

I think I can see both points of view, being a student and having limited amount of money coupled with loneliness can lead to partaking in this industry. I for one haven't asked about discounts because I see the advertised rates and being a shy, polite young man I wouldn't ask about discounts. I never for a second thought it would be rude to ask about discounts because there are some providers who say in their ads " ask about discounts". I personally don't think it's a big deal. From the other side, I can see it being annoying. I work in retail, which is arguably the most annoying field to be in, granted there isn't a great deal of risk as being a provider but we get the same questions about discounts. It's aggravating sure but it comes with the territory, everyone is always looking for a deal. I can understand the annoyance/frustration of having discounts be inquired about but there's an incredibly simple solution to it. Simply reply," No, I don't offer discounts". Please understand that I know people who are checking these sites SHOULD know not to ask about discounts ( but we have to accept the fact that people nowadays seem to ignorant and self-unaware in pretty much every aspect of daily life). I have an opinion that may not be popular here with our extremely lovely and accomadating SP's. I believe that you're being a little bit bitchy about this when as I've said before, reply with " no, I don't offer....", and it's done. It's a question, you can answer it and there we go. I am completely guilty of the same thing in my job as I get worked up over annoying people as well but it's a part of my job. I work in a grocery store and have customers come up to my counter and look at food and ask how much something is without even looking at the menu which can be viewed with a simple tilt up of the head. As well as asking if they can have a discount because it's a little bit later in the evening, my store actually keeps the food and makes entrees for the next day and still customers will give me dirty looks about not getting a discount, I just say "sorry", and walk away or serve someone else. I feel for you, and thanks for reading my vent about shitty customers.

What reputable asian agencies are still operating downtown? I feel like it's all in the west end now. Anyone with information please share or PM me.

What are the best boards to look for people advertising? there's obviously Lyla, BP, and those are the only ones I know of and looking to find out other options.

So I'm looking to set something up with a lady from one the asian agencies, something I'd like during our time together, I'd like to have the lady be dressed in something other than lingerie ( bra and panties), when I get there. I think it might feel a bit more intimate while getting to know them ( as much as you can get to know them), and peeling each other's clothes off is always fun anyway. I've asked in the past for it and it didn't happen, maybe there was a language barrier, or it just wasn't past on to the girl. It didn't ruin anything, but it'd be a nice touch. Any ideas on how to make it happen without seemingly like a jerk to the "reception" lady? Also, if being fully clothed is too much to ask, would it be out of line to request nylons? Obviously if it's same day and the girl doesn't have any nylons, should I bring some? Has anyone done that? Are there different sizes? Would it be rude to ask the size of the girl I want to see from the reception? Any help would be great, PM or in the thread. Thanks, Flip

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Since the forums are little over stuffed with threads, simply typing in "best boobs ottawa" doesn't really help. So I'm going to put it to you, Who would you say in ottawa has the best boobs, I'm currently in the mood for a nice set of big man mades, something akin to like Eve Lawrence or Priya Rai ( porn stars for reference) If anyone could help me out, please just post here or pm me. thanks ** I understand that those two are pornstars and I probably can't find that in Ottawa, which is why I say akin**

I noticed while reading this thread, that everyone is saying "Be Yourself". Great advice, but if you're new to the industry and you're not familiar with things that men like, it's a good thing to start this thread to give you some things. Look at some of the recommendations that people have written about some of your peers, some might not have much information, some of go into great detail. I like everyone who is politically correct on this website will say be yourself, that's what we like, though there are also little things as well. Myself, I remember if a lady asks me if I want to set an appointment up in a certain way ( outfits, etc,) and sometimes the lady hasn't worn what was agreed upon, I don't write a bad review, I don't bring it up with the lady because it's not super important, I can get over it without making a big deal. If you are doing incalls, my opinion is that you have a nice location ( decorated, has a lived in feel), I feel that a room with a bed isn't all that exciting no matter how charming I feel you are. I think the environment reflects on the situation just as much as the person regardless of what you're meeting for. A stark room with a bed is just too business like in my opinion. Again, good points from everyone, the overwhelming theme seems to be yourself.

So I've been wondering lately as I haven't made any appointments in the last couple of months due to school, and other things, I'm curious as to what SP's are meaning when they offer a PSE ( like who are you modeling the experience after? Do you have any specific PS' that you try to emulate and which ones? Is that something you discuss with the gentleman?)? For the gentleman, what do you look for in a PSE, have you shown a link to any specific videos to give advice on what you're looking for?

I'm curious if anyone has seen Rosie since she's re-located to downtown Ottawa. I had a visit with her on the quebec side and it was a bit out of the way for someone on the ontario side. I'm just wondering if anyone has ventured out and could give some feedback. thanks

Thank you very much guys for the response, I'm glad I asked about it on the boards before I went ahead and talked to her the next time I saw her. I know I would be discreet about it either way, but now knowing its something that I shouldn't talk about outside the boards or bp, I'll obviously refrain.

So, I've decided to go back to school, and after my first day back, a wonderful thing happened, I saw an SP I had seen a couple of times with which I had a great time but haven't seen her in awhile except sporadically someone would mention her name. I know she had gone independent as she had been with an agency before. After she had gone independent she was looking for specific clientele which she had seen before and I was lucky enough to make the cut except that I had no opportunity to schedule an appointment. So after not hearing from her for a little while, and now seeing her at school ( I didn't make contact with her there, except a courteous smile as I'm sure she saw me looking at her). So if I get to see her in the hall again and she's not with anyone and she has a moment, is it a good idea to ask her if she's still in the business, and how would be the best idea without drawing attention to the fact that she used to be an SP to anyone walking by... any help would be appreciated. Thanks, Flip ( i won't be saying where we go to school, her name, her agency because that's not my place to say)

Does anyone have any information on this lovely lady, I've been texting with her but I'm just not sure. http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-visiting-european-613-410-3736-amazing-body-duos-also-openminded-23/19360425 any help would be appreciated

Can anyone suggest or recommend a high energy PSE sp?

So I don't know if it's a big problem, but I've had issues with "finishing" in a session, I haven't really had much sex outside of escorts, though I also have yet to "finish". I can do it by myself, no problem, I'm a pro at that ;). Though when I'm with one of the ladies, I don't know what's the issue. I think it could be nerves, but I've tried getting to know a couple of ladies and the nerves have gone away, I can get the tool ready, and the girls seem to have a good time, though I don't get to pop :(. Questions I pose are, has this happened to anyone? What have you done to fix it? What are some tips, and would anyone like to try for my first?

I think your 3rd wish is a standing 69, same as mine.... ;)

I'm relatively new to spicing the positions up, some of the old favorites are still good, Missionary, doggy, cowgirl etc. Being a male, I've been known to check out some adult videos ( as one's to do ;) ), and I saw the standing 69, I want to try it though I'm a relatively small guy 5'11, 170lbs. Anyone know of any providers that'd be willing to try it or have tried it and maybe give some input? Also throw out some experiences and things you want to try as well.

Has anybody had any sound issues with the chat room, anytime I have the chat window up, and I'm on youtube or something, my sound cuts out on the other programs. Kind of curious, as to if it's an issue with my old computer, or just an issue with the chat room program.

It has to be Hannah from PK, I heard she was dancing now, but if she isn't someone has any info on what she's doing, I'd definitely visit again, and again, and again.... and so on and so forth..

I knew there was something up when she kept asking me where the cauliflower was.

it'd be nice to see if they are available, she's purdy

So I visited a lady today, and it was a great experience as I asssume it normally is when you meet people from this site. Though this time it was a little bit different, I spent an hour with this wonderful companion and it wasn't a get you in, get you out kind of encounter you get with the half hour, so that being said, looks like I'll be spending that extra bit of money to spend a little more time with her. I will obviously repeat. I also want to say that when I arrived, it wasn't to a bare apartment, there were furnishings, it looked like someone could live there and be moderately comfortable. I felt it was more inviting than previous encounters. So for myself and I'm not sure if other people feel the same way, but I would say have a little decor and it goes a long way. ----I know I'm not saying who the SP was, because I want to wait until I'm able to write an actual review, as from my posts, I'm relatively new.----

Can you get them in Ottawa without having to go through shipping from the states, or shipping from anywhere for that matter?

Good Afternoon all, I'm just curious as to being relatively new to the hobby, I've seen two ladies and they were great, Chantal Love, and Rena at Moonday. Though when I had met with them, it was in a fairly sparse setting, nothing too homely/lived in. For myself I think I would feel a little more comfortable coming to meet someone at a place that felt a little more inviting and less "business" like. Has anyone else ever thought about this? --I realize that it is probably because they SP's don't live there, and don't want to do business in their own homes--