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  3. Posted · Edited by HalifaxMan58
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    I am not ashamed of my new lifestyle. My 32 year old trainer who I've become pretty close friends with over the last 2 years knows about my lifestyle. It just came up in the conversation about what I do and does that give me time for dating.

     

    What I do really doesn't give me time for dating and taking the time to spend on a relationship that is needed to make it work. I was honest and up front with him and told him about my new lifestyle.

     

    At first he thought I was joking, as I am probably not the type of man you would expect to be in this lifestyle. We talked about all the advantages. He told me he takes a lady out to dinner, movies, drinks and at the end of the night he might get a peck on the cheek, never knowing what the out come will be. Turns out that I am having more sex than he is. He wasn't very happy about that part. ;)

     

    On a more serious note. I will tell people as the subject comes up. I figure what I do is my own business, but if asked by friends or family I certainly wouldn't hide my lifestyle.

    I know I've said this before and I'll probably say it many more times. I am so happy I stumbled on this awesome cerb site!!!

     

    My 5 cents worth.

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    True. I put more emphasis on those being rude as opposed to being lazy, but I understand and respect your response. In the end, the ladies do like to have their instructions read, whatever the case may be.

     

    I do believe we are in agreement and on the same page about that!

     

    This site can be quite complicated when you first come upon it, or at least complicated for some of us Newbies...I am still learning things actually.

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    . Instructions are easy to follow, so these people must be lazy.

     

    I don't now if it is a matter of being lazy, or that the Gentleman would sooner talk directly to the SP. I acknowledge one would find out more taking the time to read the lady's profile.

     

    This is exactly the point I've been trying to make in previous posts. A lot of men don't take the time to read the instructions, or follow directions. I've certainly been guilty of this myself in the past.

     

    I don't know that there is a solution. I suppose just don't bother with those of us who don't do what is asked of us. That would be the simple solution.

     

    I've learned to read the profiles first now...There is the chance it just might be newbies just not knowing quite what is expected or what to do.

     

    One does get a very quick lesson in what is proper and what is not real fast. :)

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    First of all, I never said that they don't belong on CERB or any other forum. Please don't try to twist this into anything other than what it is.

     

    I have to disagree with most of this and I'm sorry about your mother.

     

    If they are on this site, which is what I'm talking about, not the Joes that walk in off the street, then they already know how to read at least. Otherwise, they're just looking at pictures.

     

    Their handicap or inability to write something is no excuse. As mentioned below, there's help in that area for whatever problem they have. Just a quick note is all it takes. It doesn't have to be a novel.

     

    Everyone also seems to be taking the kick in the ass comment rather strongly. I guess since I use it in my every day chit chat when I hear anything negative, it may be taken out of context here. Hell, my son and dog need a kick in the ass every day. Doesn't mean I'd actually do it. lol

     

    Come on people. Lighten up. This thread was originally started because some girls deserve and/or need their recommendations. For whatever reason you may come up with for not giving them one, I seriously can't do anything about that but you already know what I think about excuses. I don't know any of you from a hole in the ground.

     

    If you can write, be respectful and write one. If they don't want it, they'll delete it. Simple as that.

     

    Wouldn't it be quite a complete waste of time for someone to write a recommendation only to have it deleted?

     

    I wonder who are these lady's who seem to need these recommendations so badly? Have I been with any of these lady's?

     

    In this world you get much more with a more gentle approach!

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    I do understand what your saying and that you mean well by it but....

     

    I would be one of those guys you're talking about that have never wrote a recommendation. Yet I have been back to see the same lady 4 times, other ladies 3 times, just as an example! What that would tell you is that I certainly did enjoy their company. I believe that tips are more important that recommendations.

     

    Personally, the recommendation is not something I look at when deciding who I am going to see. I look at their posts and what they have to say tells you much about the person. I interact with them through P.M.'s sometimes through e-mail. In many cases I feel like I know the lady before I ever walk up to the door, or before she knocks on my Hotel door.

     

    I am new this lifestyle and have certainly made my mistakes. I was quickly told what I did wrong and what I should be doing and adjusted to that. I was given some really good advice in forums by some of the long time Gentleman here who I must say I do respect, and really appreciated the advice given.

     

    As RG said: "I saw _________for an incall/outcall. Place clean. Photos accurate. She arrived on time. Had a very good time (don't even need details here) Would see her again" I suppose this is something I could have done, but I don't think it would have given my experiences I've had to date the recommendation the ladies would have deserved. Some of us are not real good with words. I happen to be one of them.

     

    I do have Gentlemen who P.M. and ask me about ladies I've been with & do give recommendations that way. It sometimes is very easy to tell who Gentleman have been with just by looking at the Guestbook page. I've never had a lady tell me to give her a recommendation even when I've been back to see her for the 3rd or 4th time.

     

    I've gotten a little long winded on this topic. Probably from trying to explain why I haven't given any recommendations and perhaps not doing a good job at that. Imagine if you will what my recommendation would look like!. I haven't been with a CERB lady that I would not repeat with! I am just very happy I stumbled upon this fantastic site!!!

     

    My loonies worth!

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    I like Thumper for all the nice, kind things he has said about me. I am not all that big though, only 5'3 1/2", the cam angle makes me look bigger than I am ;) I do work out though 3 to 4 times a week with a personal trainer! But this is all about you! I heard you are a Fantastic Photographer, so I looked at your work and it is TRUE!!!

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    I've been a habs fans since I was six many, many, moons ago. I believe they have to get bigger to be a serious Stanley cup contender.

     

    Crosby, Malkin, and the Penguins are always a threat to go deep in the playoffs. IF Crosby can get by with no injuries for the whole season, he could win the scoring title.

     

    Crosby will most likely Captain Team Canada in Russia. He is a guy people either love or hate. I am probably Bias because he is from my neck of the woods. Without question he is certainly among the top 5 players in the world. Yes, I would pick him at number 1, with Malkin 2, then it is a toss up for 3, 4, 5! I'm sure there are those with different favorites, which would be good to hear.

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