Davrem

Cat that's a brilliant thought!

Good article, you make your point Mac. But do you really think it's just the money? I've got to think there's something more to it than that. We have a massive swinger community here and that's free to join. I think income is part of the story...

I'm in Ottawa, but Travel sometimes for work or pleasure. I've been posting on the odd board here and there and checking recos and I came to a realization. Ottawa is a hotbed of hobby goodness. I'm positive that we are per capita the most active city. I wonder why? 1. Good employment rate? People have money to spend 2. The conservative overtones of the city leads to a sexually charged population? 3. Politicians? They have a rep for it, maybe it's true. What do you think?

I hate to end this debate...but I was thinking about PSE... Porn Star Experience right...well...does that mean: A: They have acted in a porno (infers a certain skill set) B: That they are willing to role play as a porn actress (type of encounter) ...could it be C? all of the above?? Dav

Here's a few common sites and some off the beaten path ideas: the haunted walk at night is kinda fun. If you like Kayaking or Canoeing the club at Hogs back falls is good. Whitewater adventures (I think that's the name) if you're down with that kind of excitement. The Imax at the museum of Civ is the biggest in Canada, maybe North America still...if something good is playing If you've got a rental car then upper Canada village is a fun site (specially if you're a history buff) There's a variety of fairly big Flea Markets on Sundays...not bad if you like that kinda thing. There's a thousand little forested parks with trails that very few people know about and never get advertised to tourists for some odd reason. Elgin Street bars at night if you're 30+, market bars if you're 19-29...that's a loose range. If you Golf we have an insane amount of Golf courses...like seriously...it's weird. Hot Air ballon ride over the city...fairly cheap and if you have a special someone they'll take you up with an iced bottle of champagne. I'm tapped for now...

Hey kids I'm going to be travelling to Calgary at the end of July. I'm new to the hobby, so new I haven't actually hobbied. I'm looking for a recommendation (I've checked the list for Calgary and most of the reviews are pretty old, not sure who's still in the game). I'll be at the Palliser Fairmont and would love a farewell from a beautiful Calgary Gal. Naturally I'm considering an outcall...but Incalls work too. Guys; any ideas? :? Gals; no pressure, but you'll be my first :oops: Dav

Amazing responses! Thanks for the tips guys and gals. I'll check out that link and continue my studies :motion:

I hear ya Soleil...frankly, the day my mom offers me x rated material of any kind...even if it is a best seller...I'm taking my ball and I'm going home.

Great thread here. I'm a new guy with Zero experience...yep, none (with SPs). I'm trying to sort out all proper things to do, assume and not do. Most are common sense, but this was a good question. I'd feel pretty shy about asking those questions and then saying "thanks anyway" :icon_eek:

I've done my best to do my research on all things involved in the hobby; without actually having ever partaken in it yet. I have managed to figure out a lot of "dos and don'ts" by reading escort sites and I've pieced together most of the Acronyms... Here are the unsolved mysteries: Spinner: I assume not the stationary bike? YMMV: I know the acronym...I'm a decent looking guy, medium build...but I'm not modelling underwear. Should I have a great movie ready to go just in case? MA: something to do with massage, or massage only? Thanks Dav

Well...I've read this thread, many great points...I agree with them all. But how to handle the issue of "wont see "African-Americans"...why not just focus on who she does see? That way you're not telling someone outright NO because you're <fill in blank>. Instead "this lady is only comfortable seeing <fill in blank> clients. I think it's a hard blow when you say "not you", but not so bad when you say "only this kind". Does that help?