MsManda

To play devils advocate myself.. 😈 We all know that massage doesn't usually carry the same ymmv risk as certain expected gfe services would need to 🤷 He said in his original post that he was denied for hygiene I don't know you @Halifaxseeker, and I'm certainly not trying to shame anyone, so I won't elaborate on why someone might be denied based on ymmv for gfe specific services, but this isn't the same as ordering a massage, or a cheeseburger lol McDonald's doesn't care about the state of your hygiene 🤷 These are higher risk/ intimate services, which is why they're ymmv at all

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This is too loaded for even me to wanna touch it 🤦 .. But.. 👀🍿

Idk.. Lyla members make up such a small portion of the overall community here, that I'd still keep an eye on them for dates, if you're interested in them 👀 I follow providers on Twitter/X who are never mentioned here on lyla, but must do well because they keep coming back 🙂

He sees us like the cops do Nhi No human involved 🤦

Thank goodness this guy doesn't dictate the norms and standards omg 🤦

And interestingly enough, they don't make true crime docs about any of the above .. But they do about what happens to sps Sounds like we're not actually asking too much considering we risk our lives to meet strange men Clearly, even if we find clients in a reputable place like this, it's doesn't mean that we'll automatically be treated with respect People tend to act more respectfully when they leave a trail vs anonymous

Just come out and say you dont respect sps or their comfort why dontcha 🤦😂

Rapport is everything, and to establish that with a stranger via the Internet can be tricky, so we screen to establish a smidge of trust. The client should have done his research and somewhat trust us to even contact us at all. Both sides are supposed to do what we can to make these experiences go well, and resisting screening isn't exactly trust and rapport building 🤦 We're humans after all, not service dispensers lol

This forum is 🤦 because on one thread people will complain that Hfx has so few providers at all that you should just fly to another continent, but now there are somehow dozens of providers who don't screen? The math isnt mathing I'm not even trying to argue, but more I want this on the record for new sps who might come reading these threads and feel the pressure to not screen, like that's standard, when it's not

That's the lolz 😂 Whole ID verification is only done by a handful of sps, and for some of us it's situational, not standard I still verify who you are, but I don't usually need your ID card to do that, in the age of the internet My kind of clientele want me to be comfortable anyways, knowing that a happy and safe feeling provider is going to give them the best experience. They don't hassle me about screening because they understand why we do it, and want me to be comfortable, not on edge, when meeting a stranger ❤️

THANK YOUUUUUU 🙏

There's that ONE time that everyone here likes to bring up from a few years ago; a man that we HAD to identify between us sps, who had used fake aliases for screening with at least 10 girls, then written reviews on a number of sps who claimed to have never met him because he lied about who he was. He tried to use multiple girls as references who had claimed to have never met him, hence how a conversation was even started between us sps He also got wrong info from here and was pretending he knew things about sps - leading to safety issues when someone thinks they're paying for something that was never actually on the table, because they discussed things in the DMs here and assumed, rather than discuss with the sp he was booking 🤦 We couldn't know who we were meeting and the situation raised security issues for a number of us. It took 10 - 15 of us sps chatting and screening to sort out who tf this was. So yes, I'll keep to knowing who's visiting my location, thanks. If anything happens, I need to know who you are Tbh with how some men discuss us and circulate our info behind the scenes here, I wouldn't expect any sp to not thoroughly screen, especially lyla members. I've had a stranger describe my entire incall apartment to me - thanks to the pm system 🙄 Screening isn't some new protocol, it's been around for my entire career, but the newer ID screening here came about from necessity, which you can actually thank a prolific poster on lyla for 👀

Screening has been standard since at least 2014 🙄 You're going to limit yourself to certain providers, or maybe yfl if you're unwilling to screen No town is too small for sps to use measures that help keep them safe and alive ❤️

Take one for the team

All of the Erbs are independent of each other The issue for the Maritimes forums over the past years has been engagement. There's just not enough of it, and not much is done to encourage new members to join, let alone interact on the forums. Also, with so many sps moving away from the reviews model, I'm not sure what can be done about this, besides having it be a more welcoming place for both sps and clients 🤷 maybe more people would want to engage here? Idk With the lack of mods here, I don't see that happening tbh. This forum was more of an active community when I started; I built my business here 💕 but its gone downhill since the switch from CERB to lyla 😞 Sps do follow the money though, and the clients follow the sps, sooo take from that what you will.

This forum used to be called CERB 👀

Ouuu sounds like an opportunity for someone to make / maintain one 😈 The best alternative we've got is Tryst

A sign of a dying forum? 👀😂

Where are the $600/hr girls complaining? 👀 Yfl girls have to see 5 clients to make up what the $600 girl gets for one two hour booking. You're correct, it IS personal preference It's always business babe

Gfe used to mean just a vibe/atmosphere, rather than a set of specific services I tried to phase out the term because I don't totally fit in that box, but then I have people who meet me and say it's the best gfe ever and I should advertise it 🤷 What is an sp to do lolol

Ayeeee thanks for the rec! 🥰 I do know a thing or two about a sexy good time! 😈

Hmm.. When I'm touring, I charge more, because my expenses are higher Sw is my only job, has been for a decade Everyone should be allowed to decide ymmv, because it's the providers body, and choice what they do with it ❤️ Not all clients are compatible with all requests/offerings, and payment doesn't negate our consent Yfl, certain people will complain regardless of what the rate is, and what's included or not. The Maritimes has always appreciated that you're priced lower than the locals - trust me, most of us independents have been compared to your offerings 🤦😂 But 250 - 300/hr was the going rate more than a decade ago.. I'm not simply absorbing a decade of inflation out of the kindness of my heart. As independents, we just don't have the infrastructure to comfortably absorb those costs personally, especially covering our own overheads

Don't worry, I won't use it against you 😂 I appreciate you getting it tbh

That's actually insane, that their travel isn't covered 😭