Dbass34

Over 24 hours notice? Shit happen and you have done nothing wrong, from what you wrote. Yes the lady can fix her policies, but this is a bit extreme for me, in terms of fees. Move on. There are tones of beautiful ladies out there.

I share the same memories of the 70/80s, but I prefer totally shaved. Recently, I end up with a girl who wasn't shave and I didn't really like it. The look is ok, but the play a bit less.

I watch Captain America - Civil War, the movie that did introduce the Black Panther in the Avengers dimension. You bet that this is to go watch the movie Black Panther, sometime this week.

Otherwise, I started to watch recently "The last man on Earth"... not sure yet where that show is going, but I give it a try for now.

I also already saw the 4 Marvels stories : Luke Cage, Angela Jones, Iron Fist and Daredevil. Now I have to watch next The Defenders, that bring the 4 of them together.

Bumping up this old threat of almost 2 years that I find interesting... Would love to hear what people have to say today about that.

For me, hug is definitively the way. But I respect the lady's boundaries so when I walk in a place, I let the lady make the move of hug or what else.

If she give me a handshake, so be it and I'll know that it will probably be a "cold business" encounter. Rare, but it did happen a few time.

If she hugs me (please don't tap in my back like you console me... it's worst than a handshake.. lolll), I feel it should be a good session.

BUT..., if she welcomes me with a little kiss, following by a little caress on the other cheek... it may not be a business transaction, but I know I'm in business!!!

You will find a lot of the answers on this threat

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=153176

BP adds are not all fake, but a vast majority of them are... It is frustrated but it is what it is! The challenge with BP adds is to find who is real, who is not and it takes time.

But yes, if you want to avoid trouble, just stick with the Lyla Ladies, much more trustable!

I use BP as a complement to my searches, sometime a little info is there that I don't find on Lyla. But in my latest searches if a girl is not on Lyla, I pass.

That is an interesting question, HarleyMay. I don't know how popular these sites are today but it's my believe that if they are still on the internet, it's because there is a demand for them (regardless it's webcam, Skype, Instagram live, snapchat or something else...). At the beginning of internet, back at the end of the 90 - beginning of 2000, these types of "lives shows" were very popular. However, with the expansion of free porn videos or things like that, these days, I'm surprise that they are still on the market and that they can be sale well. Well, not that I know much about it, personally, as I never paid for that.

Now, your question is also to know if people around here would be interesting in watching local girls... I'm not sure that it would make a difference, for someone who like that type of service. Regardless if the lady is a local or not, I don't think there is going to have a significant demand from local clients. I may be wrong, it's just an impression. However, internet being without barer now, you will have customers from everywhere in the planet. Maybe a few but I don't think it will be the vast majority of the clients.

Just my two cents... :wink:

Ultimately and to answer to your question, for me it's a no, either.

D.

I concur with itd131, the website is a great source of information and when it is well built, BP ads can remain at strict minimum.

When initially contacting a provider, the more info is available, the better it is and it sets all required parameters. For me, it doesn't matter where is the info, as long as I can find it on the web, it's find. If a provider has a website or an ad somewhere else with all the info, it's perfect and she can just link her BP ad to it.

Before contacting a provider, what I like to know is schedules, rates, services (MA/SP/Hybrid), pictures, mensuration (high, weight, cup), ethnicity (if not obvious), contact info and any particular things that the provider want us to know or dislike. So, to work around the 140 characters on BP, the perfect ad can be just the name of the provider, some pictures, general location (city, east/north/west/south/downtown) and a link to the website that will contain what need to be know. If she doesn't have a website or another place where all the info are available, yes I found it smart, ingenious, creative (name them...) to upload a photo that contains all required information.

I hate when I must ask a provider what her fees are. Please, ladies, make it obvious somewhere to avoid negotiations. If the price is too high for me, I will move to the next one and not waist anymore of your time (and mine too).

I think it's in the best interest of the provider to put the more info somewhere and to make it available for clients. It reduces confusion, bad surprises, frustrated providers, unsatisfied clients. Sure, there will be always some problematic clients out there who are going to cross boundaries, but if there is no grey area, they can be minimal.

Is that Eliza at Angels Touch?

Yes, she is.

Hey everyone. A topic I am very inexperienced about but also curious . I've seen squirting many times , but never in person. Also found it very interesting and would love to experience it first hand. First off , and recommendations and secondly , positive feedback would be appreciated .

Thanks in advance!

You can search a bit on the forum, there are some threats about that subject. But I would suggest you to read this link before asking this question again.

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=651658&highlight=squirting#post651658

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#wettshirtsbabe

I prefer the evening appointments.

Very rare that I'm meeting a lady in the afternoon and never the morning.

The only time that I go in the afternoon will be when I really wish to see someone but my evening schedule doesn't seems to clear on the long term. In that case, I will look for an appointment just after work, before coming home.

But definitively, the evening appointments (between 7 and 10) are the best for me, I feel more relax.

Queen of the Damned (2002)

My sentiments exactly. A dose of sincerity is required to make a passionate kiss work.

 

With many providers offering "a la carte" options, it makes things more forced than it should. I prefer paying for the time and let things happen. If the chemistry and other conditions are right, the experience will feel much more real. The basic stuff is an easy sell. But for more intimate things like kissing, both need to be on same page.

Ok, my apology. I think I did not express what I was really thinking. Can I please blame it on the language barrier :-?... I think I took a short cut at one point on my post that made it sounds another way then originally :sad:.

Allow me to correct the impression of it: I fully agree that a provider has the right to accept or to refuse to kiss me or any client. What I wanted to say was that, for me, I find it strange to do all what we do in a meeting and not kissing. It just me, in my mind, probably because I prefer GFE. I know it can happen, I know a provider has that right, I have always highly valued all the rights of the providers.

Ultimately, I agree with you 100% that if chemistry, sincerity and other conditions are right, the experience will feel much more real. In such case, kisses may be at RDV. But if I have a session with a girl and kisses are not part of it, personally I don't think that I will feel any connection. But, initially, it is that connection that I am looking for. So, if it's not there, I will not want to repeat with her. And for me, repeating is a way to thanks the provider and to express to her that I did appreciate her service (but again, that's me, nobody has to agree with me, I know some people don't want to repeat...).

Anyway, I love to kiss and wish to only meet providers who are ready to kiss me :grin:.

Can somebody field me up with what is going on with this place, please?

I found this : http://ottawa.postfastr.com/BodyRubs/club-harmony-where-desires-come-true-ask-about-the-spring-special/49521427 but no link works and I don't know if I'm just not looking at the right place. Is this place is close?

And I'm adding my voice to this one, Eliza is a passionate kisser. I just did a one hour session with her, earlier this week, where we spend almost the entire time just kissing. I think none of us wanted to stop kissing the other one. And when she noticed: "I didn't even massaged you", I said "I don't care, I got enough fun!". loll.

My worst experiences with MA/SP (not a lot, but still there are) are with providers that didn't demonstrate that kissing was part of the menu.

I understand that some providers had mentioned they don't like the "try it and see" approach, but I prefer to let the girl set her boundaries and to let her come to me.

Now, if a lady, in this "parallel world", is not comfortable enough to kiss me during a full one hour session as we are getting closer, with us taking a shower together, with me being naked on the massage table, with her doing naked body slide on me, with her touching me in the most intimate spots of my body and me touching her too on some intimate spots of her body, I don't know man, I don't know! It sounds abnormal for me to do all that and not allow kissing. Well... I welcome all opinion but in such case, as far as I am concern, I don't think it worth to come back at all.

Kung Fu Panda

Well, welcome here Jasta

I suggest you to look at several/different providers profile to make yourself an idea of what is offer. It depends what you are looking for, what turns you on. Different ladies, different services, different prices. Make yourself an idea.

Many providers post on their profile every info you need to know. Some prefer you to text, call, email or to send them a personal message (PM) through Lyla. Read the profile, you will find the proper direction to reach the lady. Some will put their website on the profile (check on the contact section); I suggest you to go through the website if there is one and read all the info on it. Also if she has a Twitter or something else of social media.

Also, to make yourself an idea of the different ladies, read the recommendation section, if someone you want to know had been reviewed. You will find tone of great stories that will excite your day.

Best advice I would give you, don't negotiate rates, don't argue with her, be respectful and enjoy yourself.

Good luck on Lyla

The Black Bass

You will find beautiful and nice ladies pretty much everywhere. Each spa in the Capital region has its strength and weakness. Yes, some ladies will have an edge on others but never under estimate the power of the chemistry between you and the provider. It's not all about if the girl is good or not.

After a few years of meeting MA/SP around here, I can say that I met a number of fantastic ladies, well reviewed and pleasant providers. But with some of them (not a lot, but still...), the chemistry was just not there and/or I didn't find all what I was looking for in my quest for fun with a provider. I have in mind a girl that was a top reviewed in a good spa, I went to see her twice and it was my two worst experiences. On the other hand, I went to see other providers that had mixed reviews but for some reasons I felt that they may have something that I was looking for, something that attracted me and decided to go see myself; ending up with a great/awesome experience just because the chemistry was at rendez-vous between her and me. I am thinking of a girl that I repeated something like 7-8 time in the last few years; she has mixed reviews over the years on this board and elsewhere, but man, between me and her, the pleasure is mutual... nothing more to say!

To answer your question, sirsmitty69, I think you need to test several places to find your cup of tea, here in Ottawa. Spas around here have similarities and differences, I believe there is a lot about:

1) what you are looking for (what turns you on);

2) what the lady offers;

and ultimately

3) how the encounter between the lady and you goes, the chemistry between the two of you.

I like your final comment :

"Also, remember to support these ladies as much as you can. The better we are, the better they are. ".

I think this is also a key to every experience. Some OP need to understand that the provider is not alone in the encounter. When a session is not good, some OP have the tendency to blame it right away on the provider "she's not good", "she's mechanical", "she doesn't like to be there" and blablabla... all those sorry excuses we hear/see on a regular basis. That affects them! That is a lack of respect! When a lady walks in a room to meet a new client, she doesn't know what to expect, she doesn't know what kind of guy she is facing, she doesn't even know if she is going to be attracted to that guy. It doesn't mean that she will be 100% comfortable with all what he is. But, the OP is there too in the session, maybe the chemistry in the two is just not there because the OP is bad himself, has bad behaviour, is not a good lover or the lady is just not attracted to him, it can be anything. I'm a Black guy... some providers don't want to meet black guys, period. Racism, not attracted to blacks, afraid of blacks, anything is possible. If a lady doesn't want to meet black guys but I'm already sitting on her massage table when she walks on the room, chemistry will not be there. When a session doesn't go the way I like with a girl that I met for the first time, I don't blame the lady cause there may have tone of reasons (and I never play the racism card although I know it's possible). Yes, these ladies need our support. Yes, these ladies need our respect. Yes, without these ladies, there is no encounter (well,... in these days... if some OP want to see other OP, that's their problem... but that's another story and I wish them to have fun between them... lolll).

So anyway, sirsmitty69, I welcome you in the Capital Region and I wish you the best luck in your searches. Check on all these great institutions CMJ, Brass Club, Vibe, Paradise, Angel Touch, BodyBasic 3000, just to name a few, there are many more as the choice is there. Plus, all these wonderful and fantastic Indies of Ottawa.

Enjoy.

The Black Bass