MsManda

Take one for the team

All of the Erbs are independent of each other The issue for the Maritimes forums over the past years has been engagement. There's just not enough of it, and not much is done to encourage new members to join, let alone interact on the forums. Also, with so many sps moving away from the reviews model, I'm not sure what can be done about this, besides having it be a more welcoming place for both sps and clients 🤷 maybe more people would want to engage here? Idk With the lack of mods here, I don't see that happening tbh. This forum was more of an active community when I started; I built my business here 💕 but its gone downhill since the switch from CERB to lyla 😞 Sps do follow the money though, and the clients follow the sps, sooo take from that what you will.

This forum used to be called CERB 👀

Ouuu sounds like an opportunity for someone to make / maintain one 😈 The best alternative we've got is Tryst

A sign of a dying forum? 👀😂

Where are the $600/hr girls complaining? 👀 Yfl girls have to see 5 clients to make up what the $600 girl gets for one two hour booking. You're correct, it IS personal preference It's always business babe

Gfe used to mean just a vibe/atmosphere, rather than a set of specific services I tried to phase out the term because I don't totally fit in that box, but then I have people who meet me and say it's the best gfe ever and I should advertise it 🤷 What is an sp to do lolol

Ayeeee thanks for the rec! 🥰 I do know a thing or two about a sexy good time! 😈

Hmm.. When I'm touring, I charge more, because my expenses are higher Sw is my only job, has been for a decade Everyone should be allowed to decide ymmv, because it's the providers body, and choice what they do with it ❤️ Not all clients are compatible with all requests/offerings, and payment doesn't negate our consent Yfl, certain people will complain regardless of what the rate is, and what's included or not. The Maritimes has always appreciated that you're priced lower than the locals - trust me, most of us independents have been compared to your offerings 🤦😂 But 250 - 300/hr was the going rate more than a decade ago.. I'm not simply absorbing a decade of inflation out of the kindness of my heart. As independents, we just don't have the infrastructure to comfortably absorb those costs personally, especially covering our own overheads

Don't worry, I won't use it against you 😂 I appreciate you getting it tbh

That's actually insane, that their travel isn't covered 😭

Sounds like rates are actually still low then 👀😈

It was a different time for us too RIP 😭

Ll ain't no BP, that's for sure 😂😭

In my experience.. There's not THAT much of a conspiracy lol not even here in Halifax 😂 This isn't specific to sw.. It's been a problem since covid I screen my people, that used to be enough.. Now it's not, so deposits are necessary 🤷 But they're verified, real people, not pimps or Sp's

Power move? $250/300 was the going rate in 2012 😭 Back in the days when we met less screened guests, lyla clients were top tier, hotels were $100, and 90% of clients kept their dates without deposit - didn't even need deposits to tour 🥹 We can all keep crying about the good ol bp days, but it doesn't turn back time, or inflation, or slow down the no shows that have become so rampant in every industry, that even restaurants charge to hold tables now We've all had to make adjustments here lol

We're not allowed to discuss irl meets on the fansites.. Just putting that out there ♥️

We listen and we don't judge Civilians might think the same of a common hobbiest or escort, just because we get body to body with naked strangers 🤷 Some of the forum favorite services aren't exactly low risk

Pee isn't actually sterile lol but scat play just isn't for me I'm not sure who offers this locally, but you may have better luck finding this in a bigger city like mtl, Toronto, or Vancouver.

This isn't an uncommon experience.. It's why most experienced sps count, and then hide, the cash

It's not even just the couple grand, that's more the insult to injury.. It's the fact that we consent to providing certain things under the assumption that we'll be compensated as per the agreement we make before meeting. Removing payment invalidates the consent, because that was literally the deciding factor in us agreeing to meet To run up a bill with a sw and have no intent to pay is absolutely despicable, on more than just a financial level

Or just, ya know.. Don't rip off sex workers? 👀 He ripped her off for $2100 after she provided service. Her rates werent high either It's not like he shorted her $20 and she went to the cops ffs

Uhm.. Peanut gallery here 🙋 Did the op mention that the provider in question asked for a deposit or cancellation fee, or was this person merely posing a hypothetical question about cancellations in general? 👀

I think it should be left, for the post history, for both sps and clients, for future reference

Youre just insulting, at this point Most established sps (with pro photos) HAVE indeed done this 🙄